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Hannah Ingram-Moore -Victim or Villain?

409 replies

MrsImFedUpOfTheWeather · 15/08/2023 21:17

I'm inclined to think we've been scammed. Am I being unreasonable?

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LynetteScavo · 16/08/2023 06:54

daffodilandtulip · 16/08/2023 06:29

I never understood why anyone donated money for someone walking around their garden tbh.

No one would have donated money for someone walking around their council flat. It showed privilege from the start.

This.

MrsDBaddiel · 16/08/2023 06:56

The whole thing stank from the beginning. Who made the decision to inform the media that an old man was marching around his garden with a zimmer frame? Why were the media even interested? Someone in the family clearly had an agenda to be famous by proxy and pushed hard for this nonsense to become “a thing”.

bookish83 · 16/08/2023 06:57

MrsImFedUpOfTheWeather · 16/08/2023 00:52

It's not hard t buy tampons or cake. The well-being of NHS staff is on the NHS. A lot of us thought we were contributing to life-saving equipment - not a hug. Where's the hard impact of the money we donated? There is none.

OP you are embarrassing yourself now.

BygoneDays · 16/08/2023 06:58

MrsImFedUpOfTheWeather · 16/08/2023 01:13

If there was a genuine need, I'm pretty sure the nurses would have preferred the equipment than the chocolates. If this had have been a 'crisis' it wouldn't have been a question. It clearly wasn't though, because covid is less deadly than flu. And the Government knew this all along.

Ah, you are a conspiracy nut job. Now all the vitriol makes sense.

lastseasonstop · 16/08/2023 06:59

I donated and don’t regret it.

The daughter though has relished the whole thing and has played a game but it’s coming back to bite. If any wrong doing then that needs fully investigated and she should be dealt with accordingly.

I see this as 2 separate things. Tom and the walk that raised millions and the daughter who set up the charity after. The later needs investigated.

LynetteScavo · 16/08/2023 06:59

I didn't donate to this charity, as I always thought there was something "off" about the whole thing.

If i had, I would have less issue with the money going on staff well-being than equipment, as the government should be using taxes appropriately. Personally I'd rather pay slightly higher taxes than have donate to someone doing a sponsored walk.

DoctorMartin · 16/08/2023 07:00

I'm pretty sure that at the beginning it was only reported that CT was raising money 'for the NHS' it was only much later, when the runaway train of fundraising became uncontrollable and millions were pouring in that it was announced that the charity to benefit would be NHS Together.

So you can see why some people were confused and thought their donation would go to actually funding the work of the NHS through the pandemic.

The goalposts did change slightly, but only because NHS Together was the only suitable national charity deemed large enough in terms of structure and governance to handle such an insane amount of money.

lovewoola · 16/08/2023 07:00

Weren't they already rich/well off?

An 80k salary for a charity boss is pretty normal.

Was it opportunistic? lots of this stuff is.

Bunnycat101 · 16/08/2023 07:01

You have to separate the two. She was undoubtedly a grifter but I don’t think it’s fair to start attacking the nhs charities that are very clear on their parameters for charitable spend. It is often those extras that make a massive different to the environment for patients and staff. I suspect patient care would actually be significantly better if staff had free tea and coffee and a guaranteed sandwich (and time to eat it) for lunch.

lovewoola · 16/08/2023 07:08

I mean Joe Wicks profited hugely from lockdown. Was it really to help the nation or a way of making money? The workouts were pretty shite & half the time he was out of breath.

SaySomethingMan · 16/08/2023 07:08

Hbh17 · 15/08/2023 22:08

If the public were stupid enough to fall for all of this nonsense (and many of them were), then one has to have a sneaking admiration for the PR job that she did. Frankly, I never understood why a man walking round his garden became some kind of "hero". It was all sentimental claptrap, as was so much of the stuff reported early in the pandemic.
However, at best, we now see that someone who is good at PR clearly knows very little about running a charity, and so has come unstuck.

Agree with this, I’m afraid. I didn’t see why walking around his garden was such a big deal.

The only positive to me was that other veterans also raised money after being inspired by him

LadyWithLapdog · 16/08/2023 07:25

What @Hbh17 said. Sentimental claptrap.

The jaunt on holiday was inexcusable, at a time when many elderly would have wanted an exception to be made so they could be together with family in the UK.

topnoddy · 16/08/2023 07:27

Villain

She's a smug wrong un

GenieGenealogy · 16/08/2023 07:29

MrsImFedUpOfTheWeather · 15/08/2023 23:43

Going back to the original campaign- when I was giving money I thought I was donating towards equipment to save people's lives -not mars bars and tea rooms for staff. Not that they don't deserve them - absolutely do, but we were told we were in an absolute crisis. Cadbury and coffee isn't a crisis.

We live and learn.

But that is nothing to do with Tom, or his daughter. It was always VERY clear that the money was going to NHS Charities Together and you could have googled what that charity was all about in 2 seconds. But you chose not to and just assumed.

And you are STILL confused about the difference between the original NHS Charities fundraising, and then the later foundation established by the family which is entirely separate.

Seems to be an excuse for a thread to bash charities in general, tbh.

Readingineading · 16/08/2023 07:31

snurtifier · 15/08/2023 22:54

Her problem is she wasn't ambitious enough. If only she'd made millions selling faulty PPE to the government at inflated prices, she could have made it to the House of Lords.

👏👏👏

clarehhh · 16/08/2023 07:32

He actually caught Covid in Bedford hospital.

Wsmi · 16/08/2023 07:33

People who are stupid enough to stand on their doorstep and bang pots and pans while forcibly locked on their houses and if those stupid enough for fall for these dodgy people calling themselves fundraisers, they deserve to be scammed.

None of the supposed money has been used for a single medical procedure. All the while this grifting woman has been making a mint off feb back of this so called charity.

Wsmi · 16/08/2023 07:35

bookish83 · 16/08/2023 06:57

OP you are embarrassing yourself now.

OP seems to be making a lot of sense. People who parted with their money now feel a bit stupid.

TwoItalianApples · 16/08/2023 07:36

amp.theguardian.com/world/2020/apr/16/coronavirus-capt-tom-moore-raises-12m-nhs-completes-garden-walk

Right at the start it was billed as being for NHS staff - I thought it was all a bit sickly, but definitely not 'off' at the time. Just in the same attention seeking, maudlin, lauding the posh and the forces way British people lap this stuff up.

TwoItalianApples · 16/08/2023 07:39

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-beds-bucks-herts-52213936.amp

Start of the walk - someone told the media. Note the normal clothes Grin

Blossomtoes · 16/08/2023 07:47

miniegg3 · 16/08/2023 06:08

That's what got me.. taking him on a long haul holiday where he ended up dying from covid. I couldn't live with myself

He was 100. How long do you think he realistically had?

CarpetSlipper · 16/08/2023 07:52

I always thought it was odd. It pissed me off at the time that people thought they were donating to the NHS and it would buy ventilators and PPE etc. NHS charities together is still a good cause but people were misled about what exactly they were donating to. The NHS is not a charity.

I felt like he was wheeled out at every possible opportunity to distract us from the shite job the government was doing.

She was one of many people trying to cash in on covid.

Giveuprobot · 16/08/2023 07:52

TwoItalianApples · 16/08/2023 07:39

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-beds-bucks-herts-52213936.amp

Start of the walk - someone told the media. Note the normal clothes Grin

This answers exactly what I was coming to ask! He's reported as 'Tom Moore' and 'Mr Moore'. It would have been extraordinary for him to style himself as Captain Moore throughout his life. Whilst I'm sure we're all grateful for his service etc etc., he was a temporary Captain and left the Army post-war to, sensibly, resume civilian life running a concrete factory. Continuing to use Captain in those circumstances would have been.... very odd and it seems he didn't.

So, it was all a confection. And anyone who said 'this is absolutely ridiculous' was virtually dragged to the stocks so if you gave money 🤷🏼‍♀️

UmbilicalCordonBleu · 16/08/2023 07:54

Her problem is she wasn't ambitious enough. If only she'd made millions selling faulty PPE to the government at inflated prices, she could have made it to the House of Lords.

Absolutely. I think there are some dodgy things about this situation, like when her father won an award and she called it ‘theirs’ (I think it was his knighthood), it’s just a bit icky. But then, a lot of things during Covid were icky, like clapping for the NHS and such. I get people’s frustration towards Tom’s fundraising but I think that was very indicative of public feeling at the time. If her charity has behaved incorrectly hopefully it will be found by the CC and dealt with.

However I am more fucking angry at how the government ‘spent’ money and how we, the public, are suffering for it now. We should all still be raging about the PPE situation, about how money was wasted, about the despicable behaviour of MPs partying and then fining the peasants £10k for doing the same or going for a walk. And now we’re discussing a recession and part of that is due to Covid catching finances catching up to us (among other things). But I think this lady will bear the brunt of the anger if any wrong doing is found, when most of it should be towards the government.

x2boys · 16/08/2023 07:55

Boomboom22 · 15/08/2023 22:57

Surely his daughters must be quite old themselves so pr9bably not best placed to manage 30 mill depending on previous career experience.

She had teenage kids so she can't be that old i.assumed captain Tom became a father at a,late age?