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(Covid) To think these recommendations are bonkers?

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NoCharnce · 18/09/2023 12:11

So the government commission into how to memorialise the Covid pandemic has recommended the government implement “A UK-wide day of reflection should be established and held annually.”

Other recommendations include national memorials (10 sites already identified!), oral histories and museums plus additional funding for local authorities to set up their own memorials.

I can’t be the only one who thinks this is nuts and hope the government ignores the recommendations? I genuinely cannot believe people get paid to produce this crap.

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SaltyOne · 28/09/2023 10:16

@WestwardHo1

But the point, I think, was that with Covid it wouldn't have been necessary for enormous swathes of elderly people to give their lives so that children could go to school. It wasn't the bubonic plague or the Spanish flu.

The school closures and the way they were handled (with the associated utter lack of safeguarding for children and young people) were appalling. Why did children not return to school during the summer term of 2020?

The true extent of the illness wasn't known at that time, and there was no vaccine. It was, and still is, a key killer of the elderly and vulnerable. Schools need teachers and administrators, and they were sick too in large numbers.

TrashedSofa · 28/09/2023 10:22

In summer 2020? I thought the best info we had about sickness rates then is they were pretty low, especially as we'd been in lockdown so contacts had been significantly reduced. Is there data about school staff being too ill for schools to open at that time?

Intuitively I'd have thought that would've been more of an issue in September 2020 when they actually did fully open, rather than June and July. All the EOTHO stuff.

user1497207191 · 28/09/2023 10:51

WestwardHo1 · 27/09/2023 14:26

And while I'm here, today in town I saw a woman walking along the prom - outside in a F9 gale - wearing a mask over her mouth (her nose she left free to inhale the fresh sea air).

That is exactly the kind of thing people mean when they talk about a lack of logic and rationality. Yet according to some, this woman's morals are on a higher level that someone who concluded that such a thing would be pointless.

You're making a huge assumption that she was wearing a mask as a measure against covid or similar respiratory disease. That's a big assumption. You don't know why she was wearing a mask, do you? She could have had her own reasons for wearing one for other reasons.

user1497207191 · 28/09/2023 10:53

SaltyOne · 28/09/2023 10:16

@WestwardHo1

But the point, I think, was that with Covid it wouldn't have been necessary for enormous swathes of elderly people to give their lives so that children could go to school. It wasn't the bubonic plague or the Spanish flu.

The school closures and the way they were handled (with the associated utter lack of safeguarding for children and young people) were appalling. Why did children not return to school during the summer term of 2020?

The true extent of the illness wasn't known at that time, and there was no vaccine. It was, and still is, a key killer of the elderly and vulnerable. Schools need teachers and administrators, and they were sick too in large numbers.

But did they really know a lot more about covid at the end of August when all kids went back to school, than they did in, say, June? I don't think so. In fact, covid infection rates were pretty low in June and were rising pretty steeply in August (after the stupidity of EOTHO). It's that kind of illogic thinking that people are calling out!

WestwardHo1 · 28/09/2023 11:26

user1497207191 · 28/09/2023 10:51

You're making a huge assumption that she was wearing a mask as a measure against covid or similar respiratory disease. That's a big assumption. You don't know why she was wearing a mask, do you? She could have had her own reasons for wearing one for other reasons.

I think it might be quite a safe assumption mightn't it? Given that prior to 2020 you would pretty much never have seen someone out in the fresh air in a strong sea breeze wearing a blue surgical mask.

WestwardHo1 · 28/09/2023 11:27

The true extent of the illness wasn't known at that time, and there was no vaccine. It was, and still is, a key killer of the elderly and vulnerable. Schools need teachers and administrators, and they were sick too in large numbers.

Not in June 2020 they weren't.

WomblingTree86 · 28/09/2023 13:17

WestwardHo1 · 28/09/2023 11:26

I think it might be quite a safe assumption mightn't it? Given that prior to 2020 you would pretty much never have seen someone out in the fresh air in a strong sea breeze wearing a blue surgical mask.

She may have been wearing it like that so she could pull it up easily before going on a bus or inside somewhere. It can be easier than taking it off completely and then having to store it in a pocket or handbag. They weren't as easily available prior to 2020 and many people hadn't experienced wearing them. Now they have, many people prefer wearing them in certain circumstances.

WhalePolo · 28/09/2023 13:27

@WestwardHo1 but maybe the reason it wasn’t that bad was because we had a lockdown. It’s impossible to know how we would have fared without one - and I’m applying that on a global level. Half of humanity were in lockdown. I don’t think you can really pick out Sweden and say “well they were ok” because you’d then need to apply their stance across the globe. And we know it wasn’t ‘ok’ in India or Brazil. I do completely agree that it should have been handled better, and we should look to see how other countries fared in terms of how we could handle a future pandemic better.
But when there is a new virus, causing hospitals to be on the verge of collapse, with no vaccine as a method of a control - I do think emergency measures and restrictions are needed.

Subsequent lockdowns, I can see the debate about their necessity. The first lockdown I think was necessary.

TrashedSofa · 28/09/2023 14:46

I agree a lot of people supported and continue to retrospectively support the initial lockdown, because of the unknown aspect. Even some people who oppose/d later restrictions. But surely part of that discussion must be about the length of the first lockdown too? Whether we lifted those emergency measures at the optimum time.

WhalePolo · 28/09/2023 15:53

@TrashedSofa

It was very difficult at the time to know how things would progress. The effectiveness of the vaccine, new mutations. With hindsight you’d say - we should have done things differently. But with foresight? In an unprecedented situation?

TrashedSofa · 28/09/2023 16:24

WhalePolo · 28/09/2023 15:53

@TrashedSofa

It was very difficult at the time to know how things would progress. The effectiveness of the vaccine, new mutations. With hindsight you’d say - we should have done things differently. But with foresight? In an unprecedented situation?

Hmm, thing is we knew there was going to be a second wave and that it was liable to be more deadly. Whitty was saying that in March, so it wasn't new info or a hindsight thing in June 2020. And obviously we all know how seasons and illness work, but we took decisions that delayed the time when more mixing recommenced and pushed it closer to flu season.

NotReadyForAutumnYet · 28/09/2023 19:32

Yougov poll on whether people think schools should have closed

x.com/yougov/status/1707043667519603083?s=46&t=G9BWOZlYGPa1_pR7aKkbHQ

WhalePolo · 29/09/2023 13:12

@NotReadyForAutumnYet

Thats interesting. I’ll copy and paste….

In hindsight, do you think it was right or wrong to close schools during the COVID‑19 pandemic?

All Britons
Right to do so: 59%
Wrong to do so: 29%

Con voters
Right to do so: 47%
Wrong to do so: 41%

Lab voters
Right to do so: 72%
Wrong to do so: 20%

NotReadyForAutumnYet · 29/09/2023 13:24

Thanks. Poll was published this week.

JenniferBooth · 29/09/2023 14:49

Strange - I was about then, and I felt the exact opposite to be true. Those against any mitigation measures dominated the threads until board became unusable

You had a whole bloody board. We ustt had long running threads in Chat and there was STILL someone trying to get those threads shut down THREE YEARS later.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/site_stuff/4763622-anti-dementors-the-ads

Anti-Dementors : The AD’s | Mumsnet

Anti-Dementirs. These are a long running group of threads on Mumsnet. I’ve recently been on a Covid thread and felt attacked by a group of posters fo...

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/site_stuff/4763622-anti-dementors-the-ads

SaltyOne · 30/09/2023 02:06

JenniferBooth · 29/09/2023 14:49

Strange - I was about then, and I felt the exact opposite to be true. Those against any mitigation measures dominated the threads until board became unusable

You had a whole bloody board. We ustt had long running threads in Chat and there was STILL someone trying to get those threads shut down THREE YEARS later.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/site_stuff/4763622-anti-dementors-the-ads

Yes? The ADs dominated the boards and had a thread a chat. Two things can run at the same time. You were never oppressed as you claim.

WhalePolo · 30/09/2023 06:49

This is the thing about people who claim their ‘free speech’ is being oppressed. It’s fine for them to spread anti-mask or anti-restrictions type sentiments. Or to formulate their own attempt to ‘cancel the narrative’ surrounding masks etc with comrades. To make assumptions, attack and ridicule those supporting restrictions and dismiss them as snobs. Or say any misinformed, scornful or hateful thing they like. But absolutely not ok for anyone to speak out against that view. Free speech for me, but not for thee.

Sparklecats · 30/09/2023 12:20

1dayatatime · 26/09/2023 10:15

@WhalePolo

"Someone was making a point earlier about missed cancer diagnosis due to lockdown. From my experience, there was no manpower or resources to treat cancer patients because the local hospital was completely overwhelmed with Covid. Therefore measures taken to control infection spread were needed to take the burden off hospitals so they COULD treat cancer patients."

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That was me. I don't disagree with you on the above on what happened but it is completely illogical.

For the majority of cases and certainly those below 80 Covid was not a life threatening disease. However for the majority of cases cancer is a life threatening condition.

So the hospitals prioritised the treatment of a less life threatening condition over a more life threatening condition.

Just catching up with the bun fight…. 5 pages behind…

@1dayatatime

Wtf are you talking about?

Two problems regarding covid in hospitals

  1. some people developed severe problems and needed to be admitted for treatment to get them well/prevent death. This is NOT MILD ILLNESS.

  2. others would be admitted for other reasons, and then contract covid which would prolong their stay either because there was nowhere for them to go (care home wouldn’t admit them etc) or because their health deteriorated as a result.

People with mild disease would not be admitted to hospital. They would be told to treat at home.

It’s not as if the hospitals opened the doors and welcomed in everyone with mild flulike symptoms.

Your position is completely flawed in its thinking.

Covid suffers who required urgent attention took up hospital resources.

This will have led to backlogs in treatment for other conditions, including cancer unfortunately.

The only way to solve the problem is to get case numbers down and thus the number of people developing severe disease requiring hospitalisation. Via restrictions/vaccination.

Feel your head will you.

What did you want them to do, leave seriously ill people on the street.

To be clear - those admitted to hospital with covid have illness that warrants it!!

Sparklecats · 30/09/2023 12:26

WhalePolo · 26/09/2023 14:55

@1dayatatime

But I don’t understand that. Do you think hospitals would have been all ticking along nicely and running as normal if no restrictions were in place? Cancer patients seen promptly? With Covid circulating unchecked, no vaccine?

Or would there have been an absolute tsunami of very ill patients needing urgent ICU care, pulling resources away from all departments. In my local hospital, I’m aware of wards being cleared to make way for Covid patients - they were presenting as the immediate emergency. And if that number was say - tenfold - because no restrictions were in place, a cancer patient would be put EVEN FURTHER down the back of the queue.

But this is obvious isn’t it??

^This

And I say this as someone who lost friends/fam from both cancer and heart conditions in the pandemic in part due to untimely treatment (lack of access to gp face to face, rescheduled treatments etc).

If we had sat on our hands and done nothing it would have been so much worse; the health system would have collapsed.

Sparklecats · 30/09/2023 12:33

JenniferBooth · 26/09/2023 16:34

People sacrificed seeing their families for months on end. If those sacrifices were so minimal why arent people doing them now

And ive already sounded a warning. Minimizing and denigrating peoples sacrifices is what is more likely to have people ignoring any future restrictions next time not fucking Partygate

I said on here and in RL in April 2020 that whatever we do and whatever we sacrifice it will never be enough. And ive been proved right!

And when the "we are all in this together" spiel started i knew that it would only count when it came to Covid lockdowns vaccines and masks. And that it would be back to the default setting as soon as possible Aptly demonstrated by the comments about social housing tenants on here.

So next time it will be obvious to more people that it was all about protecting our "betters"

Edited

This is a deranged outlook.

It was about protecting yourselves Jennifer.

Especially since there is such a tight link between social deprivation and heightened covid risk.

Everyone was given the same information and guidelines.

If anyone chose not to follow them yes they could harm others unrelated to them. But the main risk was to their own person and their family and friends.

I found the restrictions very difficult. But I held to them tightly because I needed to protect myself and my family. That was more important to me than anything else.

Sparklecats · 30/09/2023 12:39

firef1y · 26/09/2023 18:34

Those going about those of us that couldn't (still can't) wear masks.

I'm autistic, I like my personal space more than the average person, the 2m rule (when it comes to strangers/people I don't know well) could have stayed forever and I'd have been happy. I tried to wear a mask, my stims became so violent I was hitting myself in the head and scratching my arms so bad that I bled. I was told by a pharmacist to take the mask off.

So I wore my lanyard (that I already had for situations I find stressful), and didn't wear a mask. Luckily I live in a village and most people know me and we're understanding, but when I left my village, omg.

There were the people that tutted and stared, notably one older couple who were at the turning the disposable mask inside out stage (I'm sure it was blue originally but it was a kind of murky grey by that point). For me worse were the people that insisted on sitting right next to me and the tutting. As I said I don't like my personal space invaded at the best of times, but why did they need to near enough sit on my knee instead of going to an empty seat???

@firefly

For future reference you can get a sunflower lanyard stating that you are autistic. I think you can customise them too to say that you can’t wear a mask.

I would be wary if mask wearing is reintroduced in future, as having a neurodevelopmental disorder could put you at higher risk of devloping severe illness.

Currently autism is in the green book for vulnerable children. I don’t think so for adults at this time, but still be careful with yourself, especially if mask wearing is difficult for you.

Sparklecats · 30/09/2023 13:11

Again the thread has been derailed into general discussion surrounding mask wearing and other restrictions.

It is all very well for people to bleat on about covid being a virus with low fatality rate that mainly targets the elderly…..

But this was a novel virus with no therapeutics whatsoever. It’s an RNA virus that mutates quickly, is highly transmissible and there is a global population of 8bn for it to run through.

With close relatives know to have fatality rates in excess of 10% caution absolutely was warranted.

I agree with another poster who stated that Sweden etc enjoyed more freedoms on account of other countries sacrifice to slow the spread and thus mutation rate of the virus until the point where vaccines etc were developed.

The topic of the thread is discussing the recommendations made to deal with the legacy of covid, in particular remembrance of the dead.

If people want to discuss the rights and wrongs of lockdowns/masks, maybe a new thread would be more appropriate.

JenniferBooth · 30/09/2023 13:56

It was about protecting yourselves Jennifer

Really I thought we were told to wear a mask to protect others.

I think your mask has just slipped!!

WhalePolo · 30/09/2023 15:11

@JenniferBooth

That situation sounds very poorly managed, but hospitals do try and control infection spread to protect their patients. Such as MRSA means you might have to be isolated when treated.

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