How dare people call it jumping on the bandwagon? Because women are always to blame. The victims' parents have done something wrong; the wife didn't fulfil her 'duty'; SM is orchestrating witch hunts; soon men won't even feel able to talk to female strangers in public. Blame anyone and anything, throw the shit in all other directions, but gods forbid we place the blame on the men responsible.
The aftermath of #MeToo - aside from the recent full-on assault on women's hard-earned, still meagre rights - is the most demoralizing thing I've ever experienced in my life as a woman. It wasn't the hideous frequency of the assaults against women that necessarily unseated me: that sadly came as no surprise. It was the responses to those who did dare to talk - the instant counter-attempts to mock, discredit, and demonize those who bravely spoke, sometimes after decades of silence - that was so depressing and upsetting.
Because male sexual violence against women makes men look bad.
Because 'what about his mental health?'
Because men can in no way be perpetrators - a myth persisting in the face of all evidence and statistics to the contrary - and society is far more comfortable with the lie that all women are disingenuous, false accusers.
Feminism, despite valiant efforts over the past century in particular, made meagre process from the 1970s and since around 2020-15 has gone back about 50 years. The only good thing I can say for British justice in these cases is that there is no statute of limitations. Long may this continue to be true.
Read any thread about the protection of the perpetrators at the expense of the victims - including this latest BBC debacle - and weep. It never changes.