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My next door neighbour shouts at his DD

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UndertheCedartree · 18/11/2023 20:00

My NDNs have an 18 month old. The dad absolutely bellows at her and smacks her. This has been going on around a year. I also hear him playing with her and singing to her and making her laugh.

I find it really distressing. And I try not to judge but I can't understand what she could be doing that's so bad at such a young age and so frequently. I hear him shouting every day. As soon as it starts I'm on edge, listening and hoping he won't smack her. I don't know what I can do other than wear ear defenders all the time?

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ttcat37 · 19/11/2023 16:02

MidnightOnceMore · 19/11/2023 11:08

It isn't blanket illegal in England, sadly.

Incorrect. Assault is illegal in England. The defence of ‘reasonable chastisement’ can still be used in some circumstances in England, unlike Scotland and Wales. I don’t know a lot of the case law surrounding ‘reasonable chastisement’ but can’t imagine a scenario where a Court would agree that hitting an 18 month old is a reasonable method of chastisement.
It is worth mentioning that the ‘reasonable chastisement’ defence can’t be used for assaults of ABH and worse, so anything that leaves a visible injury.

Nuca · 19/11/2023 16:13

Completely missing the point of the thread here but when did atall become a thing!? It’s at all. 2 words. It’s even worse than people that say alot as 1 word

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