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Huw Edwards named as BBC presenter!

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Amuseaboosh · 12/07/2023 18:04

I'm actually shocked.

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Twyford · 13/07/2023 08:05

watermeloncougar · 13/07/2023 08:02

Right wing tabloid press publish salacious story without any evidence. Police confirm no crime has taken place. Meanwhile, our corrupt government manage to avoid disclosing the full whatsapp messages about their partying during lockdown when Joe Bloggs wasn't even allowed to visit his dying mother in hospital.

That's the real shocker here.

Exactly. It's depressing how easily people have fallen for it.

Turtletumy · 13/07/2023 08:05

RachelTopliss · 13/07/2023 08:00

I'm sure @tara66 was being sarcastic.

I know she was being sarcastic 😀.
She was also making an inappropriate comparison in a particularly crass way.

Ladylonglegs · 13/07/2023 08:06

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Allelbowsandtoes · 13/07/2023 08:08

MrsPapadopolis · 13/07/2023 07:38

And you have worked in Mental Health for how long??

I'm not sure why you're asking, but approximately 12 years.

Madamecholetsbonnet · 13/07/2023 08:13

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Agreed! I am so shocked at the number of people rushing to excuse this predator.

Either we have been infiltrated by a bunch of MRAs or they are people whose bar for male behaviour is so low, they would be happy to see their own 17 year old son groomed by a 61 year old.

The World has actually gone mad at this point.

NatashaDancing · 13/07/2023 08:14

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of course we don’t know the whole story. What we do know is a 61 year old man seeked out very young adults to have sex with. That’s not in dispute. And whilst it may be legal, I find it repugnant and so do a lot of others.

I find it repugnant.

Unclecornelius · 13/07/2023 08:14

Turtletumy · 13/07/2023 07:35

This, his wife has confirmed it is him, but not that he has done anything wrong.
The police are not investigating.
The Sun, having destroyed yet another life, has wound back in saying they have never accused him of criminal activity and that they are not releasing anything else.
So at the moment this is all hearsay and speculation.
Meanwhile, George Osbourne and Johnson not complying with the WhatsApp messages have been buried under salacious gossip.

Have The Sun destroyed his life?
Can’t stand that newspaper but if they hadn’t taken the ‘story’ on it would have come from another heinous tabloid.
HE made really poor decisions and he’s paying the price.
Brits are renowned for building someone up and then tearing them down.

Quisquam · 13/07/2023 08:15

However, their being appalling doesn't make other people's behaviour less so.

Imo, the deaths of thousands of innocent people during Covid, due to the actions of the government like the seeding of care homes with infected people from hospitals, is in a different league to someone looking at photos.

I remember Samantha Fox and Linda Lusardi among others, being pin up girls in the Sun every day; the Sun presumably didn’t see that as exploitation or objectification of women then?

StefanosHill · 13/07/2023 08:15

Madamecholetsbonnet · 13/07/2023 08:13

Agreed! I am so shocked at the number of people rushing to excuse this predator.

Either we have been infiltrated by a bunch of MRAs or they are people whose bar for male behaviour is so low, they would be happy to see their own 17 year old son groomed by a 61 year old.

The World has actually gone mad at this point.

MRAs or it’s political hence all the what about GO deflection posts

Willyoujustbequiet · 13/07/2023 08:19

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My thoughts too.

Changedforthetoday · 13/07/2023 08:20

What’s the difference betweenHuw Edwards doing this and someone buying pics or videos on only fans site or similar?

it Certainly gives me the ick but I’m struggling to know how to feel about this.

Amuseaboosh · 13/07/2023 08:26

Changedforthetoday · 13/07/2023 08:20

What’s the difference betweenHuw Edwards doing this and someone buying pics or videos on only fans site or similar?

it Certainly gives me the ick but I’m struggling to know how to feel about this.

He is a very, very public figure, and like it or not, he's held to a certain level of accountability to act with integrity and dignity.

Further, he reports the news! He's seen the fallout of this happening to other public figures, and yet he's made choices that have landed him and his fanoly where they are. He has 5 children!!!

If there was NOTHING to this situation, he simply would not have commented, and the news that would have been reported is how someone tried to blackmail him with lies and extort money. He would have been very public about it and been lauded as a hero for speaking out.

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lovescats3 · 13/07/2023 08:26

What is MRA ?

WeaselCheeks · 13/07/2023 08:27

Efacsen · 13/07/2023 07:41

Yes The Sun is back-pedalling on their story which is apparently unusual for them - they usually 'double down' on these type of stories

No other media outlet has been able to corroborate any of the Sun's story

All the information has has come from anonymous sources

The are virtually no actual facts ATM but mountains of speculation

BBC News has confirmed that the second person, who came forward to them rather than the Sun, received messages pressuring to meet up which they were trying to turn down, then threats when they threatened to name him. They verified the messages and confirmed that they came from Edward's phone.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/entertainment-arts-66165766

So there's at least one confirmed case of him chasing after after a young adult (23) and trying to coerce them.

More people coming out with allegations and stories doesn't mean that they're jumping on a bandwagon - generally it means that they finally feel that they're in a position to tell their stories with less chance of retaliation, and that they realise that they're not the only ones.

From the looks of it, Huw Edwards has made a habit of chasing after young people in their late teens/early 20s - sometimes with unwanted advances (sometimes against colleagues), sometimes as consensual encounters, sometimes engaging with sex workers. He's a powerful man engaging in dodgy behaviour, and it should absolutely be called out, not shoved under carpet with a a sympathetic, "Oh, poor man, he's got the sads".

My mother suffered from catastrophic mental health issues and depression throughout her life. I suffer with depression. Funnily enough, she nor I never felt compelled to pursue people barely out of childhood, or to start paying for teenage sex workers as a result...

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BBC presenter sent abusive and menacing messages to second young person

They say they were sent abusive messages by the presenter and put under pressure to meet up.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/entertainment-arts-66165766

namitynamechange · 13/07/2023 08:27
The tabloids have always been sex obsessed and hypocritical. That doesn't make Only Fans empowering or mean older rich men paying teenagers (of either sex) for naked pictures isn't sleazy.

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Hugasauras · 13/07/2023 08:28

Changedforthetoday · 13/07/2023 08:20

What’s the difference betweenHuw Edwards doing this and someone buying pics or videos on only fans site or similar?

it Certainly gives me the ick but I’m struggling to know how to feel about this.

I think it's quite different. OF etc are subscription sites where you pay money to access images and videos that the individual has decided to put up for public consumption. The money is also quite low, you pay maybe a tenner a month to access their images and videos.

When you take it off-platform and start communicating directly and directing a young person to take photos or videos of a certain kind that you will then pay obscene amounts of money for, it's a power shift. It's less about the quick gratification of a dirty pic, as you can pay for that or get it free anywhere online, but it's about having power over someone and turning a product/consumer anonymous relationship into something else.

lovescats3 · 13/07/2023 08:29

his behaviour is abhorrent but the timing of this is a coincidence given it's the same time as the Johnson covid WhatsApp messages and Osborne's wedding email

KeepyUppy122 · 13/07/2023 08:30

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Have I missed something overnight? Has it been confirmed or suggested that he had sex with any of the young people or that he suggested sex to any of the young people involved?

KPops22 · 13/07/2023 08:31

His poor wife having to do this.

pendleflyer · 13/07/2023 08:31

Rhondaa · 13/07/2023 07:41

This! Have we learnt nothing. Junior staff of course would be worried about speaking out about their big star who earns 450k (paid for by us, the licence payers)

If more come forward then good. If the man is a lecherous perv then the Sun has done everyone a favour by starting the ball rolling.

define "lecherous perv" please.
seen any instances of lecherous pervery on mumsnet, which always strikes me as being a good representation of "all human life".

pendleflyer · 13/07/2023 08:32

seen any instances of lecherous pervery on mumsnet, which always strikes me as being a good representation of "all human life"?
question mark added.

SerafinasGoose · 13/07/2023 08:33

Madamecholetsbonnet · 13/07/2023 08:13

Agreed! I am so shocked at the number of people rushing to excuse this predator.

Either we have been infiltrated by a bunch of MRAs or they are people whose bar for male behaviour is so low, they would be happy to see their own 17 year old son groomed by a 61 year old.

The World has actually gone mad at this point.

Oh, we've been infiltrated by MRAs alright. That happened some time ago.

And there's no nuance on these boards (again an established MRA tactic) between criminal behaviour and behaviour likely to bring your employer into disrepute: for which people can and are disciplined and fired.

I'm a lecturer. My students are adults. A relationship with a student (the thought is positively GRIM to me) would still represent a huge imbalance of power and therefore an exploitation; it would be a breach of contract and a breach of trust, and I would rightly be dismissed from my post if I attempted to engage in it.

Likewise, Andrew Windsor, whatever else he has or hasn't done, was an unelected diplomat of this country and was photographed hanging out with convicted sex traffickers. That alone makes him unfit for post.

'Mental health' is not an excuse for predatory behaviour. Mental illness/depression doesn't automatically turn men into sexual predators if that tendency wasn't there to start with. I'm sure that in some patients bizarre behaviour is a symptom, but it's really unhelpful to assume that connection.

As for the 'witch hunt', I'm not interested in salacious gossip. I couldn't have cared less about Phillip Schofield, and I couldn't care less about Huw Edwards. The issue is bigger than this: it's about establishment protection of male sexual proclivities, seemingly at the cost of everything else. It's about questioning why that's the case.

And it's vital those questions are asked, and that they continue to be asked. And if you believe the 'right' people to do this are not notorious tabloid rags like The Sun - then ask yourself: why are they seemingly the only option left for shining sunlight on these predatory men because everyone else is busy rugsweeping, denying and excusing their behaviour?

SerafinasGoose · 13/07/2023 08:34

pendleflyer · 13/07/2023 08:32

seen any instances of lecherous pervery on mumsnet, which always strikes me as being a good representation of "all human life"?
question mark added.

Oh, yes. Check out the sex board, and the numerous threads complaining about it.

CaroleSinger · 13/07/2023 08:35

Of course nobody needs another witch hunt but maybe someone needs to explain to his poor naive wife in all her that having a mental illness doesn't make heterosexual men suddenly have an urge to masturbate over another man repeatedly in exchange for ridiculous amounts of money.

I'm almost minded of the Little Britain sketch of the MP who keeps getting caught up in compromising situations with other men and his wife smiles awkwardly at the cameras while he reads a pre written speech about how he accidentally fell over and his penis accidentally entered his young aide from behind.

Sometimes it's better to just stop digging...

Huw Edwards named as BBC presenter!
Qilin · 13/07/2023 08:36

ItsMyAeroplane · 12/07/2023 20:55

I’m not impressed with his wife’s statement on his behalf. It’s all about him.

There’s no apology, just reference to allegations and concern for him.

Sorry to hear he has MH issues, but it’s no excuse.

I spend a lot of time managing my own stress, anxiety and have to regularly pull myself back from the brink of panic attacks. Grooming children for my own sexual gratification is not one of my coping strategies, and I’m fully aware it’s something that would send me off into a mental meltdown if I did.

He’s only got himself to blame.

As yet the claims are alleged.

He and his wife will have been advised not to comment or apologise, nor to state what - if anything - happened,

It's an alleged incident which is still being investigated by his employer and which the police has stated, yesterday, has no criminal basis at this point.

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