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Lying on school application

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strikemehigh · 01/11/2023 07:48

School mum friend told me yesterday that she's used her NC DM's address for her child's high school application.

Her DM lives in a different county (the one I live in) and friend lives just over the border into a different county. Both our DC are at primary school in her county but obviously I'm applying to my county for high school place.

We are quite rural. Her fake address is middle of nowhere and her real one the same but miles away. Hence the distances to schools.

Anyway, this would be bad enough but she's put 2 schools that as the crow flies from the fake address her child is unlikely to get into. First choice school A, the furthest please given based on distance last year was 3.3 miles and address is about 5. Second choice school B is almost ten miles from fake address and already oversubscribed. DC has no other factors such as EHCP which might help.

She has not put a third choice so 'they'll have to give me one of the choices'. When I explained that isn't how it works child will likely be allocated school C which is the nearer fake address she said she would just appeal.

AIBU that this is short sighted and bonkers? Also fraud - which if she wasn't so unlikely to get her way based on the choices I'd be thinking of reporting.

OP posts:
Clearspring1 · 02/11/2023 05:58

Itsbecauseiamamum · 01/11/2023 23:10

Just to be clear,after the nightmare that we went through as a family. Where I said catchment area ,I probably used the wrong word ! I meant that with the area I live in it was reasonable to expect a child within 1.5 miles who passed the 11+ to get to the local grammar school.
I think that the fact I am still thinking about this thread highlights the impact that the liars ,fraudsters had on me and my daughter! Have chatted to my daughter this evening and mentioned this thread …she said that she doesn’t want to be reminded about how robbed she was at the age of 11! So there we are OP ,yes definitely report please 🙏

She was almost robbed though wasn’t she? You reported it, appealed and she got in

VisionsOfSplendour · 02/11/2023 07:55

funinthesun19 · 01/11/2023 13:21

Wow I don’t agree with parents lying to get a school place and they really piss me
off with how selfish they are, but I think withdrawing a child’s school place when they are already there and settled/settling in is really cruel. I think the parents should be fined though if they get found out.

Can you not see the flaw in that?

Can't afford to move to a better school area? Just lie about your address and pay a fine, way cheaper than moving or paying to go private

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