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How old were you when you had your last baby.

320 replies

summerfinn · 18/06/2023 08:45

I was 22 having my first and will be 37 having my last. Just wanted to see is 37 a common age for having your last baby. I never dreamt I'd be pregnant at 37 . I always thought that it was a bit old. Now I'm scared that I'm just being selfish and could have a baby with lots of issues.

OP posts:
Simd1 · 26/01/2024 12:19

33 unless I have another in which case I'd be in my 40s

Cotswoldmama · 26/01/2024 12:47

31

funinthesun19 · 26/01/2024 12:48

I was 28 when I had my youngest. I’m 34 now and would love one last one but I know it will never happen.

Bythefireside · 26/01/2024 12:52

1st 23
last 37

Wooloohooloo · 26/01/2024 16:29

First at 25, second at 35. Only difference was my energy levels.

kisstheblarney · 26/01/2024 16:30

29

Mumof2NDers · 26/01/2024 16:45

bumblefeline · 18/06/2023 09:08

What an odd response, I was working full time from the age of 16 and had a mortgage at 19. Done and dusted with my two kids by 25. No degree though, so that's where I have failed obviously. The child I selfishly had at 20 has one though, is that acceptable lol?

Edited because I’m a tit and quoted the wrong person!!

EC22 · 26/01/2024 16:45

1st 21
5th 35

Usernamenoavailable · 26/01/2024 22:50

1st and last at 19. I don’t want another child as I’m almost 30 and tired all the time😂

I have a degree, a career and own my home. Although I done it backwards she’s almost 10 and is a wonderful child. She just inspired me to work harder and give her things I never had 😊

Asparagus1 · 26/01/2024 22:51

29

CountryShepherd · 26/01/2024 23:14
  1. First one at 26.
TrixieFatell · 26/01/2024 23:18

First aged 27

Last aged 38

Purplebunnie · 26/01/2024 23:19

1st at 33, 2nd and last at 37

TheOriginalEmu · 26/01/2024 23:24

First at 22 and last at 27. I had 5 in 5 years. Still managed a degree and a career and a husband and a house. Though the degree and career came around having the babies. 😂

0rangeCrush · 26/01/2024 23:25

1st - 26
2nd - 35

Both conceived after I’d finished uni and got a permanent job and bought our first house. Been with partner 7 years when first was borb.

Physically my first was a skoosh, but mentally it was hard as I was so young.

Physically my second was difficult; but I was also pregnant during lockdown with a serious health condition, and also working full time and raising my eldest whilst my partner worked away. Mentally my second was a skoosh.

Im not having any more.

DC1214 · 26/01/2024 23:25

43, nearly 44

PurpleFlower1983 · 27/01/2024 07:39

37

ColdButSunny · 27/01/2024 07:42

35

Ciculita · 27/01/2024 10:28

33

Cailin66 · 28/01/2024 09:30

First at 34, last at 39. I would have gone for another but I was physically too tired. My advice is younger is better. That I was luckily to easily conceive and don’t leave it as late as I did.

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