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Falling out over concert logistics

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RightWhereTheSpiritMeetsTheBones · 06/07/2023 11:25

My childhood best friend moved across the world 3 years ago. Found out that there’d be a concert held where she is, and managed to snag 4 tickets for it. One for me, one for her, and another 2 for a friend and her boyfriend who wanted to get tickets too.

The vague plan was always for me to stay with my friend at her studio apartment and for the other friend and her boyfriend to get a hotel. We got tickets together but we’re not necessarily going together IYSWIM.

After seeing hotel prices though friend thinks they should stay with us!! Obviously that’s not going to happen especially since friend will not want strangers living in her apartment for a week and I’m not going to put her in the difficult position of being the ‘bad guy’.

Actually not even that chuffed to hand tickets over—they haven’t even paid—to friend and the boyfriend after how rude they’ve been about the whole thing but have accepted that I did promise them I’d get tickets for them.

AIBU to not be more accommodating to friend and boyfriend?

OP posts:
LadyBird1973 · 11/07/2023 11:30

She's embarrassed that you shelled out for these and now she can't afford it. Instead of being honest and dealing with it like a grown up, she's covering her eyes and ears and pretending she hasn't cocked up.

EvilElsa · 11/07/2023 11:34

I knew you'd never hear from her again!!! Great result OP!

rookiemere · 11/07/2023 11:49

She's a real piece of work.
Glad you got it sorted OP, it's true no good deed goes unpunished.

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