DC goes to nursery three times a week. Me and DH work full time and compressed our hours, because of his random shift work hours and because I can work flexibly I do the nursery drop offs and pick ups. That’s fine as it makes sense, I can work from home those days I drop them off as DC is at nursery.
DH has taken some random annual leave, and has moaned that he never gets any time on his own. But he won’t go out on his annual leave he wants to be at home, and just my presence there means he’s not having alone time.
I asked him to take our children to nursery and then I’ll go into the office and I’ll pick them up. He refused. Because it’s his day off even tho he’s doing nothing.
I went to the office and took them there and he wouldn’t even pick them up, so I had to work into the evening after I brought them home.
im feeling really pissed off because this week when it would have been nice to get some help he’s not helped at all with getting them ready, or offering to do the pick up or drop off for once. I get I do this normally but thought as he was on leave he could help but he’s mad at me!!
I don’t know if I’m wrong here.
for context I’ve always done the majority of the work at home with the kids - sorting meals/bedtime/bath, I’m just tired.
YABU - you normally do the pick up and drop off so you should do it
YANBU - DH has leave and can help.