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People chucking piss at gigs

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Yajebbend · 27/08/2023 02:03

Just came back from a gig at a local park. I’ve not been to a gig for ages and was really looking forward to it but the amount of people wasted and the amount of plastic cups of piss flying around really spoiled it. We were nowhere near the front so had quite a lot of space around us but still pissed people knocked in to us like a good few times.

I went and had two drinks, it was £10 a drink each and a no food or drink could be brought in with bag searches so people must have spent a fortune.

Am I just old and miserable or aibu to never go a gig ever again.

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Sueveneers · 27/08/2023 10:19

Wait, were they actually throwing piss ie urine, or alcohol, @Yajebbend .

DingDongDenny · 27/08/2023 10:19

I'm surprised nobody's mentioned T in the Park yet, or Pee in the Park as we renamed it.

My abiding memory is just men pissing everywhere, including flinging it in pint glasses. The whole site stank.

My highlight was sitting against a fence eating chips when a man came and pissed right next to me and a friend. I said 'You're digusting, can't you see we're eating' He said 'Where do you expect me to go' and I pointed to the loos that were just opposite with no queue.

It's like they just turn into animals. I'm sure they wouldn't piss next to their mum or girlfriend having their dinner

Thepeopleversuswork · 27/08/2023 10:24

I went to a gig this summer and was shocked by the amount of yobbish behaviour like this. I love gigs but this made me seriously reconsider whether I want to bother with them.

I am too old to tolerate being shoved and jostled by 25 year old wankers showing off to their girlfriends and as for people throwing piss… there’s a special place in hell.

It tends to be laddish bands: Oasis (and the various spinoffs), Blur, Arctic Monkeys etc. Went to see Springsteen at BST and there was none of that. Urgh.

HeatherMoores · 27/08/2023 10:25

This is all utterly disgusting. Arrest them all zap them with a cattle prod!

OccupantofInterplanetaryCraft · 27/08/2023 10:29

I cannot get over people who talk loudly during the songs particularly the quieter songs.

Who goes to a gig to miss the best part of it talking nonsense to someone they have just met? Are they coked up? Drunk?

loads of gigs have been ruined this way

cocoloco117 · 27/08/2023 10:29

TallerThanAverage · 27/08/2023 08:18

To think there are women out there who sleep with men like this.

Maybe they were unaware that they had a predisposition for throwing piss when they started sleeping with them. Im sure the piss throwing comes later in the relationship rather than a first date kind of thing.

I think it’s naive to suggest that piss chucking would be an isolated and well hidden foible of an otherwise apparently polite and desirable man, rather than one of many obvious markers of a general tendency towards disguising inconsiderate scumbag behaviour.

LadyEloise1 · 27/08/2023 10:30

I agree @cocoloco117

ImNotReallySpartacus · 27/08/2023 10:32

cocoloco117 · 27/08/2023 10:29

I think it’s naive to suggest that piss chucking would be an isolated and well hidden foible of an otherwise apparently polite and desirable man, rather than one of many obvious markers of a general tendency towards disguising inconsiderate scumbag behaviour.

Very well put. There would be clues for anyone with the sense to read them.

TallerThanAverage · 27/08/2023 10:35

ImNotReallySpartacus · 27/08/2023 10:32

Very well put. There would be clues for anyone with the sense to read them.

I stand corrected, maybe they’re really good in bed 😁

Sueveneers · 27/08/2023 10:36

Can someone please clarify what the OP meant? Are they chucking beer (beer/alcohol is often called 'piss' where I am) or are they chucking actual urine (like they pee in their empty cup and chuck it because they're too lazy/don't want to lose their spot)?

Can someone put me out of my misery and just tell me?

knobkopf · 27/08/2023 10:37

I've never been to a gig or a festival.
But how have I never heard of this before? Must have been living under a rock.
It's absolutely disgusting - who the fuck would do something like that?

Yajebbend · 27/08/2023 10:41

Actual warm piss they are throwing. No idea why. Could be they don’t want to loose their spot or they are just arseholes

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SlipperyLizard · 27/08/2023 10:42

Sueveneers · 27/08/2023 10:36

Can someone please clarify what the OP meant? Are they chucking beer (beer/alcohol is often called 'piss' where I am) or are they chucking actual urine (like they pee in their empty cup and chuck it because they're too lazy/don't want to lose their spot)?

Can someone put me out of my misery and just tell me?

They’re chucking piss, actual urine. It is easy to naively think it is beer when you see plastic pint glasses flying above the crowd, but nobody is flinging overpriced beer!

cocoloco117 · 27/08/2023 10:42

I suppose being showered in warm piss is the perfect metaphor for watching washed up has-beens like Noel Gallagher and his talentless brother.

Sadly a significant proportion of Brits are incapable of enjoying themselves without resorting to excessive quantities of alcohol, or coke, at which point their idea of enjoyment becomes ruining the enjoyment of others.

IHateWasps · 27/08/2023 10:42

Could be they don’t want to loose their spot or they are just arseholes

Either way they're arseholes.

Maddy70 · 27/08/2023 10:43

I got so used to the expectation of piss being given thrown in the UK. Then I moved to a different country. Never had it happen in Spain

Why are brits so disgusting?

IHateWasps · 27/08/2023 10:43

They’re chucking piss, actual urine. It is easy to naively think it is beer when you see plastic pint glasses flying above the crowd, but nobody is flinging overpriced beer!

Some do. I've been showered in beer, actual beer a few times but thankfully never urine. Some people should really only be allowed out on a leash.

CremeEggThief · 27/08/2023 10:44

Oh God. The "We're at a GIG, so we MUST behave as badly as possible" crowd, putting everyone else who's just trying to enjoy themselves off!😡

Ploptheowlwhowasafraidofthedark · 27/08/2023 10:45

Yep this always happened at V festival early 2000s, when you got hit by a cup you’d be happy if it was cold and therefore beer. Absolutely disgusting.
I’ve been at a festival today and there have been no queues for toilets which impressed me and no piss throwing. And there were big indie bands playing. Maybe we are moving on!

IHateWasps · 27/08/2023 10:46

I don't find it acceptable to be coated in beer either btw but throwing urine is obviously even worse. I've stopped attending most gigs now because of the behaviour of others and because they're rarely disability friendly. I'll only attend now if it's of a certain type where things like this are unlikely to happen and I'll never go to a festival again.

TastesLikeStrawberriesOnASummerEvening · 27/08/2023 10:48

Neverplayleapfrogwithmrpipes · 27/08/2023 10:15

People have definitely become bigger dicks since the pandemic.

There was a Harry styles concert in Frankfurt and it was clearly communicated digitally and at the start of the concert that the roof would be closed and due to the sensitive fire system, if a balloon hit the system, the alarms would go off and the venue would have to be evacuated and concert cancelled.

One person must have smuggled a balloon in and let it go mid concert. Thank goodness it didn't set the alarms off but fans were livid.

The effort that it took to get tickets for my daughter in Cardiff, I would have been absolutely fuming!

A Matilda balloon, only for open air venues though of course.

SquashPenguin · 27/08/2023 10:56

@ImaginingDragonz Came here to say this too. Metal gigs always appear the most frenzied but I’ve never experienced people throwing anything let alone piss! Metalheads are the best- I saw a pit being stopped because someone had lost a shoe 😆

2023forme · 27/08/2023 10:58

Can’t stand this - so disgusting. I also cannot get my head round people throwing phones/objects at the performers. Presumably people have paid for a ticket so why the need to abuse the performer?! Harry Styles got something chucked at him - near impossible to get a ticket but someone with a ticket does that! Something seriously wrong with people.

IHateWasps · 27/08/2023 10:59

There were definitely people throwing piss at Download on the one occasion I was there. I also met multiple arseholes including a very gropey one while there. I've met plenty of arseholes at metal gigs.

SquashPenguin · 27/08/2023 11:02

IHateWasps · 27/08/2023 10:59

There were definitely people throwing piss at Download on the one occasion I was there. I also met multiple arseholes including a very gropey one while there. I've met plenty of arseholes at metal gigs.

I must have been lucky then, I’ve never had a bad experience! Only place I’ve ever seen people chucking piss was the Chili Peppers a long time ago. Rank.

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