@RudsyFarmer i found this:
“What Supports Misconceptions That IVF Causes Early Menopause?
During the IVF procedure, eggs are retrieved for embryo formation. So, people readily believe the myth that IVF reduces ovarian reserve and leads to early menopause. However, that’s nowhere close to reality.
In reality, during the IVF Procedure, the hormonal activators or injections are used to mature the eggs speedily for a few menstrual cycles, but that does not reduce the number of menstrual cycles.
So, there is no question of Early Menopause due to the IVF procedure.
Let’s Understand The Process Clinically.
In a normal menstrual cycle, the reproductive system in women produces around 10 to 20 egg follicles, out of which one egg matures, and the rest of them are wasted.
During the IVF Treatment, fertility drugs stimulate all the eggs to mature not one but 10 to 15 eggs simultaneously. The number of eggs that leave the body remains identical, so in no way it can lead to Early Menopause.”
I saw your post and, as someone who has undergone four egg retrievals, I panicked a little.
I’m aware there are no long term studies to help me prepare for how this may have affected my body. But I was never told about any correlation between ivf and early menopause. At the time, it was the right choice for me, my children and my family.
I have undergone several surgeries, including brain surgery and the paperwork I had to sign for brain surgery was nothing compared to the stacks of paperwork I did for ivf.
Anyway, I am not comfortable with egg donation or unknown donor sperm or surrogacy. Though if I wanted to be a surrogate for my brother and his wife, for example, then I wouldn’t want anyone stopping me if I had made an informed decision about it.