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Why are there so many single parents

161 replies

Nowhereqw · 22/10/2023 19:35

Don't mean to offend anyone but I am new to UK and noticed there are so many single parents.
I am from Asia and most families I know have two parents so I am just curious about it.

OP posts:
Tumbleweed101 · 23/10/2023 00:16

In my case it’s because my ex started seeing someone else and then decided to move in with her and leave me and our children to struggle for next decade.

Yes I am bitter. On the flip side I got to be the primary parent and the adult children can see things for what they are now and understand my struggles through their younger years. That makes
the hard work worth it.

rockinginarockingchair · 23/10/2023 00:46

Notfeelinghunkydory · 22/10/2023 22:26

Because there's so many men who can't keep their dick in their pants. That's the reason I'm a single parent.

Your as much the blame as him it takes 2 to make a baby and your part was laying down.
Unless he cheated then good for you for leaving.

Mustardforest · 23/10/2023 00:49

Nowhereqw · 22/10/2023 19:35

Don't mean to offend anyone but I am new to UK and noticed there are so many single parents.
I am from Asia and most families I know have two parents so I am just curious about it.

4 for 10 pounds sambuca shots and an epidemic of broken condom machines in pub toilets.

AnOldCynic · 23/10/2023 06:56

@niclw Bump up your pension payments to bring you down out of the higher rate tax bracket.

AnOldCynic · 23/10/2023 07:08

Ah, just saw your last post.

No one has mentioned the societal expectations are that people have families. I'm a single mum. I'd actually rather be single without the mum bit as I'd always been ambivalent about having kids.

Then my biological clock started ticking. Partner in no way way to blame for us splitting up. I chose him and I chose to have a child. No useless bloke to blame in this situation.

Stealthtax · 23/10/2023 07:34

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Notfeelinghunkydory · 23/10/2023 07:42

rockinginarockingchair · 23/10/2023 00:46

Your as much the blame as him it takes 2 to make a baby and your part was laying down.
Unless he cheated then good for you for leaving.

Edited

Yes he cheated on me when our baby was 6 months. We were married.

Truthbomb · 23/10/2023 07:57

Because women are no longer forced and shamed in to staying married or in partnership with abusive, manipulative and chauvinistic men.

StopStartStop · 23/10/2023 08:55

missmollygreen · 22/10/2023 19:43

Riiight, just the men? of course

'What about the menz? Ooh, not all men are like that!' Squeal squeal.

FawnFrenchieMum · 23/10/2023 08:59

cestlavielife · 22/10/2023 20:44

Op referred to their colleagues at work
So clearly not sponging

Not in the OP she didn’t. I also said, all of the previous answers in addition to mine. Plus, you can work and be supported by government.

AlwaysGinPlease · 23/10/2023 15:17

goglen · 22/10/2023 19:37

🤔 what a bizarre FIRST* post

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Isn't it just

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