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Huw Edwards named as BBC presenter!

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Amuseaboosh · 12/07/2023 18:04

I'm actually shocked.

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MrsPapadopolis · 12/07/2023 21:51

PurplePansy05 · 12/07/2023 21:44

You've linked up an article previously that was from yesterday with a headline including the young person's lawyer's comments. It has moved on since with further allegations, Met Police statement regarding original allegations, parents standing by their report and questioning who appointed and paid for their child's lawyer, other presenters' comments, HE being named, I mean, yes, it has moved on.

Then I'd be pleased for a link to this information.

Iolani · 12/07/2023 21:53

PurplePansy05 · 12/07/2023 21:41

If your child admits to you they were showing their bits out for money and you confirm the money was trsnsferred, plus you see the photo of the presenter - which is what the mum is saying - what else exactly would you need to verify and how?

How do you know how many times the parents spoke to the police? I don't know, has this been made public? There's no info re MP contact either so we don't know that.

It was absolutely right to go to the employer which hires young people and if it relates to an employee in a position of trust, this is out of the question.

Not a child!!!!!!! That’s not true!!!!! Or Edwards would be charged.
Said person was 20 when parents came out..

So parents go to the Employer when their ds is 20!
No wonder ds went to a lawyer to put the matter straight.
Then the sun!?

Cashing in

willstarttomorrow · 12/07/2023 21:53

@SecretCorridor I do not know because I was not there and unless people own up to what is going on nothing is proven and as I work with the family courts it is balance of probability if needed. I just find the parental perspective very off. This person is an adult now, no contact and has been outed against their will. This kind of behaviour usually funds a habit. The parent's insistence they became addicted because of the money is back to front. People do not suddenly think 'I have too much money- I'll try crack'.

Gladtoblasto · 12/07/2023 21:55

ArcticSkewer · 12/07/2023 18:09

Having just read his wife's statement and the police report of no criminal activity, it's pretty disgusting that he has ended up in hospital in patient treatment just to stop us all talking about George Osborne during his wedding weekend.

I smell a rat too. There's more to this and my gut feeling tells me that he was the scapegoat in all of this.

RaisinFlapjack · 12/07/2023 21:57

UncleRadley · 12/07/2023 21:19

@RaisinFlapjack that's fair. I do wonder whether he was suffering from a bipolar episode which caused a lack of inhibitions. And yes, it's complicated by this. But why are the people who have come forward all much younger? It feels like it's calculated behaviour, in that he's approaching people he feels it's more likely he could influence with money or with his position rather than men his own age who are less likely to be influenced to provide pictures etc by those means (and which is a completely different prospect.) It seems that the conversations with at least two people were instigated on instagram by random emojis. I suspect there is some more to come from people who have been contacted.

Yeah I find it quite hard to be on the side of “two consenting adults, no big deal” for something that, if the young person were just slightly younger, would have actually been illegal.

The power dynamics thing is interesting - yes, no denying he’s a man with position, prestige and money. But it is, as a PP said, slightly hard to imagine the average young man being awed by a 60 year old newsreader? Also the young men had a huge amount of power over Edwards - leak the pics, leak the story and you’ve wrecked his life. As we have just witnessed.

I think the contacting of young people unsolicited on Instagram is quite creepy, - the messages that have been published to date are actually pretty innocuous- but it’s hard to imagine any perfectly innocent motivation for seeking out that contact in the first place.

But in itself that is really all it is, a bit creepy, not a national scandal.

Reserving judgement here for the moment.

PurplePansy05 · 12/07/2023 21:58

MrsPapadopolis · 12/07/2023 21:51

Then I'd be pleased for a link to this information.

I suggest you check SKY or BBC Live updates from yesterday and today, everything is in there.

WeaselCheeks · 12/07/2023 21:58

Yeah, he's married - it's his wife that's given out the statement. He's also a devout Christian and weekly churchgoer...

It's interesting. The female dominated spaced I frequent lean towards him likely being a serial abuser (who targets those in their late teens/early 20s) that's just been exposed. The situation is seen as another man in power behaving unacceptably.

The male dominated spaces see it as a witch hunt against a guy that's done nothing legally wrong, and that it involved consenting adults so it's OK. The threatening of the one guy was acceptable, because that guy was threatening to out him. The meeting up with the other was immoral, but not illegal.

I guess we'll have to wait to see what other accusations are made and proven to determine whether we should we Poor Huw or Eewww Huw. I'm leaning towards the latter, because married 60 year old dudes shouldn't be chasing after people 40 years younger than them...

I wonder if his wife knew, or if this has come as a surprise?

WildUnchartedWaters · 12/07/2023 21:58

RaisinFlapjack · 12/07/2023 21:57

Yeah I find it quite hard to be on the side of “two consenting adults, no big deal” for something that, if the young person were just slightly younger, would have actually been illegal.

The power dynamics thing is interesting - yes, no denying he’s a man with position, prestige and money. But it is, as a PP said, slightly hard to imagine the average young man being awed by a 60 year old newsreader? Also the young men had a huge amount of power over Edwards - leak the pics, leak the story and you’ve wrecked his life. As we have just witnessed.

I think the contacting of young people unsolicited on Instagram is quite creepy, - the messages that have been published to date are actually pretty innocuous- but it’s hard to imagine any perfectly innocent motivation for seeking out that contact in the first place.

But in itself that is really all it is, a bit creepy, not a national scandal.

Reserving judgement here for the moment.

You're not reserving judgement at all

Maddy70 · 12/07/2023 21:59

Amuseaboosh · 12/07/2023 18:07

I think that's it. I feel strangely let down. Cannot imagine how his wife feels.

I have no idea why you feel let down. Reading between the lines I believe this was an open secret. His wife knew he is bi she is just trying to protect the children now.

The police have confirmed he had not done anything illegal.

Leave them all alone

PurplePansy05 · 12/07/2023 21:59

Iolani · 12/07/2023 21:53

Not a child!!!!!!! That’s not true!!!!! Or Edwards would be charged.
Said person was 20 when parents came out..

So parents go to the Employer when their ds is 20!
No wonder ds went to a lawyer to put the matter straight.
Then the sun!?

Cashing in

20 when the parents found out, 17 when it allegedly started.

Rubyupbeat · 12/07/2023 21:59

Why would people not guess it was him? This is how deviants get away with such practices, they seem nice and normal. He's trying to blame it on depression, depression doesn't make you do such things. Married with 5 kids for goodness sake!

dimorphism · 12/07/2023 21:59

The police saying no crime has been committed isn't the ringing endorsement one would hope - remember they didn't even investigate when McDonald's staff contacted them about Couzens flashing (providing IIRC credit card details and car reg) 3 days before he murdered Sarah Everard. That's the standard for 'not anything to see here' from the police. Rape is basically legal in this country.

Sexual misconduct is a gateway to more serious things very often. Hopefully the fact it's come out will mean that fewer vulnerable people are abused and the alleged abuser is prevented from moving on to more serious things and gets the help he needs.

I think we should expect a higher standard than 'not publicly named but everyone in the office knows' or 'not convicted of sex crimes' for people who are the public face (on salaries of 6 figures) of the publicly funded broadcaster.

They really haven't learned much since Savile. Who was enabled by the BBC for YEARS, ignoring the many who came forward.

Wiccan · 12/07/2023 21:59

Bottom line is , it's just another well known dirty old piss bag using his status and position who's been caught with his trousers down . He doesn't give a fuck for his wife or children and maybe how he lives his life is the reason he has MH issues . He isn't the first and won't be the last !

WildUnchartedWaters · 12/07/2023 22:00

Does the fact huw is all but sectioned not stop people from sticking the boot in on something they actually dont know anything about?

halfpintshandypants · 12/07/2023 22:01

The police state no evidence, as they do in many cases which never reach court. Doesn’t mean it never happened does it?

17 is a kid. The attitude on this thread to the victim and mum is horrific. The desperation to play it down and make Huw the victim is mind blowing. He knew exactly what he was doing.

Regardless of The Sun’s shady past, well done to them for getting this out there and it no longer remaining a secret as it’s clear many posters here would have preferred!

Maddy70 · 12/07/2023 22:01

FireflyJar · 12/07/2023 18:11

OMG he announced the Queen's death FFS 😞

Being bi sexual does not prevent you from reading out state news. The police have investigated and he has not done anything illegal so stop pearl clutching

WildUnchartedWaters · 12/07/2023 22:02

Wiccan · 12/07/2023 21:59

Bottom line is , it's just another well known dirty old piss bag using his status and position who's been caught with his trousers down . He doesn't give a fuck for his wife or children and maybe how he lives his life is the reason he has MH issues . He isn't the first and won't be the last !

Ignoring the rest of your disgusting post perhaps the reason he lives his life the way he does is due to his mh issues.

@dimorphism , your post is also abhorrent. None of anything you mentioned is comparable here
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Mamai90 · 12/07/2023 22:02

ArcticSkewer · 12/07/2023 18:09

Having just read his wife's statement and the police report of no criminal activity, it's pretty disgusting that he has ended up in hospital in patient treatment just to stop us all talking about George Osborne during his wedding weekend.

This!

All a bit suspect if you ask me.

dimorphism · 12/07/2023 22:02

I think what would be really good would be if we can move from discussing specifics of this one case to the fact that the BBC, paid for by ordinary people, have a serious problem with sexual predators and seem completely unwilling to do anything about it.

It's only when the newspapers get involved that they do anything, when there's always evidence that people have known for ages (e.g. Savile). They do nothing to create a workplace culture where abuse of power is discouraged, seemingly.

WildUnchartedWaters · 12/07/2023 22:03

dimorphism · 12/07/2023 22:02

I think what would be really good would be if we can move from discussing specifics of this one case to the fact that the BBC, paid for by ordinary people, have a serious problem with sexual predators and seem completely unwilling to do anything about it.

It's only when the newspapers get involved that they do anything, when there's always evidence that people have known for ages (e.g. Savile). They do nothing to create a workplace culture where abuse of power is discouraged, seemingly.

Surely you arent suggesting that the involvement of the sun has been of virtue.

PurplePansy05 · 12/07/2023 22:03

WildUnchartedWaters · 12/07/2023 22:00

Does the fact huw is all but sectioned not stop people from sticking the boot in on something they actually dont know anything about?

Why should it stop anyone?

It's a public discussion about the behaviour of a 'holier than thou facade' presenter who has been part of the public domain for 30 years. Public dialogue is vital here.

halfpintshandypants · 12/07/2023 22:04

Mandy, the police frequently investigate cases and can’t provide adequate evidence to prosecute. Many victims of abuse and assault have their cases closed because of this.

Its pretty normal to be horrified by men sexually exploiting children. Your notion that it is pearl clutching makes me wonder what you think is normal.

Gladtoblasto · 12/07/2023 22:04

Flippertyfeckerty · 12/07/2023 18:33

A certain female presenter was actually charged with a crime, she was hounded relentlessly and killed herself. And then everyone extolled #bekind on every platform. Yet no one is in this scenario, where no actual crime has been committed- let’s remember the police have investigated and drawn that conclusion already- is giving an inch and the same old British flogging is taking place. It’s all very very sad.

100% agree. The general public don't know anything about what has happened but the witch hunt is outrageous.

WildUnchartedWaters · 12/07/2023 22:05

PurplePansy05 · 12/07/2023 22:03

Why should it stop anyone?

It's a public discussion about the behaviour of a 'holier than thou facade' presenter who has been part of the public domain for 30 years. Public dialogue is vital here.

Well, because decent people dont continue to stick the boot in in those circumstances about something they dont actually know about.

That aside, huw never said he was holier than thou. He did a job like everyone else in the country. The fact he isnf what the entitled fee payers decided he is is neither here nor there. F

Stella123456 · 12/07/2023 22:05

Winchester100 · 12/07/2023 18:10

I dint think they are playing any card. He’s actually in hospital. Have some bloody compassion.

I totally agree. It’s very sad and I feel so sorry for Huw Edwards. He might have done nothing unlawful. Why are people so eager to destroy people? The Sun of all rags are complete hypocrites.

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