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To find unpainted toenails gross?

403 replies

blahblahblah1654 · 25/07/2023 14:39

I wouldn't dream of wearing sandals without unpainted toenails. I just think it looks horrible. Am I being weird? I don't care what anyone else's feet look like though tbh.

OP posts:
StillWantingADog · 25/07/2023 15:22

wow. Personally I prefer to wear sandals with painted toenails. But I've never given a monkeys about whether other people's toenails are painted.

Do you feel the same way about men's toenails?

blahblahblah1654 · 25/07/2023 15:22

Mercurial123 · 25/07/2023 15:17

YABVU I guess you find lots of normal things "gross"?

I am definitely on the uptight side.

OP posts:
GiveUsACoffee · 25/07/2023 15:23

I'm so tempted to share a picture of my unpainted toenails on the beach. YABVU

ManateeFair · 25/07/2023 15:23

BringOnSummerHolidays · 25/07/2023 14:43

YABU. It's like saying faces without makeup is gross.

To be fair, the OP said that she doesn't care what anyone else does with their feet, and that her issue is with looking at her own toenails.

MrsBigTed · 25/07/2023 15:24

YABU. Everything from the ankle down is revolting, nail varnish can't help it.

Spanielsarepainless · 25/07/2023 15:24

Rewis · 25/07/2023 15:22

My toenails are a weird shape (super short on the little toes) and polish on them looks weird.

Mine are the same. I thought my little toenails had disappeared but they are hanging in there. I don't paint mine either.

blahblahblah1654 · 25/07/2023 15:24

GiveUsACoffee · 25/07/2023 15:23

I'm so tempted to share a picture of my unpainted toenails on the beach. YABVU

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OP posts:
oviraptor21 · 25/07/2023 15:25

Jaffapaffa · 25/07/2023 14:43

My big toe nail has come off completely, so I prefer not to paint any of them, so that it's less noticeable.

Apologies if that makes you feel physically sick, but it's just something that I have to live with!

I find the opposite! When a toe nail comes off (this is a very occasional thing I promise!) it's much easier to hide the fact by painting over the area to match the rest.

And yes to OP - bare toenails are often gross except on young people who mostly have nails which are not discoloured by age or otherwise unattractive. Men should not wear shoes with open toes at all 😂

ManateeFair · 25/07/2023 15:25

StillWantingADog · 25/07/2023 15:22

wow. Personally I prefer to wear sandals with painted toenails. But I've never given a monkeys about whether other people's toenails are painted.

Do you feel the same way about men's toenails?

Jeez, has nobody here actually read the part of the OP's post where she says "I don't care what anyone else's feet look like"

Kugela · 25/07/2023 15:25

I can’t reach my toenails to paint them as I’m disabled. It doesn’t stop me wearing sandals throughout the summer. Most people are too busy staring at my wheelchair to notice my bare feet!

Harrythehappypig · 25/07/2023 15:25

I did. I was just joining in the chat.

LobsterCrab · 25/07/2023 15:25

Bare, painted, I honestly couldn't care less. Mine or anyone else's.

waterlego · 25/07/2023 15:26

It’s a shame that some people might find my clean, healthy, unadorned feet disgusting. Probably the same people who think my unshaved legs are somehow unhygienic or ‘gross’.

Oh well. I probably won’t lose any sleep over it.

Anaemiafog · 25/07/2023 15:27

NRTFT. Unless you view men's the same you're batshit.

DinoMummsy · 25/07/2023 15:27

Feet are just generally gross - nails painted or otherwise 🤮

daisydaisy11 · 25/07/2023 15:28

Is this another thing women have to add to their list of beauty habits to be deemed acceptable to go out in public. Jeez! Yabvu.

Tippingadvice · 25/07/2023 15:28

blahblahblah1654 · 25/07/2023 14:46

For anyone implying I'm sexist I actually said I don't care what anyone else's feet look like. If men want to paint their nails they can.

@blahblahblah1654 you are not being sexist if you are only talking about your toe nails and everyone else, not just men, are free to chose.

@mayorofcasterbridge is being sexist by wanting all women to have painted toe nails and assuming all men’s toe nails are gross.

castlecorfe · 25/07/2023 15:28

Do feel like this with men's nails or just women's?
Does your other half paints his nails?

SliceOfCakeCupOfTea · 25/07/2023 15:29

As long as your meet are no where near me

GarlicGrace · 25/07/2023 15:29

Anything that draws attention to my toes is bad news. I sometimes admire lovely, straight, even toes with pretty painted nails. That is about as far from a description of mine as you could get!
YABU because you'd find mine 'gross' with or without paint, but they're my feet and they've been holding me up for a long time!

JeandeServiette · 25/07/2023 15:29

ZeldaWillTellYourFortune · 25/07/2023 15:18

It depends. I prefer to keep mine painted.

If the feet are well-cared for, the nails neat, trimmed and buffed, then bare nails can look pretty and youthful.

If the feet are rough and the toenails yellow and gnarly, yes, they look icky.

But there may be extenuating circumstances, which I try to keep in mind.

Youthful? Youthful toenails?! What fresh grooming notion is this? Shock

Harrythehappypig · 25/07/2023 15:29

Why do we have toenails anyway? Presumably a throwback to our feet having a more “hand like” functions than as a protective thing? I used to bite my names at lot and it was a bugger trying to unpick things with basically no finger nails so am entirely onboard with the point of those - big fan.

mayorofcasterbridge · 25/07/2023 15:30

waterlego · 25/07/2023 15:26

It’s a shame that some people might find my clean, healthy, unadorned feet disgusting. Probably the same people who think my unshaved legs are somehow unhygienic or ‘gross’.

Oh well. I probably won’t lose any sleep over it.

We all have our hang-ups! Be boring if they were all the same.

@Kugela - you could always get them done for you? I get Biab done every 6 weeks or so in the summer, as my hands aren't steady enough and I'm too creaky to do them myself!

KatherineSwynford1403 · 25/07/2023 15:30

oviraptor21 · 25/07/2023 15:25

I find the opposite! When a toe nail comes off (this is a very occasional thing I promise!) it's much easier to hide the fact by painting over the area to match the rest.

And yes to OP - bare toenails are often gross except on young people who mostly have nails which are not discoloured by age or otherwise unattractive. Men should not wear shoes with open toes at all 😂

I can't stand seeing blokes (often bald, often tubby) in football shirts, shorts, and some form of sandals with bulbous toes. Yuck.

MotherofGorgons · 25/07/2023 15:30

Brits are really weird about feet. I assume none of you have lived in countries where both men and women have open toed sandals and unpainted feet.