AIBU my partner messages another woman every day saying they love each other and I want him to stop.

[DebbieAdams]

I have been with my partner 2 months and noticed he is often on his phone. One day it was left on the side and I looked through his recent messages which I know is wrong but something made me do it. He is messaging another woman every single day, they talk about everything life work children, plans for the future and they say they love each other. I'm at a complete loss what to now do and how to go about confronting this?

You dump him from a great height. He’s not the man for you.

I’m sorry that you’re going through this - but surely there’s only one response? Dump him.

Why are you confused? You bin him off immediately. Why wouldn't you?

Come on, you know this isn't right.....

You get some self respect.

It's been 2 months and he's seeing someone else.

Come on now, he's not your partner after 2 months. And after 2 months of dating you bin him. How are you at a loss as to what to do?

He obviously isn't as much of a partner as you suppose him to be. You pick up your dignity, walk away and leave him to a women he appears to already have a relationship with. You don't need to confront anything. Just leave him and move on.

Bin him off.

YABU! Only 2 months? He's not your 'partner 'yet, you barely know him. You're likely the other woman, not her. Let him go and don't look back. There's nothing to confront or be confused about.

Wheres your self worth? Get rid of him and move on. You deserve so much more.

You're the OW, so gather up your dignity and leave him to it!

Dump him…it’s only been a few weeks. What’s your AIBU??

Partner? Come off it, it's been 2 months.

I wouldn't even confront him after 2 months, he'd just been getting a text saying "this relationships not working for me anymore, so I don't intend to see you again."

He's not your partner, he's a guy you've been dating for a few weeks. Just dump him.

Why are you calling him your partner? You've only been with him for two months. He's not your partner. Don't waste any more time on this nonsense

Eh??? I'm not sure what's confusing about it. You just get rid. It really is that simple.

There's nothing confusing here. Dump him, cry a bit and move on with your life.

Come on now. Seriously?
8 weeks and he's telling someone else he loves them and you don't know what to do?

You're the grubby little secret he's keeping from the woman he claims to love.

You deserve better.

Seriously???? 😑

2 months? Dump it, get out now.

I never got to be the dumper, let me live vicariously through you, OP.

dump him with no explanation

You’re the side chick. Bin him.

Maybe it's his sister. Just ask him!

Well unless its,his mother or sister it sounds very dodgy.

Why on Earth would you want to stay with this excuse of a man? Gather your dignity together and dump his sorry arse.