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To find unpainted toenails gross?

403 replies

blahblahblah1654 · 25/07/2023 14:39

I wouldn't dream of wearing sandals without unpainted toenails. I just think it looks horrible. Am I being weird? I don't care what anyone else's feet look like though tbh.

OP posts:
LaPerduta · 25/07/2023 15:14

I'm not bothered by unpainted toenails (assuming they're not long and yellow) but find nails with fungal infections quite revolting.

mayorofcasterbridge · 25/07/2023 15:16

Ovinnik · 25/07/2023 15:04

Never noticed their feet...

Look at any photos... I am addicted to sandals, so I always look!

richteaftw · 25/07/2023 15:16

Oh give it a rest.

I started off the summer painting mine then it got too much running round after the kids to keep up with painting them, so I took it off one night intending to paint them the next but never got round to it. I'm embracing the no nail polish and do not give a shit. My good friend has done so as well, she's very glam, and she looks lovely with unpainted nails and sandals 😂

I am very lucky in that I have minimal dry skin and thank my lucky stars for that.

almostoverthehill · 25/07/2023 15:16

My toenails are painted all year round, I’m funny about it too. Even if you don’t paint them at least cut/file them if wearing sandals.

Emmamoo89 · 25/07/2023 15:17

I agree with you

B72 · 25/07/2023 15:17

I've never painted my nails and I wear sandals and flip flops all the time in summer.
It's not my problem if you don't like it.
I'd rather see unpainted toenails than thick dead, cracked skin on heels.

Mercurial123 · 25/07/2023 15:17

blahblahblah1654 · 25/07/2023 14:39

I wouldn't dream of wearing sandals without unpainted toenails. I just think it looks horrible. Am I being weird? I don't care what anyone else's feet look like though tbh.

YABVU I guess you find lots of normal things "gross"?

PoshPineapple · 25/07/2023 15:18

@incomplet

I’m with you OP. I was recently on holiday with a mixed group of friends and not one of the men had painted their toe nails, it was so gross to see them by the pool. I wasn’t sure whether to say anything or not. Worse, one of them hadn’t removed his armpit or leg hair. So unhygienic.

Luddites, the lot of them.

ZeldaWillTellYourFortune · 25/07/2023 15:18

It depends. I prefer to keep mine painted.

If the feet are well-cared for, the nails neat, trimmed and buffed, then bare nails can look pretty and youthful.

If the feet are rough and the toenails yellow and gnarly, yes, they look icky.

But there may be extenuating circumstances, which I try to keep in mind.

Growlybear83 · 25/07/2023 15:19

Bluevelvetsofa · 25/07/2023 15:08

When has it been warm enough recently to wear sandals?

Apart from a couple of work meetings and when it's been raining hard, I've worn sandals every day since around May. I'm always barefoot at home and in the garden, and I can't remember the last time I wore socks, although I usually wear tights if Im wearing proper shoes.

flutterby1 · 25/07/2023 15:19

Er, I'm just off to paint my toenails

And yup long toenails are gross and any long fingernails on men!

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 25/07/2023 15:19

GeorgeMichaelWasHere · 25/07/2023 15:07

What is horrible is really long toenails like fingernails, or false toenails.

This!! Long toenails make me heave.

I always have my toenails painted because I had an operation on a big toe years ago and the nail grew back thick and a bit yellow. It looks like the start of fungus but it definitely isn’t. But because of that I keep them all covered. I do look after them though.

Really long toenails - anything poking out beyond where the toe ends - are horrible.

Yellow or badly kept toenails shouldn’t be out in public.

I don’t think unpainted is a problem though -painting them comes in and out of fashion - and went really out of fashion in the mid 00s as I remember.

I don’t see why men should be held to a lower standard of toenail maintenance because they’re men - they should definitely be keeping them clean and tidy the same as women if having them out in public. Polish optional for either sex.

SoSoSoSo · 25/07/2023 15:19

Feet in general are gross. Putting polish on them does not improve them one bit.

BiscuitsandPuffin · 25/07/2023 15:19

Maybe some people wear false toenails if they have some missing and it gives them confidence.
Surely you'd damage your nail beds by gluing false toenails onto them directly? They don't grow out the way toenails do. When you're missing a toenail you're supposed to treat the nail bed really carefully.

BiscuitsandPuffin · 25/07/2023 15:19

PS YABU about nail varnish. Toes are toes.

BeggyMitchell · 25/07/2023 15:20

Tippingadvice · 25/07/2023 14:43

YABU why are clean, neatly kept natural toe nails not acceptable to you.

Do you require men to also have painted toe nails or just women?

Yes indeed.

Does this apply to men? And if not, why not?

mayorofcasterbridge · 25/07/2023 15:21

I think I might have to be sick... lol, may have to hide this thread because all this discussion about feet, yucky toes and callouses is making me heave!!!

Usernameunknownfornow · 25/07/2023 15:21

BiscuitsandPuffin · 25/07/2023 15:19

Maybe some people wear false toenails if they have some missing and it gives them confidence.
Surely you'd damage your nail beds by gluing false toenails onto them directly? They don't grow out the way toenails do. When you're missing a toenail you're supposed to treat the nail bed really carefully.

Gel polish /extention actually help the nail

VictoriaVenkman · 25/07/2023 15:21

BringOnSummerHolidays · 25/07/2023 14:43

YABU. It's like saying faces without makeup is gross.

Agree with this

pigsDOfly · 25/07/2023 15:21

What is horrible is really long toenails like fingernails, or false toenails.

God yes, I used to work with a woman who used to wear open toed sandals with very long varnished toe nails. It look seriously unpleasant.

dewclaw · 25/07/2023 15:22

I agree!

adriftabroad · 25/07/2023 15:22

Painted toes and fingernails give me the ick.

Rewis · 25/07/2023 15:22

My toenails are a weird shape (super short on the little toes) and polish on them looks weird.

gogomoto · 25/07/2023 15:22

Yabu its personal preference, why are you studying people's feet and judging them??

whatchagonnado · 25/07/2023 15:22

I don't like painted fingernails, especially the ones that have the fake gels.
It's a personal thing