To not forgive colleague?

[pampaspot]

I applied for a new role it’s a few bands higher but I am qualified within that field just haven’t had much hands on experience.

The position is a secondment so it is a learning opportunity also.

Colleague showed me her screen today and previous message was to our manager of her saying “s is not a band 5” so she feels im not good enough.

I called her out on this and she started crying right away and apologising.

we work together once a week but now I just feel very off about her.

Manager didn’t pull her up on this until I said which is also very shitty.

Aibu to not forgive her so easily? I don’t want to create a bad atmosphere but I just feel so angry.

Woohooooo! Congrats! That’s soooo cool! I’m dying to hear of bitchy colleague offers you congratulations!

Band 2 to a band 5 I’m not in the nursing field though (corporate) and already have my qualifications just no experience.

I should see ex colleague on my first day with team so very excited for that hahaha

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@pampaspot please let us know how effusively she congratulates you!

Was it her place to judge your performance, is she trained to be able to discern people's capabilities?

The fact that she was crying after you confronted her about her comment (which she should not have left for you to see), is not very professional.

However, if you are learning while you climb the ladder, make the most of the secondment. It is an opportunity and your time will come.

I'm sorry you have been so disappointed, try not to let it spoil things for you.

Why would you be getting involved when no one asked for your opinion though, as has happened here?

Congrats on getting the role, OP.

This is such a great outcome! Congratulations!