To think my husband peeing in the sink is...

[AperfectMess]

DISGUSTING!! I was woken up in the middle of the night by an unidentified trickling noise. When I looked around I saw the ensuite door ajar and dh peeing in the sink! I had to do a double take as I wasn't aware this was 'normal' behaviour.

I told dh that it is disgusting as we clean our teeth, and wash at that sink! He is saying what else can he do as he has "a rock hard dick," and it would "get everywhere if he was "to do it in the toilet!" I then said could he not sit down to which he said that wouldn't work either!

DH told me this doesn't happen often, which made me realise he has done this before, he said it is only when he has been too hard. 🤢
Is this normal for men to do under these circumstances?
I have told him he needs to bleach the sink, as all I heard him do was run some water in washing his hands. If I hadn't have woken I would have cleaned my teeth there this morning!

Yo be fair to him, he's not wrong when he says that it's almost impossible to aim into the loo when it's rock hard.

And sitting down isn't an option, because you end up with your penis touching the underneath of the toilet, and then when you start peeing it sprays out the gap between the toilet and the seat all over the floor.

So what the average man tends to do is ..... Believe it or not .... Wait for it to go down! It's irritating, and a waste of time, and not what you really want to be doing at 3 in the morning, but it's what you have to do. Or you can be as gross as OPs husband and use the sink!

And yet washing a mooncup in public sinks is perfectly acceptable. The mind boggles!

I've heard tales of drunken women in nightclubs hauling themselves up to use sinks if all the cubicles were occupied... not me, but I suppose you have to admire their agility. 🤷‍♀️

@UnctuousUnicorns · Today 19:32
I've heard tales of drunken women in nightclubs hauling themselves up to use sinks if all the cubicles were occupied... not me, but I suppose you have to admire their agility. 🤷‍♀️

Oh my goodness, I wouldn't want to be a fly on that particular wall, or the poor toilet attendant!

I had to go and ask DP about this even though I was a little scared to hear the answer!

He said he would just pee in the toilet obviously; he would sit down and do it. I asked him about the ‘snapping his dick off’ comment and he just laughed and said that was stupid. So…sorry to OP and all PP’s who have to live with grotbags, but I’m quite relieved.

@SunshineRoo27 · Today 17:02
Honestly starting to doubt my choices in life! I should have asked better questions while we were dating 😂

What's your favourite colour,? what's your idea of a great holiday? do you pee in the sink?

Rookie mistake

🤣 If only I has asked that, I would have saved the sight I saw in the middle of my sleep last night! I really cannot unsee that, and the trickling noise <shudder>

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men have nasty habits

The nice thing about MN is I get to thank my stars about once a day that I was born a lesbian.

Eewww this is not ok! My DH angles it down into the loo and kind of holds the wall to balance himself, he's never snapped his willy!

@Blanketpolicy I love that! Especially the planking one 😂
Thanks for the lol 😆

Bit weird but presumably you've given him a blow job before and probably did other things too, so i don't see why you'd be so disgusted with brushing your teeth in the same sink his urines been in? Unless you lick the sink whilst brushing?

Not good. Why doesn't he just let it go down unless he has been taking a particularly strong Viagra alternative!!

My ex used to only piss in the sink. Hard or not. I left him.

Absolutely vile no excuse. Instant ick double over for me 🤢 absolutely no respect for anyone else in the house pissing in the sink I'm sorry.

Oddly no responses to this. 🤔

I assume mooncups are washed in lots and lots of hot water, ×with lots of hot water afterwards to swill the sink. Bit like washing your face. Lots of running water afterwards.

Late night pee won't have any water, not even cold, to swill the sink. Notice the difference?

I thought that I had heard some pathetic excuses from men, this is up there with them.

My Exh used to pee in the sink, including the kitchen one. Purely because he was to freaking lazy to use the not in use toilet upstairs.

Better the shower cubicle than the sink 🙄

@AgnestaVipers · Today 19:52
The nice thing about MN is I get to thank my stars about once a day that I was born a lesbian.

You have escaped!

The two guys I've seen do it (they couldn't wait for housemate to get out the shower) both ran the tap.

Why wouldn't you wash it down? It's not like blokes brush their teeth and just leave it all in the sink. Unless CantThink knows some proper grim blokes.

I don't know of any blokes who pee in the sink as I have never dated feral men. However I do know that grim men who think it's fine to pee in sinks (or shop doorways) and try to say it's normal invariably never think to swill it down. I highly doubt they even clean the bathroom as they tend to have magical cleaning fairies.

I am able to point it down while erect, it can be a little uncomfortable but perfectly possible especially with a slight squat as well. I would never wee in the sink in this, or any other scenario I can think of. Your dh is grim and a bit of a twat!

@CantThinkOfANameAtAll

I'd have more of a problem going near a sink that a women has washed her uterine contents and vaginal juices down then using a sink my husband has urinated in personally. Who knows one day I might have to wipe my husbands diarrhoea but you know what I love him so who cares.