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Collective Punishment - No water, no food, no medicines

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Lieblingsessen · 09/10/2023 19:19

I do not condone whatsoever what the Hamas attacks on civilians in Israel or their ideology

But surely, Israel laying siege to Gaza, preventing innocent civilians from accessing water, food, medicines, electricity for hospital equipment, is not justifiable. To collectively punish civilians who have no control over what Hamas or their government does. This is medieval.

Where is the outcry on the mainstream media about this? Surely it is not being anti-semitic to call out Israel, that retaliation is not unexpected, but collective punishment is horrendous.

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DownNative · 10/10/2023 10:24

FordAnglia · 10/10/2023 10:08

Just to say I hope this thread isn't "disappeared" like some of the others on the topic - have learned a fair old bit, which is useful, as it seems to me that so much of the mainstream media (looking at you BBC) is so restricted in trying to gain an understanding of the background to these horrors.
I cycled up to to the Palestinian protests in Kensington yesterday to observe. All essentially peaceful while I was there (twice) - didn't hear everything but saw nothing offensive - the majority of the banners/placards were calling for a Free Palestine, which I hardly see as a hate crime. I saw one very large one calling for a unified state with equal rights. The strongest statement/placards were held aloft by a group of Hasidic Jews.

A placard calling for a unified state with equal rights?

That shows the group or individual in London has no real understanding of the views of the people there, to be honest.

Support for a unified State in the sense of equal rights is lower than other options, including the two State solution. Its called one democratic State in the bar charts.

Further proof that most Western protesters don't understand the highly complicated conflict and that they keep on putting a Western understanding onto a population who aren't themselves Westerners.

Collective Punishment - No water, no food, no medicines
Collective Punishment - No water, no food, no medicines
SinkingSilently · 10/10/2023 10:24

Truthisbetterthanlies · 10/10/2023 09:52

Sure you're helping a Jewish colleague. Whilst spending your nights attacking Jewish posters on here and claiming they are 'the most biased'.

Yes. That's convincing. Not.

I am, though I don’t need you to believe me. I just emailed today another non-Jewish colleague whose Israeli wife is really struggling. My daughter asked me for advice yesterday at university as her Jewish flatmate is freaking out due to her cousins doing national service right now and leaning on my daughter for support. I know lots of Jewish people due to where we live so it’s actually very offensive to say I have ‘Jew-hatred’. My thoughts are with them.

I am confused by your stance. As you have given ‘thanks’ to two of my posts where I express my heartfelt horror at Hamas and sympathise with the poor Israelis affected by the atrocities visited upon them by Hamas. Yet you call me a ‘terrorist apologist’. That doesn’t make sense. Maybe you should apologise for that?

Perhaps you simply cannot relate to how many people can feel both for Palestinian and Israeli victims at the same time, I don’t know?

BeginningToLookALotLike · 10/10/2023 10:33

*The lives of poor brown people are worth less than white ones. It has always been the case and always will.

If only there was a word we could throw around when people speak against the brown people of Palestine…*

Did you know that there are North African, Indian, and Ethiopian Jews living in Israel?

BeginningToLookALotLike · 10/10/2023 10:34

Oops bold fail

JuvenileEmu · 10/10/2023 10:34

EasternStandard · 10/10/2023 10:05

Is the relationship between Gaza and Egypt comparable to Ukraine and Poland?

Also it’s always easier to suggest to other countries to step up

I'm not an expert, but certainly, historically Poles have suffered at the hands of the Ukrainians- certainly during WW2. But I guess they have managed to move on.

AUserNameIsNot · 10/10/2023 10:36

To all the Palestinian posters with family and friends or just coreligionists who will be seeing the airstrikes and the victims being pulled out lifeless from the rubble. This must be heart breaking for you.

I know it won't help but it is never our air force's intention to kill civilians; however I accept these deaths are an inevitable result of our chosen approach to risk.

We are doing this for our own security and freedom and for our children.

We have more allies, a bigger army, better weapons, a better developed industrial base, and more ammunition, and we have no intention of abandoning those advantages and 'fighting fairly' without air support and artillery support, against prepared defences and tunnels. Many of the 30-35 year old reservists, the fathers of young children, will be fighting within Gaza in the next few weeks and we want them to come back home to their families alive and well. Frankly, their safety will be prioritised to the extent possible over the safety of the local residents.

We will fight in accordance with the rules and customs of war.

There is no point apologising and indeed it is insulting to do so, because we are going to carry on doing this until Hamas is removed from government, even if we lose thousands of our own in the process. Unfortunately it really is likely going to get much, much worse. I take zero pleasure in that prospect.

Please don't take out your anger on Jews in the UK. It doesn't help the Palestinian people.

royalwatchewr · 10/10/2023 10:37

Seeing the rhetoric on social media, I feel uncomfortable with supporters of both sides. From what I've seen, both sides are barbaric.

SequentialAnalyst · 10/10/2023 10:37

People are people.
Yesterday's terrorists are today's democratic gvt if they win. Like in S. Africa, or Egypt (Nasser).
I understand the outrage among Israeli Jews.
But vengeance is not the answer.
Just like It Wasn't The Answer to 9/11.

THINK. HAVE EMPATHY. TALK. FIND A SOLUTION. THIS HAS BEEN GOING ON FOR MILLENIA.

Araminta1003 · 10/10/2023 10:37

OP I think it is distasteful that you have chosen a German user name in a post like this. It is incendiary given Germany’s history with the Jews. So whatever you are going to say will be clouded by that ab initio.

AUserNameIsNot · 10/10/2023 10:39

royalwatchewr · 10/10/2023 10:37

Seeing the rhetoric on social media, I feel uncomfortable with supporters of both sides. From what I've seen, both sides are barbaric.

War is barbaric but even war has rules. Hamas broke those rules when they gunned down our teens and raped our girls.

We will not put up with this.

The meek really do not inherit the Earth.

MrsSkylerWhite · 10/10/2023 10:40

HermioneWeasley · Yesterday 19:58
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Palestinians have been cheering on Hamas and handing out sweets to celebrate. Perhaps not all of them, but it’s not Hamas acting against the will of the people

I didn’t see any women and just a few (male) children (who would have had little choice) in those reports.
The siege response is medieval. As Jeremy Bowen reported last night, Hamas will have expected this response and prepared themselves accordingly. (If they’re even still in Gaza at all). It’s civilians who will pay.

Its devastating on both sides.

royalwatchewr · 10/10/2023 10:40

AUserNameIsNot · 10/10/2023 10:39

War is barbaric but even war has rules. Hamas broke those rules when they gunned down our teens and raped our girls.

We will not put up with this.

The meek really do not inherit the Earth.

Like I said, you are as bad as each other.

Abandon your delusions of exceptionalism.

AUserNameIsNot · 10/10/2023 10:42

SequentialAnalyst · 10/10/2023 10:37

People are people.
Yesterday's terrorists are today's democratic gvt if they win. Like in S. Africa, or Egypt (Nasser).
I understand the outrage among Israeli Jews.
But vengeance is not the answer.
Just like It Wasn't The Answer to 9/11.

THINK. HAVE EMPATHY. TALK. FIND A SOLUTION. THIS HAS BEEN GOING ON FOR MILLENIA.

There is point talking with Da'esh or al Quaeda or Hamas. They seek our annihilation.

They don't respect anything; not even military force. The difference is that military force doesn't respect them. However fanatical they are, when they are dead, they are dead.

FordAnglia · 10/10/2023 10:45

DownNative · 10/10/2023 10:24

A placard calling for a unified state with equal rights?

That shows the group or individual in London has no real understanding of the views of the people there, to be honest.

Support for a unified State in the sense of equal rights is lower than other options, including the two State solution. Its called one democratic State in the bar charts.

Further proof that most Western protesters don't understand the highly complicated conflict and that they keep on putting a Western understanding onto a population who aren't themselves Westerners.

yep, even from my fairly limited understanding of the history of hate and horror, I can't see a unified state with whatever supposed guarantees given. But it was I stress only one banner. No idea who those folks were.

AUserNameIsNot · 10/10/2023 10:45

royalwatchewr · 10/10/2023 10:40

Like I said, you are as bad as each other.

Abandon your delusions of exceptionalism.

Well, I disagree with your both side-ism but even you must concede this:-

Our army is bigger and stronger than theirs.

If both sides are as bad as each other - however you would enumerate that - we still are heavily incentivised to see this affair through to its logical conclusion.

UniCred1 · 10/10/2023 10:51

Rosscameasdoody · 10/10/2023 09:28

No. You can criticise the State of Israel - many Jewish people don’t agree with the actions of their government.

True. I have spoken to lots of jewish who don’t believe in zionism and barbarism.

https://youtube.com/shorts/zS9CI0QAzYQ?si=vU768kj8P0Hadwiq

Before you continue to YouTube

https://youtube.com/shorts/zS9CI0QAzYQ?si=vU768kj8P0Hadwiq

AUserNameIsNot · 10/10/2023 10:51

Candlelight34 · 10/10/2023 09:26

There needs to be a divorce type peace agreement.

Split the assets fairly.
A mediator who is fair and impartial and is trusted by both.
Ensure that both have decent infrastructure, housing, transport, airport, farming infrastruture.
Ensure that both have access to their holy places of worship.
Do not deprive either of basic human needs.

Other nations should be supporting this agreement not providing weapons to encourage further killings of innocent civillians.

That would be nice.

The court system works because the state is more powerful than either parent. It doesn't matter if either parent agrees with the judge or not, because the judge's decision is enforced by the power of the state.

When the parents are more powerful than the judge, there is an insurmountable enforcement problem.

That's why international law is a fallacy. The best I can hope for is individual and corporate human decency.

FordAnglia · 10/10/2023 10:52

AUserNameIsNot · 10/10/2023 10:39

War is barbaric but even war has rules. Hamas broke those rules when they gunned down our teens and raped our girls.

We will not put up with this.

The meek really do not inherit the Earth.

what about UN rulings on illegal occupations? As a respecter of rules you support those?

royalwatchewr · 10/10/2023 10:52

AUserNameIsNot · 10/10/2023 10:45

Well, I disagree with your both side-ism but even you must concede this:-

Our army is bigger and stronger than theirs.

If both sides are as bad as each other - however you would enumerate that - we still are heavily incentivised to see this affair through to its logical conclusion.

"Logical conclusion" sounds unsettlingly close to a 'final solution'.

Have a word with yourself.

AUserNameIsNot · 10/10/2023 10:54

The Irish had a messy divorce they're still not entirely happy with from the UK. But they didn't let the perfect be the enemy of the good.

I sincerely hope a Palestinian state can be formed from Palestinian territories which, even if it's not everything Palestinians hoped for, or believe they be are entitled to, provides a lasting basis for sustained peace.

UniCred1 · 10/10/2023 10:55

Candlelight34 · 10/10/2023 09:37

Groups will not need a purpose to exist if the situation is resolved fairly.

Investment is needed to build the two nations.
This investment of weapons from other nations to destroy civilians should be channelled to supporting lifes. Supporting Humanity.

Stop the killings and find peace.
Spilt the assets fairly.

Edited

Would you split your assets with the burglar who raided your house, asked to be your housemate then now thinks you should stay in the shed? And of course he should be monitoring your every single move and can stop you bringing food if he likes?

AUserNameIsNot · 10/10/2023 10:55

royalwatchewr · 10/10/2023 10:52

"Logical conclusion" sounds unsettlingly close to a 'final solution'.

Have a word with yourself.

War is unsettling but does have a logic.

Don't tell Jews they are Nazis.

AUserNameIsNot · 10/10/2023 10:57

FordAnglia · 10/10/2023 10:52

what about UN rulings on illegal occupations? As a respecter of rules you support those?

I'm against the occupation, yes. I hope to see a Palestinian state set up and the settlements evacuated.

I'm not much in favour of the UN - Jews have never won popularity contests amongst Gentiles.

DownNative · 10/10/2023 10:58

AUserNameIsNot · 10/10/2023 10:54

The Irish had a messy divorce they're still not entirely happy with from the UK. But they didn't let the perfect be the enemy of the good.

I sincerely hope a Palestinian state can be formed from Palestinian territories which, even if it's not everything Palestinians hoped for, or believe they be are entitled to, provides a lasting basis for sustained peace.

No, our conflict in Northern Ireland is NOT anywhere close to the same as yours. Nowhere near.

Republicans rejected in the 1920s what they would come to accept in the 1990s once Irish Republicanism was ideologically defeated in the form of PIRA. You will note PIRA got none of their long held key core demands in the Belfast Agreement.

Ours is not a good substitute for yours.

Nanaof1 · 10/10/2023 10:58

Blackbyrd · 09/10/2023 20:04

No point starting this thread OP when you just want to shout into an echo chamber. As PP have clarified, there is more than one border. The UK has rightly or wrongly attempted many times to influence Middle Eastern politics, and achieved little except criticism. Direct your concerns towards the true instigators of this attack, Iran

That's usual for Iran, go in the back door and make others fight your fight. Egg Hamas on, give them weapons of war and then sit and watch, and wait for your next opportunity.

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