13 year olds DD sleepover with boyfriend

[spudulike1]

I have a 13 year old DD that wants to sleep over at her 15 year old boyfriends house (I know there is an age gap but he is quite immature so i am not overly worried about it and dont really need comments on that as I know them both so am comfortable with it as all time is spent in our house or his with parental supervision)

My Dd says all her friends parents allow their boyfriends to sleep over. I just want some parents to let me know if they would allow it. Im sure if the answers but am going to show her I'm not being unreasonable!!

To be fair, @spudulike1 , it's not light-hearted if it involves the protection of a 13 year old child. I think that's where the reaction comes from.

Puts me in mind of the film Juno the father in the teenage pregnancy was a dopey young acting innocent type.

Also admittedly years ago but when I worked in this area of law a mum seeing nothing wrong in her 13 year old Dd having an older boyfriend to stay warranted SS involvement…

Let's be completely frank about this; no matter how nice a boy he is, at 15 he will be absolutely driven by a primal urge to stick his dick in any available female. Don't let that be your 13yo.

I know you've already said it's not happening on your watch - good! - but it's still worth saying it.

Teenage hormones are unbelievably potent and persistent.

Come on now?

I would say I'm a laid back parent but there is no way on this earth this would be happening!

Lighthearted

Absolute no from me. And we don’t let teen boy have his girlfriend stay overnight here, I am not taking responsibility for under age girl under our roof.

Oh the classic line that all their friends parents allow this...yeah sure