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Traffic? AIBU? Google. Receiving another's emails for years.

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WhereTheSuburbsMeetUttoxeter · 05/08/2023 22:48

I'm not entirely sure where to head here.

It has been going on for years. I receive her FB notifications, the odd email addressed to her. Now my storage is 98% full - this makes me thinks it involves both accounts.

I'll explain as easily as I can - say my Gmail is google.user @ Gmail . Com
Hers is googleuser @ Gmail. Com

She lives in America in a town that has the same name as a UK town and we both have the same name. The only difference is the . in the email.

I've looked at how to report. It doesn't seem like any scam as it's being going so long. Imagine she is mabelsmithtown and I am mabelsmith.town

I don't know where to start with getting in touch. I tried to email her and it came back to me!

Sorry, boring for a Saturday night but surely there is something amiss and wrong here.
I first noticed when getting Facebook notifications thinking, I don't know that person. But I can't find her on Facebook either.
It's highly unlikely that I've 98% filled my Gmail.

Just looking for thoughts or how someone can help me get in touch with someone?

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WhereTheSuburbsMeetUttoxeter · 10/08/2023 23:57

HyggeTygge · 10/08/2023 22:44

OP, you're doing it wrong, you're not supposed to have a sense of humour, you're meant to flounce off and say we're all toxic vipers and you're never coming back!

(Don't actually do that though, please! )
GinWine

Don't you come on 'ere @HyggeTygge Higgledy Piggledy Hedgehog Tiggywinkle thing and tell me I'm doing it wrong!

How very dare you!

I am flouncing out now, and I won't let the door hit my thick fat arse on the way out. I shall look back, roll my eyes, give you the V's and fall over. Yeah. So there.

It was hilarious - I didn't even make bed that night when it all became clear.

Twonk, is what I am. I would apologise for my swearing that evening, but it was an erm.. special night 🤣

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Hotzenplotz · 11/08/2023 15:20

I have exactly the same issue as OP! I regularly get emails for my name twin's bikini waxes in California. Odd as I live in deepest darkest Hertfordshire.

WiddlinDiddlin · 11/08/2023 16:04

It truly is astonishing that people mistype email addresses and if that mistype is still an actual email address, someone else then receives emails not meant for them.

I got an invite to a kids ballet recital, and another to a church pot luck picnic event in Texas this week. Because my name twin has clearly signed her kid up to a new class and given email address to new church group and they've got it wrong.

As I know what her email address is now (having tracked it down years ago) I emailed and explained they need to alter the address and what the error is. I suspect she's moved house again so I'll have another flurry of emails meant for her until things settle down.

Fieldofbrokenpromises · 11/08/2023 16:23

I am actually quite sad about just how thick my namesakes are. One is a retired doctor in Australia. I got a load of patient details once.

WiddlinDiddlin · 11/08/2023 17:09

Im frequently surprised just how readily people will send out private, important, supposedly secure details, to an email address they've not verified, or to a full list of people (usually CC'd not BCC'd so then I also have a ton of other email addresses i could misuse)...

I've had details for how to access bank accounts for churches and schools, I could have totally fucked up this womans application to rent a property, could have messed with her kids drama and dance class registrations... and still she does not make sure people get her email address correct!

enchantedsquirrelwood · 30/08/2023 18:36

HyggeTygge · 10/08/2023 22:44

OP, you're doing it wrong, you're not supposed to have a sense of humour, you're meant to flounce off and say we're all toxic vipers and you're never coming back!

(Don't actually do that though, please! )
GinWine

Grin
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