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To think rainbow hoodies are unprofessional?

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FullyAwareIMightBU · 20/10/2023 17:44

I work in an office that doesn't have a dress code (tech field so very casual environment). Most people wear a mix of jeans and plain t-shirts, polos, hoodies with the company logo on it, sweaters etc. All in fairly neutral colours.

We recently had a new transfer to my department. She seems nice, very carefree, and she's good at her job. Today though, she came in with a bright rainbow, tie-dyed hoodie from a popular movie. It's not subtle at all and the quote from the movie is clearly printed on the front. It really stands out! Yes, I will mind my own business and not say a word but AIBU to think this is just really unprofessional?

OP posts:
Pinceywincey · 20/10/2023 23:49

Times change! I work in the city in a company that has always been known as a stuffy, ‘pinstripe suit’ kind of place. I went into the office yesterday in jeans & neon pink converse, & currently have multicoloured hair. Nobody batted an eyelid & I was still able to function in my fairly senior job.

givemeasunnyday · 21/10/2023 03:44

If there is no dress code, how can it be unprofessional? It sounds as though she is wearing much the same as everyone else, you just have a bee in your bonnet.

hellohellothere · 21/10/2023 08:01

Sounds like you need a time machine to work in an office in the 1950s.

PositanoBay · 21/10/2023 08:24

FullyAwareIMightBU · 20/10/2023 17:48

Fully aware I'm probably BU btw just a shock from what I'm used to when it comes to dressing!

I'm in your boat. Totally unprofessional and 'Look at Me ' vibes. I have one in my office. She wears too short HiVis coloured dresses and flip flops - and my office is smart casual. Gives me the rage

Warum · 21/10/2023 08:28

Oh OP, admit it, you're a clothes snob.

Warum · 21/10/2023 08:29

PositanoBay · 21/10/2023 08:24

I'm in your boat. Totally unprofessional and 'Look at Me ' vibes. I have one in my office. She wears too short HiVis coloured dresses and flip flops - and my office is smart casual. Gives me the rage

Or just 'there's no dress code, so I'll wear what I'm happy in'.
Stop being a snob.

LolaSmiles · 21/10/2023 08:34

If there's no dress code then there's no dress code.

I find adults in very loud outfits (not colourful, colours look great) to look silly have a hint of 'look at me' about it but that's not about professionalism, it's just a difference in personal styles and tastes.

DrinkingMyWaterMindingMyBiz · 21/10/2023 08:59

PositanoBay · 21/10/2023 08:24

I'm in your boat. Totally unprofessional and 'Look at Me ' vibes. I have one in my office. She wears too short HiVis coloured dresses and flip flops - and my office is smart casual. Gives me the rage

I envy your life almost as much as you seem to envy this woman if this is what gives you the rage.

Mydogmybestfriend · 21/10/2023 09:30

Dunno why you're bothered. Do you not like her?

Ginmonkeyagain · 21/10/2023 09:38

I am not sure where the advice about muted colours came from. I used to work in financial services and my smartest go to dress for meetings was a pillar box red shift dress. Never got called unprofessional.

Notmytotoro · 21/10/2023 16:09

you must have a very easy life OP if you have time to get upset because your coworker wears a colourful hoodie..

hellohellothere · 22/10/2023 03:58

LolaSmiles · 21/10/2023 08:34

If there's no dress code then there's no dress code.

I find adults in very loud outfits (not colourful, colours look great) to look silly have a hint of 'look at me' about it but that's not about professionalism, it's just a difference in personal styles and tastes.

Better than all the drab beige crap in fashion at the moment.

LolaSmiles · 22/10/2023 07:27

Better than all the drab beige crap in fashion at the moment.
I'd agree. I still think that there's a line between a nice colourful outfit and the sort of clown meets children's TV presenter look that some adults go for.

But I 100% accept that's a personal taste and preference thing, not a professionalism thing.

Tighginn · 22/10/2023 07:30

Honestly, mind your own business.

EverythingYouDoIsaBalloon · 22/10/2023 14:18

IDoughnutKnow · 20/10/2023 19:36

That's me.

There's no need for anyone to trot out the "unclench' trope, though. Thinking that people do themselves a favour by looking at least a bit professional for work is not entirely unreasonable.

Not always. I once got rejected for a job as 'not quite the right fit' and I'm fairly sure it was partly down to the fact that I'd dressed in an interview-appropriate way and they were very much a jeans and T-shirt environment ('We're very laid back here' was part of the feedback). Sometimes it's impossible to call these things.

Shopper727 · 22/10/2023 16:23

If you only sit in an office and don’t see anyone except each other I’m not sure why it matters if it’s no dress code? If there was a dress code and that wasn’t part of it it’s up to her superior to address. It’s just a hoodie. Not to my taste but as someone who wears a uniform I’m just glad I don’t have to wear my own clothes to work and think about my clothes choices or other peoples tbh

Meowandthen · 24/10/2023 21:08

LolaSmiles · 21/10/2023 08:34

If there's no dress code then there's no dress code.

I find adults in very loud outfits (not colourful, colours look great) to look silly have a hint of 'look at me' about it but that's not about professionalism, it's just a difference in personal styles and tastes.

We don’t all want to spend our lives in grey and beige. We’ll leave that for the miserable dullards.

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