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AIBU to feel annoyed Marks and Spencer have.....

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JobStresserxo · 02/11/2023 21:48

changed their knicker styles? The style I have bought for years no longer exists. Have bought underwear from M&S forever, but have had to shop elsewhere.
Very disappointed!

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ForfarBridie · 04/11/2023 19:32

ForfarBridie · 04/11/2023 18:59

My Tena lady tried to escape the replacement for the Midi briefs. I was walking along just minding my own business when I felt it stuck to the inside of my thigh. The leg of the new pants was much bigger, and the gusset wider, than the midi style of old.

Sorry. That should have been the gusset on the new pants was narrower. Much narrower.

ChocolateCinderToffee · 04/11/2023 19:35

I'm sure I saw on Sewing Bee that the little bow is a hangover from the days when women wore laced up stays. They were tied with a bow at the front.

I wear a lot of Brazilians and it's not that easy to tell the front from the back with them so the bow is useful.

katseyes7 · 04/11/2023 19:35

JobStresserxo YES!! They discontinued mine (low rise garter thongs) a couple of years ago, fortunately l managed to buy about three multi packs on ebay, which l hope will last for a long time, the ones l already had have.
So annoying when they do this!

awaynboilyurheid · 04/11/2023 19:38

Yes the coffee is now from a machine in our M and S and paper cups! What were they thinking? Honestly it’s nowhere near as nice!
Also they have had the same boring gluten free sandwiches for ever! Just because we are ceoliac doesn’t mean we want the same old stuff to eat year after year! Have some imagination M and S we are trying to support you!

GonnaGetGoingReturns · 04/11/2023 19:45

When they discontinued chocolate tiffin I knew I’d have to rethink things…

Badbadbunny · 04/11/2023 19:47

YANBU, nothing new though. I'd been buying their front fastening bras for years and then they stopped selling them - that was in the 90s!

Also annoyed when they changed their knicker sizes - use to do single sizes, i.e. 8, 10, 12 etc., but then changed them to 8-10 and then 12-14. I'm in between and neither fit properly.

anonibubble · 04/11/2023 19:48

JobStresserxo · 02/11/2023 22:15

They have got rid of the midi briefs (which were halfway between high rise granny pants and bikini). They seem to have replaced them with shorts style briefs which are far too flappy around the leg!

Yes, I always wear midis but couldn’t find any on their website this year. None of the others work for me, the shorts go down too far on my legs at the front. Think I’m going to have to buy Sloggis or one of those expensive European brands, but their sizing is unreliable.
M&S trouser shapes don’t work for me this year either, they’ve gone back to tighter waists and bigger thighs. It’s like going back to the 70’s when the M&S woman was expected to have an hourglass figure.

anonibubble · 04/11/2023 19:53

ForfarBridie · 04/11/2023 19:32

Sorry. That should have been the gusset on the new pants was narrower. Much narrower.

Their gussets have been getting narrower for years, and the same width on larger sizes as the tiny ones. Absolutely hopeless.

Bertiesmum3 · 04/11/2023 19:59

Cheeesus · 02/11/2023 22:26

That’s interesting, because I bought these, described as shorts, and they really aren’t. Are they the midi, just renamed?

https://www.marksandspencer.com/5-pack-cotton-lycra-lace-midi-knickers/p/clp60437473?color=BLACK#intid=pid_pg2pip7g2r2c2

I find the gusset bit between the legs too narrow on these, sanitary towels hang over the sides!

Holymolyfandoly · 04/11/2023 20:02

Was in my local one yesterday and happened to look at a thong. Oh my goodness the size of the gusset!! No more than a centimetre wide, does that not get gobbled up? Well it would on me anyway.

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 04/11/2023 20:15

ChocolateCinderToffee · 04/11/2023 19:35

I'm sure I saw on Sewing Bee that the little bow is a hangover from the days when women wore laced up stays. They were tied with a bow at the front.

I wear a lot of Brazilians and it's not that easy to tell the front from the back with them so the bow is useful.

Corsets are laced at the back, not the front. If you wrap the laces around your waist and tie them at the front, you risk damaging the corset.

greengreengrass25 · 04/11/2023 20:17

Yes what is it with gussets

M&S are not the only culprits for this

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 04/11/2023 20:19

greengreengrass25 · 04/11/2023 20:17

Yes what is it with gussets

M&S are not the only culprits for this

It's cost-cutting.

I just buy Sloggi.

Pigeonqueen · 04/11/2023 20:21

Bertiesmum3 · 04/11/2023 19:59

I find the gusset bit between the legs too narrow on these, sanitary towels hang over the sides!

Yes, this!

teraculum29 · 04/11/2023 20:24

JobStresserxo · 02/11/2023 22:15

They have got rid of the midi briefs (which were halfway between high rise granny pants and bikini). They seem to have replaced them with shorts style briefs which are far too flappy around the leg!

oh no!! that's my fav knickers, always bought them!!

Emotionalsupportviper · 04/11/2023 20:25

LadyMacB · 02/11/2023 22:01

I felt the same way when they stopped selling the cheese and apple sandwich for some inexplicable reason.

Bugger!

I want a cheese and apple sandwich now, and we don't have any apples in.

greengreengrass25 · 04/11/2023 20:26

I found sloggi like this as well

Emotionalsupportviper · 04/11/2023 20:26

teraculum29 · 04/11/2023 20:24

oh no!! that's my fav knickers, always bought them!!

And mine!

<enraged>

WowIlikereallyhateyou · 04/11/2023 20:29

Dinosaurhearmeroar · 04/11/2023 17:29

I was also devastated when they stopped doing their blonde chocolate nuts. They did packs for about a month. It was amazing. Good times.

i have seen these in the Christmas range.

Emotionalsupportviper · 04/11/2023 20:31

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 04/11/2023 20:15

Corsets are laced at the back, not the front. If you wrap the laces around your waist and tie them at the front, you risk damaging the corset.

Corsets and stays aren't quite the same, I think.

Only wealthy women had a corset that was laced at the back, because they had a maid to dress them. (Corsets developed from stays, IIRC. A sort of underwear evolution)

Us plebs had to lace our own stays at the front.

SurferRona · 04/11/2023 20:31

reesewithoutaspoon · 02/11/2023 23:20

I, 've never forgiven them for discontinuing the butter jacket potato-flavoured crisps. They were divine they actually tasted like a buttered jacket potato fresh from the oven ...

YES! This, ^^, absolutely this @reesewithoutaspoon

Gonners · 04/11/2023 20:34

I've lost patience with M&S too - since when is 5'6" short for a UK woman? But I solved the knicker problem when I discovered Innersy mid-rise on hated Amazon. I bought a pack of six almost two years ago, promptly bought another in case they stopped making them, and they're still as good as new. I'm sure other sources are available, but here's the link:

https://www.amazon.co.uk/INNERSY-Knickers-Stretch-Mid-Rise-Colorful/dp/B07YWR7SMJ/ref=sr_1_5?crid=1G3ML7C7AB76M&keywords=innersy%2Bmid%2Brise&qid=1699126451&sprefix=innersy%2Bmid%2Brise%2Caps%2C142&sr=8-5&th=1

I'm an M&S 12 in jeans and their 12 size fits a treat.

GonnaGetGoingReturns · 04/11/2023 20:36

I thought everyone knew their knickers had been rubbish for years? Just before Covid I bought some nude glossy tights and was surprised at just how rubbish they were. Quality has really gone down and when Primark are better for tights that’s saying something.

CoolShoeshine · 04/11/2023 20:42

I used to love the individual knickers you could buy in M&S, usually about a fiver a pair but you could get 4 for 3 and they were in great colours and styles. Now the individual pairs are really basic and flimsy and the only other option is a pack of knickers. I hate buying in packs, I like to choose each pair and get different colours. Packs always sneak basic white pairs in which turn grey first wash.

however I do approve of the new coffee machines, much quicker to press a button than faff around with frothing the milk, grinding the beans etc. Costa should take note.

PinkTonic · 04/11/2023 20:42

They stopped doing the pants I like in a 3 pack of nude. Now they do 3 packs of black which I want, but nude only come with white and another colour. I only want black and nude.