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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Does mumsnet make you feel better or worse?

103 replies

Shitegeist · 31/07/2023 12:14

IBR: worse
IBU: better

when I am feeling pretty rubbish about my life I go onto mumsnet as I think it will make me feel better seeing other women’s struggles. But it actually makes me feel worse - I think the confirmation that the sorts of things I am going through are pretty shit, and also the never ending snipeyness and mean girl comments.

if I’m feeling happy I generally don’t go onto mumsnet.

maybe I should just stick to the gardening boards! Anyone else?

OP posts:
Justrolledmyeyesoutloud · 31/07/2023 20:49

There are some right arseholes on here but equally some really lovely people too. Always someone that wants to piss on your conrflakes here

JudgeRinderonTinder · 31/07/2023 20:55

ametrine · 31/07/2023 20:47

The poster who says she earns £100k or whatever it was is just stating a fact. Why question that or say "claims to earn?" Loads of people earn that kind of money. Nothing is remotely surprising. Loads of people earn a lot more than £100k. This is obvious. It's all relative.

I wasn’t talking about that poster. I was on about a poster upthread who said they constantly see people saying they earn six figures, it isn’t just me who sees it. I think that’s why a lot of people don’t believe it because of the number of times it occurs. It’s way more people than would be expected. It hardly matters anyway, it’s just an observation I made 🤣

Johnisafckface · 31/07/2023 21:08

If I can relate to it and it's something I'm struggling with or unsure of, it will usually make me feel better to know others feel the same. Or they confirm my opinions or thoughts.

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