I got home from work at 630 this evening. My husband works nights from 430pm to 230ish hgv driver. He made/put together a lasagne today before leaving for work. He also put the dishwasher on before leaving. My 15 year old fed the cat. He also Put the lasagne in the oven to cook it and also the garlic bread. And Laid.the table. I served it. I asked my 18 year old to help me clear the table and empty the dishwasher. He said no I'm gaming. And went upstairs. He also wants me to plate him up the leftover apple crumble that I made yesterday. I'm not going to do that unless he helps me clear away and empty the dishwasher. Aibu?