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Holly willoboughly

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midnightblue12 · 27/05/2023 21:03

Ok I know I've spelt her surname wrong... but here we are. We all know who I'm talking about!

I just don't understand why social media has turned on her, almost blaiming her for allowing Phillip S antics to go on?

Why is she responsible for his actions????

And for those saying "she must've known"... maybe she didn't! Maybe she kept out of it or maybe she didn't know the full one and puts.
Why so she being Blaine's. Am I missing something??!

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PiffleIsTakingThePiss · 27/05/2023 21:04

Am I missing something??!

You know, I think you might be. Can't quite put my finger on what though.

grayhairdontcare · 27/05/2023 21:04

She asked him and he lied.
I don't see how it's her fault.
He lied to everyone about the situation.

midnightblue12 · 27/05/2023 21:06

@PiffleIsTakingThePiss well why don't you tell me because I don't really understand what's going on!
I'm not being sarcastic or funny so why don't you just say instead of being so?

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MVGsDarts · 27/05/2023 21:10

It was common knowledge. Of course she knew. Ruth Complained to itv bosses and was then banished from this morning along with her husband amongst others. It was also pretty easy to find on Twitter (and has been known in media, tv and theatre circles for a long time -pre his admission of being gay) there's no way she couldn't have known about it.

Zipidydodah · 27/05/2023 21:10

Because people (especially women in MN) like to blame women for men’s actions. She ‘must have know’ - Wtf. The same as every wife / girlfriend who finds themselves married to a rapist/ paedophile …they must of known.
It’s fucking despicable

Mrsjayy · 27/05/2023 21:11

They are not blaming her for his "antics" they are saying she's an enabler and turned a blind eye, although she needs to be left alone the focus should definitely be on him

TeaKitten · 27/05/2023 21:12

MVGsDarts · 27/05/2023 21:10

It was common knowledge. Of course she knew. Ruth Complained to itv bosses and was then banished from this morning along with her husband amongst others. It was also pretty easy to find on Twitter (and has been known in media, tv and theatre circles for a long time -pre his admission of being gay) there's no way she couldn't have known about it.

If it’s common knowledge then why’s it her fault? If ITV new and didn’t want to act… how is it her fault? What did you want her to realistically do?

Mrsjayy · 27/05/2023 21:12

MVGsDarts · 27/05/2023 21:10

It was common knowledge. Of course she knew. Ruth Complained to itv bosses and was then banished from this morning along with her husband amongst others. It was also pretty easy to find on Twitter (and has been known in media, tv and theatre circles for a long time -pre his admission of being gay) there's no way she couldn't have known about it.

I mean this Itv chose to get rid of people decent presenters rather than believe them.

Zipidydodah · 27/05/2023 21:13

And even if she did? So whet?She should have done what? Refused to go on air with him while the studio and the TV bosses covered it all up. She should have sacrificed her career? Well she did … so duck off everyone who wants to drag a women down for a man’s she’s not even married to actions.

MVGsDarts · 27/05/2023 21:13

She's not being blamed for him but rather how she chose to toe the ITV line and turned a blind eye.

RudsyFarmer · 27/05/2023 21:13

I still do t really understand why we’re all hating him. Is it because he had an affair? Because he’s gay? Because the person he had the affair with was young and the rumour is he manipulated the person into a sexual relationship?

I can’t work it out. I don’t like him because he’s everywhere and seems a sanctimonious prick but I can’t work out why this is constant front page news. People have affairs all the time and keep their jobs. The whole of parliament lie all the time and keep their jobs. What am I missing?

Awrite · 27/05/2023 21:14

Well, I knew and I haven't watched This Morning since Richard and Judy.

I read about it on Twitter and on here at least 2 years ago.

There is a chance she believed his denials I suppose.

My dd is angry that Holly is being blamed though. I have no sympathy.

DoubleShotEspresso · 27/05/2023 21:15

So whilst I agree with you that HW is not responsible for the actions of her colleague, the plausibility of her having no knowledge is realistically nil.

Imagine your "best work colleague" was investigated by your employer, your colleagues are chatting about all the stuff that has been on twitter and the like for ages....... videos circulate which give some credence to the rumours.....

Imagine further two very established big name colleagues are let go because one makes a complaint regarding these rumours?

All of this coupled with the fact that HW and PS were both under the same talent agency (which he holds shares in and employs his daughter), the same agency who have arranged media mgt, legal support and hush money/arrangements.....? Holly parted company with them a year ago and pocketed a £million quid.... Why do you imagine that might be perchance?

She asked-he lied. In light of the above it would be at best naive of HW to genuinely believe this.

Does this make her culpable for his crimes/misdemeanours? No.

it does though reflect terribly upon her which is clearly why for some time now she has been removing ties with PS, it is clear she had knowledge along with many others. And yet, she remained and stayed for the ride-that I think is what so many are calling into question.

The most important question I think the majority here one all these threads is the fact that if PS admitted lying to all he did over this, the probability he did lie again to the court for his brother is high. Let that sink in......

ArcticSkewer · 27/05/2023 21:15

RudsyFarmer · 27/05/2023 21:13

I still do t really understand why we’re all hating him. Is it because he had an affair? Because he’s gay? Because the person he had the affair with was young and the rumour is he manipulated the person into a sexual relationship?

I can’t work it out. I don’t like him because he’s everywhere and seems a sanctimonious prick but I can’t work out why this is constant front page news. People have affairs all the time and keep their jobs. The whole of parliament lie all the time and keep their jobs. What am I missing?

Which one of your three options seems worse to you? Can you really not tell? They all seem the same? Gosh!

Mrsjayy · 27/05/2023 21:16

Well it's because he knew the lad from a child and had him installed on this morning. It's creepy and unethical. It's like me shagging somebody my Dc went to school with at 18.

PiffleIsTakingThePiss · 27/05/2023 21:16

@RudsyFarmer - I suspect it's got a lot to do with his reputation for being absolutely vile to many many people. He forgot that you should be extra nice on your way up so that you have friends on your way down. The same would happen to Corden if something came out about him. It's not about PS and his sexuality. It's about him being a horrible nasty piece of work.

RudsyFarmer · 27/05/2023 21:16

ArcticSkewer · 27/05/2023 21:15

Which one of your three options seems worse to you? Can you really not tell? They all seem the same? Gosh!

The person was young? But how young? Men have affairs with young women all the time.

RudsyFarmer · 27/05/2023 21:17

Mrsjayy · 27/05/2023 21:16

Well it's because he knew the lad from a child and had him installed on this morning. It's creepy and unethical. It's like me shagging somebody my Dc went to school with at 18.

But I’d it illegal or are we morally outraged?

Mrsjayy · 27/05/2023 21:18

Sorry I meant to quote @RudsyFarmer .

I wonder what Philip schofield would say if a creepy 50 odd year old man was having sex with his 18 year old daughter.

RudsyFarmer · 27/05/2023 21:18

PiffleIsTakingThePiss · 27/05/2023 21:16

@RudsyFarmer - I suspect it's got a lot to do with his reputation for being absolutely vile to many many people. He forgot that you should be extra nice on your way up so that you have friends on your way down. The same would happen to Corden if something came out about him. It's not about PS and his sexuality. It's about him being a horrible nasty piece of work.

Yep I get that, he’s a vile little prick. Yep, makes sense. But why is this front page news and why the witch hunt of everyone associated with him. I feel like there’s more to this otherwise it makes no sense.

TeaKitten · 27/05/2023 21:19

Awrite · 27/05/2023 21:14

Well, I knew and I haven't watched This Morning since Richard and Judy.

I read about it on Twitter and on here at least 2 years ago.

There is a chance she believed his denials I suppose.

My dd is angry that Holly is being blamed though. I have no sympathy.

Even if she did no that he’s a creep, it was common knowledge and ITV wouldn’t act on it, so what was she suppose to do? Throw away her career and ability to feed her kids? And what would that have achieved? What exactly was her crime? If everyone at itv new why not shut down the channel rather than blaming one woman?

Grapewrath · 27/05/2023 21:20

Of course she knew!!
Tbh it’s irrelevant because if I even suspected my best friend was having an affair with a child we would not be friends.
Holly W only gives a shit about herself and her own career

Mrsjayy · 27/05/2023 21:20

RudsyFarmer · 27/05/2023 21:17

But I’d it illegal or are we morally outraged?

Are you not shocked ? Do you have a child would you be happy with a scout leader or a drama teacher taking an interest in them then have sex with them at 18.

MVGsDarts · 27/05/2023 21:21

Very young @RudsyFarmer He alao followed a lot boys on twitter and conversed with them. For example https://twitter.com/kamaalii_786/status/1662528343277707265

MakesMeFeelSad · 27/05/2023 21:21

You don't shag someone who you've known since they were a child. It's fucking disgusting

Maybe she did know but doesn't sound like itv wanted to do anything about it regardless, I'm not sure she should lose her job because of it . Unless they are going to sack everyone there

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