I think you’re confused of the position here. Let’s break this down into two separate components.
Does Brand come across as a misogynist? Does he say things I don’t agree with? Does he have a narcissistic personality? All those things are a matter of personal judgement. Firstly I wouldn’t leave my child with anyone I didn’t know. If I did know then and felt that their personality was something I didn’t like (for whatever reason I wouldn’t s leave my child with them). That’s my personal choice. The only consequence for the other person would be that they didn’t get to spend time with my child.
Now let’s move on to the criminal allegations. The test for rape is whether the following has occurred beyond all reasonable doubt.
The offence is created by section 1[1] of the Sexual Offences Act 2003:
(1) A person (A) commits an offence if—
(a) he intentionally penetrates the vagina, anus or mouth of another person (B) with his penis,
(b) B does not consent to the penetration, and
(c) A does not reasonably believe that B consents.
(2) Whether a belief is reasonable is to be determined having regard to all the circumstances, including any steps A has taken to ascertain whether B consents.
(3) Sections 75 and 76 apply to an offence under this section.
(4) A person guilty of an offence under this section is liable, on conviction on indictment, to imprisonment for life.
Note no where in there is there any reference to, would you leave your daughter with him, does he set your spidery senses tingling?
How do I know whether that offence has been committed? It needs to be tried in a court of law, evidence needs to be set out by each side in accordance with the same rules with the same opportunity and viewed fairly and equally. The Jury then decides whether guilty or not. Where the procedure is not followed there are rights of appeal.
so your question, whilst emotive is irrelevant to criminal accusations. You are confusing defending an individual with defending justice