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WIBU to ask them to pay

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treaclepumpkin · 04/10/2023 16:32

My son has come home from Reception today very upset and with a large (unfixable) hole in his trousers. Another child had pushed him over for no reason and then proceeded to laugh about it. This was all witnessed by their teacher, who did apparently tell the boy off (but he just kept laughing).

The trousers that ripped are for PE and I only have one other pair, so will need to buy another from the school shop, as they use them 2/3 times a week, including to go to forest school.

Would it be unreasonable to reach out to this kid's parents and ask them to pay for/replace the trousers? For context (if relevant) they cost £22. There is no issue here though about affordability for party. It's more the principle, especially as the trousers are barely 6 weeks old.

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Mydogmybestfriend · 11/10/2023 00:49

Fix and buy a cheap replacement for issues like this. Hopefully the bullying gets sorted out thouhh..hope your boy is okay

Kristy20 · 12/10/2023 03:32

Depending on the school, buying a cheaper pair might not be a viable solution. Some schools are very strict on having the right uniform.

Basilton · 12/10/2023 05:29

YourNameGoesHere · 04/10/2023 16:56

Because you don't actually have to buy these items. The school cannot force you to buy them unless it's a private school.

Seems pretty likely it is a private school.

Testina · 12/10/2023 18:00

More than “pretty likely” - OP already said it was!

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