Group of school mums.

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Hiwelcome · 25/09/2023 08:59

There is one group of school mums who have children in my daughters reception class. Every drop off and pick up they stand in a circle chatting away and seem very involved in the school, seem to know everybody and everybody’s children. I’ve noticed they are quite hostile towards me though and have started giving me ‘dirty looks’. I have never spoken to them but do smile and this morning one of them gave me the evils back. I know I shouldn’t care but it’s annoying me as this is every morning and I’m just trying to go about my day and drop my daughter off to school but it’s bothering me.

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NerrSnerr · 08/12/2023 22:13

elfonashelf0 · 08/12/2023 22:10

I have this exact issue at my daughters reception class, where they arranging groups of children to meet for special events , but don’t include everyone and kids know that.
it also came to the point where one of the girls telling my dd “I don’t want to play with you”, “you are annoying” or “you are not invited to my birthday”…
I can see this mums behaviour is also not very nice, she’s giving us dirty looks etc and wondering if I should speak to her?
brcause this now is effecting my dd I’m very close to pulling her aside. But one thing I am also certain of is that this is a perfect opportunity for her to make a gossip afterwards which she seems like a master of gossip, someone who walks around with a big smile on her face but then bi*es behind everyone’s backs.
What would you do?

They don't need to arrange things for everyone. The mums are probably a group of friends so arranging something between themselves. If you want to arrange a full class event then sort it yourself.

If there's bullying in school then speak to the teacher.

elfonashelf0 · 08/12/2023 22:22

Of course they don’t. But the fact that their kids talk openly about it and tell other kids you are not invited, leaving them upset, I find it horrible

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