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Neighbours chopped down their own trees but

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Wordsworse · 17/10/2023 16:17

they are now unhappy with the fact they can see the stuff stored down the side of my garage.

So they’ve moved all the stuff to the back of my garage. Without asking me.

I can now see their hideous 1970’s house whereas before I could see fir trees in which the Goldcrests gathered.

I’m toying with what I can put down the side of my garage. What about one of those blow up bendy balloon men they have outside some businesses? I wouldn’t be able to see it.

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Fissssh · 17/10/2023 23:02

If you establish they were actually your trees can you make a civil claim for damages (like for like replacements) for them? Is there a law that covers that does anyone know?

Coldinscotland · 17/10/2023 23:16

My neighbour over the back had our tree cut right back. It had a TPO on it. Man came round and said never mind it will grow back!

Namechangenumber23 · 17/10/2023 23:24

I could throw in a 10 ft inflatable stack of pumpkins that lights up for a seasonal look

ClemFandango1 · 17/10/2023 23:28

Hire a graffiti artist to paint a scene including a dump and red eyed rats

PJB333 · 18/10/2023 00:43

I don't mean to be mean - but "first world problems"
Sometimes just accept what is done is done for the peace of all concerned.
Unless: you want this to become an ongoing tit-for-tat...
Gradually escalting until someone threatens legal action...
Chops down a bush or breaks a fence pannel...
Then the shouting starts... Then neighbours take sides.
You haven't lost ...they haven't won...
If you are both staying put it is not worth the ongoing hassle
If you are moving any time soon.. you don't want "bad neighbour reports"
This may be the start of a tidy up.. Trees gone, maybe a new fence / hedge
You need to be still talking to each other for anything to be sorted.
You got a bit offended... you could try to start a "look, I don't want to fall out" conversation - see how that goes.
Otherwise, back to tit-for-tat but I'm sure you have better things to get bothered about, only 69 day to Christmas, don't forget the card for the neighbours!

Cherryberrypie · 18/10/2023 01:25

So basically, you have a bucket of horse shit and some bits of horsey things that you no longer use as you don’t have horses. You clearly don’t want to see all this crap in your own garden so you hide it out of sight on their side of the garage.

Now they have cut down their trees they have to look at all your junk. They probably didn’t know it was there before, but now they do.

sounds like you need a trip to the local tip. I wouldn’t be falling out with neighbours over a pile of crap I don’t even need.

Wetblanket78 · 18/10/2023 01:42

I was going to say put some of these gnombes on your garage roof with their arses facing said neighbours. But if you ever grow a bush. 🤣🤣🤣

Wetblanket78 · 18/10/2023 01:43

Forgot to add pics.

Neighbours chopped down their own trees but
Neighbours chopped down their own trees but
Thirdsummerofourdiscontent · 18/10/2023 03:36

Pop in some really ugly white picket garden edging (very short and tacky) just inside your property line. A nice sign hung up on the shed with a map maybe that shows your properties boundaries.

user1492757084 · 18/10/2023 04:23

I would ascertain your correct property line and mark it.
I would thump in steel pickets just inside the line and afix old corrigated iron as a fence then congregate your precious horse poo and pony stuff collection behind that.
If they complain tell them that, as a compromise, they can paint your old iron any colour they like.

TheNoodlesIncident · 18/10/2023 07:22

Fissssh · 17/10/2023 20:04

If it's only brown on one side would that indicate sabotage like a nail?

Not at all, it's like that because the growth of other plants has prevented light reaching the green cells of the conifer, so that impacted area has died off. Other plants respond to this sort of thing by reducing the amount of growth on the affected side, so if the more hefty plant is removed, you find the affected plant has fewer, more spindly twiggy growth where it was crowded.

With other types of plant, if the removal of the one that's blocking the light is removed, the affected one might put some effort in and grow new leaves on the bare side. Plants like conifers don't respond in this way, they can't reshoot from old wood.

ButterCrackers · 18/10/2023 07:45

They went onto your property and moved things… I’d say to put it all back and tell them that you’ll call the police if they access your property again. I’d also say to put up a camera that looks onto your land that will let you know if there’s a trespass and film it.

Wordsworse · 18/10/2023 11:50

One of the bins I moved has now blown over in the wind. I’ve just seen them all go out so I’m going to pop out and see how the land lies.

To be honest I’m finding it all a bit stressful and may let sleeping dogs lie.

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JustWimpy · 18/10/2023 14:22

I wouldn't make neighbours look at a view of my rubbish. It should be out of their view. It doesn't matter that their trees used to disguise it. Now they don't.

Frasers · 18/10/2023 14:30

I’m not sure of this heavy focus on the boundary line, it’s often hard to tell exactly from deeds but more than that it’s done now and the op doesn’t sound like she wants to go to court over the trees.

Wordsworse · 18/10/2023 14:35

Give over. I’m not changing my garden because they chose to change theirs.

Reminds me of the chap (their father) when his wife was ill. He wanted us to change the drive so that the ambulance could easily reverse once it had driven up the drive, which would have cost us money, when he could have altered his driveway/garden to enable the ambulance to turn round in front of his house.

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Cherryberrypie · 18/10/2023 14:54

JustWimpy · 18/10/2023 14:22

I wouldn't make neighbours look at a view of my rubbish. It should be out of their view. It doesn't matter that their trees used to disguise it. Now they don't.

This exactly.

Nobody wants to see their neighbours rubbish.

If my neighbours kept a bucket of fermenting shit next to my boundary fence I would be turning it upside down and then I would pile all their other crap on top of it.

Fissssh · 18/10/2023 14:55

Wordsworse · 18/10/2023 11:50

One of the bins I moved has now blown over in the wind. I’ve just seen them all go out so I’m going to pop out and see how the land lies.

To be honest I’m finding it all a bit stressful and may let sleeping dogs lie.

They're land grabbing with a view to sell. It's nothing more complex than that

LapsedRunnerC25k · 18/10/2023 15:39

Absolutely @Fissssh

Frasers · 18/10/2023 15:40

Fissssh · 18/10/2023 14:55

They're land grabbing with a view to sell. It's nothing more complex than that

Land grabbing what, a few inches?

Fissssh · 18/10/2023 15:41

Frasers · 18/10/2023 15:40

Land grabbing what, a few inches?

Now the trees aren't there it's a clean boundary from their perspective. People really can be that petty.

Fissssh · 18/10/2023 15:43

And, if the dying tree were removed that's more land they could take... Move the fence on the right a bit because "oh dear bad weather it's all fallen down..."

1982mommaof4 · 18/10/2023 15:48

Not sure if it has been said but I wonder if they moved it to avoid damage when cutting g the trees down?

GPTec1 · 18/10/2023 15:50

Coldinscotland · 17/10/2023 23:16

My neighbour over the back had our tree cut right back. It had a TPO on it. Man came round and said never mind it will grow back!

That can be legal, depends on what the TPO says.... some are no trimming etc others can allow.

As for the OP, your neighbour has done you a favour, you can clean your garage gutter now.

Wordsworse · 18/10/2023 16:17

I know. Fab to be able to get to the gutter. All nice and tidy.

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