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Posting for traffic - DD forgot her medication and we’re at the airport

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VeryGoodVeryNice · 18/08/2023 15:54

My DD (age 19) forgot both to take her antidepressant this morning, and to bring them with her. We’re about to board the plane to Amsterdam, going for a week. I tried phoning 111 and my GP, but neither could help (we were already through security).

Is there anything we can do when we get there to get an emergency prescription for her? If not the holiday is going to be a write off, I know from previous experience of her missing a day or two she gets awful withdrawals, and her dose has been upped recently so I’d imagine it’s going to be even worse. I realise any option is probably going to cost £££££ but I’d rather pay and save the holiday if possible.

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VeryGoodVeryNice · 18/08/2023 19:06

I got an email from my GP but that isn’t good enough apparently, it needs to be a signed prescription, so I have to pay for a consultation to see the doctor at the airport pharmacy. Just waiting now. But at least I can get it sorted.

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Clickandcollect82 · 18/08/2023 19:14

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BlastedIce · 18/08/2023 19:17

VeryGoodVeryNice · 18/08/2023 19:06

I got an email from my GP but that isn’t good enough apparently, it needs to be a signed prescription, so I have to pay for a consultation to see the doctor at the airport pharmacy. Just waiting now. But at least I can get it sorted.

Excellent! Enjoy your break

BadBadDecisions · 18/08/2023 19:19

EeyoreNeedsABalloon · 18/08/2023 18:45

So if your daughter is disabled and unable to sort it herself, surely it's you that forgot it, not her
Kinda agree with this, especially as the OP appears to be travelling with her DD.
If your DD’s disability is such that she lacks capacity to remember to pack them, this is on you, OP.
My eldest DD lacks capacity, and I do this kind of thing for her. If I forgot to pack any of her essential meds, I wouldn’t even think of saying ‘she forgot’. (I have a disability too, but have capacity to set phone reminders/put up post it note lists on doors, to remind me of this kind of stuff. DD doesn’t.)

I'm sure the OP is really grateful for your polite slagging off of her parenting.

Or is she maybe focused on trying to sort out her daughter...

IrresponsiblyCertainAboutSexualDimorphism · 18/08/2023 19:27

Oh that’s good news! Costly I suppose but you’ll be able to enjoy your holiday now.

VeryGoodVeryNice · 18/08/2023 19:29

It could have been a lot worse, only €76. Onwards and upwards.

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StarsandStones · 18/08/2023 19:30

Enjoy your holiday!

Missrabbithasfaintedagain · 18/08/2023 19:44

Honestly, that seems like a small price to pay to save the holiday. Very lucky OP, now you can relax and enjoy your holiday!

MirandaWest · 18/08/2023 19:49

So glad you’ve been able to get it sorted 😊

some of the posts on this thread have been so judgemental.

JenWillsiam · 18/08/2023 19:50

VeryGoodVeryNice · 18/08/2023 19:29

It could have been a lot worse, only €76. Onwards and upwards.

Definitely cheaper than a return trip home and another flight 😂

SM4713 · 18/08/2023 19:52

Thanks for the update OP. I'm glad you can get it sorted, then enjoy the rest of your holiday 🏖

momonpurpose · 18/08/2023 19:54

So glad you got it sorted! I hope you and your daughter have a wonderful time

Absolutelynotfornow · 18/08/2023 19:58

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@Clickandcollect82 Only just started reading this thread and you have said exactly what I was thinking …poor kid !

Willmafrockfit · 18/08/2023 20:04

glad you got it sorted

neverbeenskiing · 18/08/2023 20:09

BadBadDecisions · 18/08/2023 19:19

I'm sure the OP is really grateful for your polite slagging off of her parenting.

Or is she maybe focused on trying to sort out her daughter...

Fuck knows, being the parent of a disabled child or young person is hard enough without other parents of kids with additional needs turning on you the second you make a mistake. The lack of empathy some posters have displayed on this thread is staggering. We all forget things, all of us, and as the parent of a disabled child OP will have much more to remember than most. Whether OP forgot the meds or her DD forgot, it really doesn't matter! She posted asking for solutions and its a shame some people just can't resist the opportunity to kick someone when they're down.

I hope you get sorted, OP and that you're able to enjoy your trip.

Trifecta · 18/08/2023 20:14

00100001 · 18/08/2023 16:14

Yep. I know nothing. Correct. Definitely not.

Except for arrogance.

Jem57 · 18/08/2023 20:16

And breathe,the best £76 you have ever spent,have a brilliant time.

Zonder · 18/08/2023 20:18

Well done OP! Cheaper than someone getting another flight tomorrow 🤣

panko · 18/08/2023 20:19

Yay!

Meowandthen · 18/08/2023 20:22

BadBadDecisions · 18/08/2023 19:19

I'm sure the OP is really grateful for your polite slagging off of her parenting.

Or is she maybe focused on trying to sort out her daughter...

To be fair, the OP specifically stated that her daughter forgot the meds.

Freshstarts23 · 18/08/2023 20:23

00100001 · 18/08/2023 16:03

My DS is 19 (20 in November) and I'd fully expect him to firstly remember his own medicine, and if this happened find a way to sort it out. I'd help him where I could, sub him the money or whatever, but he is more than capable of getting a taxi/bus/train back home and booking a flight and getting himself to the airport.and joining us the next day.

My DD is i8 and suffers with her mental health and could not do this. She gets too overwhelmed and stressed.

Chickenpie35 · 18/08/2023 20:29

00100001 · 18/08/2023 15:58

Well, as the adult in this situation, she can surely get herself home and collect her medicine?
And if she misses the flight,she can look to get on the next one.

Are you OK???

neverbeenskiing · 18/08/2023 20:39

Meowandthen · 18/08/2023 20:22

To be fair, the OP specifically stated that her daughter forgot the meds.

It doesn't matter!! The problem is that OP and her DD are at the airport and the medication is not. She didn't post asking whose responsibility it was, she posted asking for practical solutions to that problem.

Maybe OP just didn't expect to be interrogated so she put "my DD forgot her meds" because it's quicker to type than "my DD lacks the capacity to remember her medication due to her disability so I was supposed to remind her to pack them, but I forgot".

Fucking hell.

BarbieWorldFantastic · 18/08/2023 20:44

VeryGoodVeryNice · 18/08/2023 19:29

It could have been a lot worse, only €76. Onwards and upwards.

Have a great trip!

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