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Why are there so many single parents

161 replies

Nowhereqw · 22/10/2023 19:35

Don't mean to offend anyone but I am new to UK and noticed there are so many single parents.
I am from Asia and most families I know have two parents so I am just curious about it.

OP posts:
goglen · 22/10/2023 19:37

🤔 what a bizarre FIRST* post

MoroccoMole · 22/10/2023 19:38

I don't think it's a problem specific to the UK tbh

Igotjelly · 22/10/2023 19:39

Because many relationships are unhappy and thankfully we live in a society where you don’t have to put up with that shit, regardless of whether there are kids involved.

UpUpUpU · 22/10/2023 19:39

People knowing their worth and leaving shitty partners? Not wanting to get into new relationships and so put their children first?

Nowhereqw · 22/10/2023 19:39

Many colleagues are single parents and this is all new to me.

OP posts:
StopStartStop · 22/10/2023 19:40

😂
Because a lot of men are nasty, cruel, adulterous bastards and women are not obliged to put up with it.

No point beating about the bush.

DinaofCloud9 · 22/10/2023 19:40

How do you know they're single and the other parent isn't just at home or work?

Could this be a goady post perhaps?

UpUpUpU · 22/10/2023 19:40

Congrats on your perfect life OP

UsernameNotAvailableIsNotAvailableEither · 22/10/2023 19:41
Biscuit
LovedmyRaleighChopper · 22/10/2023 19:41

You’re going to get a lot of posters saying the reasons are multifold and none of your business. There is obviously a very different culture in Asia to the prevailing culture in the UK!

PerfectYear321 · 22/10/2023 19:41

Because in this country we're not peer pressured to stay with men we hate just because they have impregnated us at some point.

FawnFrenchieMum · 22/10/2023 19:41

All of the above plus woman getting pregnant without a thought to the longer term plan knowing the government will support them.

Raquelos · 22/10/2023 19:42

Culturally we accept that it is worse for children to live with parents together in an unhappy marriage than in a happily single parent unit. That's all really.

threecupsofteaminimum · 22/10/2023 19:42

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arethereanyleftatall · 22/10/2023 19:42

Because we can.

Women don't have to be miserable anymore running around like blue arsed flies after useless blokes.

When we get to a certain age, we realise life is nicer without men.

ltappleby · 22/10/2023 19:43

You get more money

mondaytosunday · 22/10/2023 19:43

Because I'm a widow. My husband died when our kids were 4 and 6.

ginandtonicwithlimes · 22/10/2023 19:43

FawnFrenchieMum · 22/10/2023 19:41

All of the above plus woman getting pregnant without a thought to the longer term plan knowing the government will support them.

Was it a immaculate conception then? Blame the men as well.

Willyoujustbequiet · 22/10/2023 19:43

StopStartStop · 22/10/2023 19:40

😂
Because a lot of men are nasty, cruel, adulterous bastards and women are not obliged to put up with it.

No point beating about the bush.

You missed deadbeat fathers but yes this in a nutshell.

AfterWeights · 22/10/2023 19:43

Bear in mind its extremely variable throughout british society.

I live in a more rural, affluent community and divorce is relatively less common, in other areas its more common.

Clearly religion & culture play a huge part. There's no pressure at all to marry before having sex or starring a family.

missmollygreen · 22/10/2023 19:43

StopStartStop · 22/10/2023 19:40

😂
Because a lot of men are nasty, cruel, adulterous bastards and women are not obliged to put up with it.

No point beating about the bush.

Riiight, just the men? of course

MatthewsMumFromTikTok · 22/10/2023 19:44

Nowhereqw · 22/10/2023 19:39

Many colleagues are single parents and this is all new to me.

Maybe in this country area holes are not tolerated and binned off?

We don't 'put up and shut up'

MatthewsMumFromTikTok · 22/10/2023 19:45

*arseholes

vodkaredbullgirl · 22/10/2023 19:46

Single because I want to be.

ginandtonicwithlimes · 22/10/2023 19:47

ltappleby · 22/10/2023 19:43

You get more money

Benefits are not that generous.