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Hannah Ingram-Moore -Victim or Villain?

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MrsImFedUpOfTheWeather · 15/08/2023 21:17

I'm inclined to think we've been scammed. Am I being unreasonable?

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BIossomtoes · 17/08/2023 10:08

CoffeeWithCheese · 17/08/2023 10:06

We've now had a trust-wide "no nice branded stationery" ban imposed on us. Along with our printing in black and white only policy which always amuses me as some comedian decided to name it "Thrifty Shades of Grey"

That’s taken a long time. The Trust I worked for did that in 2005 - it somehow managed to be in financial difficulties during the milk and honey years.

CoffeeWithCheese · 17/08/2023 10:14

BIossomtoes · 17/08/2023 10:08

That’s taken a long time. The Trust I worked for did that in 2005 - it somehow managed to be in financial difficulties during the milk and honey years.

We would settle for a couple of GOOD staplers that work rather than the 57 crappy cheapo ones that don't scattered around the office to be fair.

GeorgeMichaelWasHere · 17/08/2023 12:42

Nottslady · 16/08/2023 01:31

I cannot believe the vitriol I am hearing, that people honestly think nhs clinical staff, especially those working in urgent or acute services, do not deserve a cup of tea and a mars bar. On a 12 or even 18 hour shift in A&E, when often there is barely time for a glass of water let alone a sit down and a cuppa, when they are doing everything they can with limited staffing, space, time, to save the lives of people you love, do you really begrudge your charity donation going towards food and drink?

As someone previously said, these staff members have paid for parking or transport to work, they pay inflated prices in the canteen or a vending machine (if they are lucking enough to have 5 minutes to do so) for anything food and drink they haven’t brought from home. They provide their own tea bags, milk, etc for the staff rooms. The kettle and microwave is often broken, the chairs are ripped, the cleaner has left so no ones emptied the bin for a week, something is broken but estates were called 3 weeks ago and still haven’t been.

They are working over their rota’d hours and so probably not being paid, perhaps because the next staff member is sick, late, quit, caught up with an emergency in the car park.

They owe thousands in student loans they took out to do this training.

They are not having a fucking cream tea like they are on holiday in Devon. They deserve a mars bar, or even a massage if they are damn lucky enough to find time to have one.

I know this was not the original point of the post but I could not walk away without sharing my absolute disgust at some of the comments I have read here about nhs staff getting any of the very small and very rare benefits that have been referenced.

Absolutely agree with this. Couldn’t have said it better myself. Well put!

girlfriend44 · 17/08/2023 13:57

Does anyone know where the raised money has gone?

How do you find out?

BlossomCloud · 17/08/2023 14:27

YeOldeBuxomWench · 16/08/2023 17:25

I think this story demonstrates totally what this pandemic was about - privileged people getting even richer off the back of the poor. She's just in the club.

Agreed. She was by no means the only one. But that doesn't make what she did any more acceptable.

The fact lots of people behaved awfully and profiteered is horrifying.

TorroFerney · 17/08/2023 14:40

waterlego · 15/08/2023 22:41

I think that was Russell Grant. Russ Abbot was a ‘comedian’ in the 80s.

This is the gift that keeps on giving. Russell grant is an astrologer!

howdoesyourgardengrowinmay · 17/08/2023 16:36

BIossomtoes · 17/08/2023 10:08

That’s taken a long time. The Trust I worked for did that in 2005 - it somehow managed to be in financial difficulties during the milk and honey years.

Printing? You still have printers? We've been paper free for years!!

waterlego · 17/08/2023 16:56

TorroFerney · 17/08/2023 14:40

This is the gift that keeps on giving. Russell grant is an astrologer!

Hahaha. He is! I didn’t even twig that the poster had written astronomer 😂

ConfusedGin · 17/08/2023 18:48

girlfriend44 · 17/08/2023 13:57

Does anyone know where the raised money has gone?

How do you find out?

The money raised initially, the £38-39m, went to the NHS Charities Together charity and has been distributed to support staff wellbeing and hospital experience. This is where donors were told it would be going at the time. The charity has impact reports that set out where that went, and this thread has LOTS of opinions on it which I won't get into, but to say I support NHS Charities Together.

The bigger issue is money that people have donated to The Captain Tom Foundation, which is the one under investigation. They also have a page on their impact, talking about the grants they gave and what they delivered.

If you dig a little deeper, you'll see that they made around £1.1m in income in their first year and gave out grants of £40k each to 4 charities. They spend an additional £240k on generating their income, setting up and running the organisation. There's a lot of money sat in their account, unable to be moved or added to whilst they are under investigation.

x2boys · 17/08/2023 21:36

BIossomtoes · 17/08/2023 09:43

Those too. And small sharp knives.

And mugs some colleagues were obsessed with having their own mug ..

VivienneDelacroix · 19/08/2023 20:35

This will be unpopular, but I feel the same way about this whole thing as I diabolo Deborah James. Their privilege made them the palatable face of things we'd find unsavoury in people with less privilege- death, ageing, cancer... They were lauded by the media because they had the education, privilege, connections, and whiteness to enable them to make the most of their situations. Let's not pretend that a Tom Moore on a council estate or a less polished and pretty Deborah James would have had similar opportunities -more likely they would have been ignored at best or hauled over the very worst of the "Great" British press.

VivienneDelacroix · 19/08/2023 20:38

BIossomtoes · 17/08/2023 10:08

That’s taken a long time. The Trust I worked for did that in 2005 - it somehow managed to be in financial difficulties during the milk and honey years.

Oh yes, the "public sector white" paper that is actually yellowish-grey.

TrundleWheel · 19/08/2023 20:48

Absolute scammer out for what she can get.

Do you all remember her standing and waving to the crowds at Wimbledon? Made me want to vomit.

User2346 · 19/08/2023 22:09

VivienneDelacroix · 19/08/2023 20:35

This will be unpopular, but I feel the same way about this whole thing as I diabolo Deborah James. Their privilege made them the palatable face of things we'd find unsavoury in people with less privilege- death, ageing, cancer... They were lauded by the media because they had the education, privilege, connections, and whiteness to enable them to make the most of their situations. Let's not pretend that a Tom Moore on a council estate or a less polished and pretty Deborah James would have had similar opportunities -more likely they would have been ignored at best or hauled over the very worst of the "Great" British press.

Agree but again it will be tantamount to treason to say this.

MaggieFS · 20/08/2023 07:22

Hmmm, I don't think it's reason to say that about Deborah James, but I'm not sure I agree. And I have very much agreed about Tom Moore, I loathe media do-good bandwagons, I prefer to think for myself and make my own choices about charity donations.

On the one hand I agree that if she had been less polished she wouldn't have got the profile. I'm not sure she should have been made a dame. I think it's a shame she couldn't show the grim side of cancer alongside the glamorous.

But in the other hand, I do think she raised important conversations and much as the media hype was over blown I don't think the background is really comparable.

KatherineSwynford1403 · 21/08/2023 15:39

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-beds-bucks-herts-52757533

Does anyone remember this guy? I have never heard of him until today. I don't recall seeing him in the media at all.

I guess too that Speedo Mick won't get the same coverage.

https://www.dailyrecord.co.uk/news/scottish-news/charity-fundraiser-speedo-mick-scales-28976045

clarehhh · 21/08/2023 18:46

Yes I do

Highdaysandholidays1 · 21/08/2023 20:50

I also disagree about Deborah James. She rose to the challenge of her illness and beyond. She already had a platform and used it amazingly well. Of course someone no-one knew and wasn't pretty and glamorous wouldn't have got coverage, but that's most people in TV. I think she also banded together with others (her two radio co-hosts) and created solidarity as well as awareness. I don't think many people could be handed that, even with her existing privilege, and made it what she did.

I don't put her at all in the same category.

ApiratesaysYarrr · 21/08/2023 22:24

MrsImFedUpOfTheWeather · 15/08/2023 22:22

Food and wellbeing for staff? That's questionable for a start. That isn't what people thought they were donating to. I'd like to see how that money was spent.

Never again will I give to a 'charity'. Charities are for fools.

My unit got 2 high quality ultrasound scanning machines (costing tens of thousands) for our clinic from the Tom Moore fund.

babbscrabbs · 21/08/2023 22:37

MrsImFedUpOfTheWeather · 16/08/2023 00:17

I wouldn't blame anyone for taking anything offered - fair play. But tea rooms and massages? Any data on the impact yet? More lives saved with rested staff? Waste of money.

I just think that when we were raising money for the 'NHS', it was for the institution- not the individuals. Maybe I'm wrong.

It was very clear at the time it was NHS Charities Together and helping to support staff wellbeing, because I remember that being reported by a major news outlet (BBC).

watermeloncougar · 23/08/2023 12:16

@MrsImFedUpOfTheWeather it was very clear that core NHS equipment is funded through the taxpayer. The money raised for NHS Charities Together was to support NHS staff and users in other ways. It's your responsibility to look at what you're donating money for.

Skodacool · 12/10/2023 21:48

MrsImFedUpOfTheWeather · 15/08/2023 23:43

Going back to the original campaign- when I was giving money I thought I was donating towards equipment to save people's lives -not mars bars and tea rooms for staff. Not that they don't deserve them - absolutely do, but we were told we were in an absolute crisis. Cadbury and coffee isn't a crisis.

We live and learn.

I think it was made clear that the money was to provide facilities to make NHS staff lives a bit more comfortable, not for direct NHS funding.

lastseasonstop · 13/10/2023 07:05

I am on holiday. Was there a documentary about the family last night? Did anyone watch?

HiHoHiHoltsOffToWorkWeGo · 13/10/2023 07:10

lastseasonstop · 13/10/2023 07:05

I am on holiday. Was there a documentary about the family last night? Did anyone watch?

Apparently she was on TalkTV with Piers Morgan.

Attempting to justify her hanging on to £800k from book sales - it was what he wanted, apparently!

www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-beds-bucks-herts-67086802

Northernsouloldies · 13/10/2023 08:22

Scam artist and Britain fell for it.

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