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Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To ask if anyone still thinks Brexit was a good idea?

231 replies

KimberleyClark · 14/11/2023 13:32

Genuinely curious. I can't see how it has improved things at all.

YANBU - Brexit was a terrible idea
YABU - it was a great idea

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Sourisblanche · 17/11/2023 11:03

The EU really has moved on, Brexit is largely forgotten and it’s all about Ukraine and their accession to the EU now.

However, Brexit did appear in French media this week, using the UK as an example that even though the UK has quit the EU it still has a big immigration problem. Interesting I thought.

EasternStandard · 17/11/2023 11:07

Sourisblanche · 17/11/2023 11:03

The EU really has moved on, Brexit is largely forgotten and it’s all about Ukraine and their accession to the EU now.

However, Brexit did appear in French media this week, using the UK as an example that even though the UK has quit the EU it still has a big immigration problem. Interesting I thought.

I imagine this will come up more as the EU deals with its own immigration problem, a big one for some countries, and no one wants voters to get too many ideas on what to do

KimberleyClark · 17/11/2023 11:10

smilesup · 17/11/2023 08:41

We know it's not a good idea in this house as DS wanted to work in Germany and now can't.
I want to retire in Greece but can't. My parents no longer can spend 6 months in the UK and 6 months in Spain as they had been for 10 years and planned to do for decades.
None of that will be resolved before my parents die.
Let alone the fact we can't trade as cheaply and easily with our neighbours.

I know someone who had a house in Spain and was planning to retire there. Voted Brexit.

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Crikeyalmighty · 17/11/2023 11:12

@lightisnotwhite one reason for many older people is healthcare. There are complications and huge expense in using long term travel insurance that would previously have been covered off (that's if you can get it if you've had prior health issues) and it's sometimes a seasons split kind of thing- they wanted to use say April, May, June and sept oct and that now doesn't work easily.

It's certainly an issue for those who can't afford to keep 2 bases and planned on a place in Spain and a bit of occasional Airbnb when they came back to uk too. Not like your family will want you camped with them 6 months of the year .

Fifteenth · 17/11/2023 11:42

CeciledeVolangesdeNouveau · 17/11/2023 08:53

Lockdown had a lot of consequences for everyone. I lost my relationship, my job, my Master’s degree that I’ve been saving for three years for and I spent three years in a mental hospital. Just because it affected me doesn’t mean it wasn’t worth it on a community level or even an individual level (I’ve still got four grandparents alive) or that it wasn’t preferable to what might have happened otherwise. Also, the country was advised or in your word encouraged to take those measures. Not compelled. The WHO has no coercive or even legal powers. The government, who gained a huge amount more power through Brexit, decided to implement lockdown. Your elected officials. It’s a bit like the old question “if all your friends jumped off a cliff, would you do too?”. You’d be stupid if that was the only reason.

Good points and true enough (except for it being worthwhile).

Our elected officials didn’t have to jump off the cliff because their friends did it. But of their friends hadn’t done it, they wouldn’t even have thought about it.

Probably not an EU thing but the UK was less appalling than most of Europe. Not that that’s saying much.

I’m sorry about your mental health. I’m not sure if it’s helping you to feel that you were sacrificed for something bigger. You were in fact abused just because they could. Can your mental health work if you channel anger instead?

Sourisblanche · 17/11/2023 12:01

@EasternStandard absolutely. Immigration from wars and climate change will be an increasing problem in all of Europe, including UK. But Brexit is now an example to the rest of the world that leaving a large trading block and cutting yourself off economically is not the way to solve this issue.

It’s good for other countries to have this reminder IMO. Makes the EU stronger.

jasflowers · 17/11/2023 12:08

Sourisblanche · 17/11/2023 12:01

@EasternStandard absolutely. Immigration from wars and climate change will be an increasing problem in all of Europe, including UK. But Brexit is now an example to the rest of the world that leaving a large trading block and cutting yourself off economically is not the way to solve this issue.

It’s good for other countries to have this reminder IMO. Makes the EU stronger.

Yes France has zero obligation to help the UK police its borders.

& as the SC said yesterday, its not even the ECHR that led them to declaring Rwanda isn't a safe country but our own common law.

I was actually quite shocked to learn yesterday that Sunaks plan was to send 100 migrants there, thats it, 100!!!

More might have followed but not at all certain.

We seem to have gone from migration that filled UK skills shortages to far higher migration but still have even more skills shortages, i believe this is down to allowing people on work & student visas to bring in their entire families too, no wonder so many stay on.

Do other countries outside of EU do this? (in regard to workers on short term visas?)

bombastix · 17/11/2023 12:14

@jasflowers - no they don't. This is part of the hypocrisy of the "migration" debate.

Truthfully you can cut it by reducing student visas, dependents and work visas. And you can spend on enforcement rather than doing very little. You could get very very nasty with overstayers, punish business and universities with huge fines and bar frauds for life. All a lot easier than this boat business. Boats are 20,000. Legal migrations are around 600,000 a year.

You know why we don't do this? I don't know why if people actually care. Truth is you would upset a lot of people already in the U.K. if this was done. So it never happens.

SerendipityJane · 17/11/2023 12:16

I was actually quite shocked to learn yesterday that Sunaks plan was to send 100 migrants there, thats it, 100!!!

We have sent more home secretaries to Rwanda than asylum seekers.

(E2A: sadly they sent them back)

Densol57 · 17/11/2023 12:18

I voted yes for Brexit based on the lies told by revolting Boris

I wish Id voted no

jasflowers · 17/11/2023 12:23

Yes i ve heard that the reason they don't do anything about any sort of migration is that business makes money out of migrants, they pay them less & business tends to support the Tories - So much for re skilling our own workforce.

Its quite crazy really, allowing in family members, means they will stay here, this just isn't sustainable, given our current rate of renewing infrastructure.

My contacts in the NHS tell me that overseas HCPs as much as we need them since Brexit, also bring their own problems & in social care, they aren't really much good as most don't drive and its in rural areas where we are so short of carers.

EasternStandard · 17/11/2023 12:26

Two issues will get more pronounced

Climate pressure - that means not working visas but crossing the channel or Med or other. This will increase a lot for any country who is ok with it

AI will change need for workers

bombastix · 17/11/2023 12:29

@jasflowers / yes that is right. You could just cut student visas, external work visas and make British nationality very hard to get (too easy in my opinion). But then you have a million complaints from business, universities, and individuals who complain that their dear old mother can't visit even though she has no one and has a mysterious number of long term illnesses which are expensive to treat in her country of origin or get married and then bring in a spouse.

I am not anti migration btw! But not doing these things and then concentrating on boats is daft.

SerendipityJane · 17/11/2023 12:29

EasternStandard · 17/11/2023 12:26

Two issues will get more pronounced

Climate pressure - that means not working visas but crossing the channel or Med or other. This will increase a lot for any country who is ok with it

AI will change need for workers

Hard to argue against ....

jasflowers · 17/11/2023 12:38

EasternStandard · 17/11/2023 12:26

Two issues will get more pronounced

Climate pressure - that means not working visas but crossing the channel or Med or other. This will increase a lot for any country who is ok with it

AI will change need for workers

Yes this is doubtless all true, which makes the Govt 's current plans/policy, if you can call them that, ridiculous.

There probably atm much we can do about x channel migrants, given we can't exactly go and invade France and put our own patrols in there BUT we can drastically reduce the 600k plus net migration we currently have.

EasternStandard · 17/11/2023 12:42

jasflowers · 17/11/2023 12:38

Yes this is doubtless all true, which makes the Govt 's current plans/policy, if you can call them that, ridiculous.

There probably atm much we can do about x channel migrants, given we can't exactly go and invade France and put our own patrols in there BUT we can drastically reduce the 600k plus net migration we currently have.

France does loads to patrol their beaches btw and all sorts of surveillance but you can’t catch everyone crossing, I think it’s 60% stopped but would have to check

There is a country that will be feeling more secure as everyone else increasingly deals with discord and destabilising factors because they put policies in place decades ago..

Sourisblanche · 17/11/2023 12:47

Densol57 · 17/11/2023 12:18

I voted yes for Brexit based on the lies told by revolting Boris

I wish Id voted no

That’s honest thank you. We need more of this.

Last week my neighbour stopped me to ask how dd is getting on (at uni doing a marine bio degree) and she said in a round about way that she voted for Brexit because of the fishing promises. She said she felt sad and let down that those promises didn’t actually happen. It’s the first time my neighbour and I have discussed Brexit. I’m as pro-Remain as they come but there’s no point getting angry with people who were conned.

EasternStandard · 17/11/2023 13:45

It’s not going to get easier. Look at Scholz moving on immigration and AfD rising

Social disharmony will increase and politicians get pushed to the right

There will be lower pressure for those with policies already in place

Parky04 · 17/11/2023 14:03

I've got lots of stamps in my new passport. It is actually one thing I did miss when we were in the EU. Not sure you can class it as a tangible benefit though!

FlamingBlue · 17/11/2023 14:09

Yes I do, I fully support it and would vote Leave again if necessary.

Pipsquiggle · 17/11/2023 15:25

Fifteenth · 17/11/2023 08:28

This is a good way of thinking about it. Thanks.

@Fifteenth @CaramacFiend

It's a really crap way of looking at it.

If you use this 'analogy' then the UK would be the one of the 'controllers' as we were one of the few countries had power of veto.

The European army - we could have said no
Turkey joining EU - we could have said no.....................................

At any point, any of our previous governments could have strengthened immigration into our borders - they chose not to.

We didn't need to leave the EU to do any of these things

jasflowers · 17/11/2023 16:06

FlamingBlue · 17/11/2023 14:09

Yes I do, I fully support it and would vote Leave again if necessary.

Its funny how people maintain their entrenched positions, be it mine or yours.

I can't see any sovereignty argument etc & i doubt you see the co operation or trade ones.

ClareBlue · 17/11/2023 16:58

fearfuloffluff · 16/11/2023 23:18

What?!

The delay was because brexiteers had zero plans for what to do if they won.

And democratic wish of the people - 52%, many of whom wanted a protest vote. Give me a break. There has been a pro remain majority since the referendum and it only gets larger.

Brexit has failed, it's the fault of the twats who pushed it through, not the people who voted against it.

And anyone who doubts my point read this.
Not accepting 52 perc is a democratic result, second guessing why they voted and saying the will of the people is different.
This post is exactly the problem. Read what it is really saying.

ClareBlue · 17/11/2023 17:03

The complete disdain for people who voted In a majority. Saying it was pushed through says people who voted have no ability to think for themselves. The continual narrative all those voted leave were just stupid and couldn't think for themselves. That everyone now agrees they were wrong. The lack of self awareness is almost uncomprehensible.

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