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To this is fucking dangerous and why we must get the Tories out?

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dontlookbackyourenotgoingthatway · 16/05/2023 09:37

This:

nationalconservatism.org/national-conservatism-a-statement-of-principles/

Look at the speakers;

nationalconservatism.org/natcon-uk-2023/

How can anybody who has studied any history whatsoever vote for this?

Are living in some kind of shit, TV movie about the fall of the UK?

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MargotBamborough · 16/05/2023 21:24

jgw1 · 16/05/2023 21:22

Ah yes, Cates is already trying to meddle in what is taught in schools.

Given that children are currently being taught that whether you are a boy or a girl is a question of gender identity and not biology, I think some meddling is long overdue.

SunnyEgg · 16/05/2023 21:25

TheHandmaiden · 16/05/2023 21:20

This is all back door Catholicism, anti abortion, home making, anti education for women.

That there are some useful idiots like Cates and Braverman to stand up and start the conversation is terrible.

Education is the only way women have been able to be emancipated. The only way. Remove it or nibble it down, there's nothing.

Which specific policies do you expect to see in a manifesto, and actioned?

i know I could work more easily when 30 hours came in, also that rather annoyingly public pressure for lockdowns harmed women more but the left were always more on the side of that.

Childcare is going to get less expensive

Can you say which policies we’ll see? I get not wanting this but I’m more able to work now than I was pre free hours so I am on the side of women working and being educated to high standard.

Plus Scotland under left seems to be lagging on education

jgw1 · 16/05/2023 21:26

MargotBamborough · 16/05/2023 21:24

Given that children are currently being taught that whether you are a boy or a girl is a question of gender identity and not biology, I think some meddling is long overdue.

No child I know has been taught that.

cakeorwine · 16/05/2023 21:27

Don't worry.

If some of the Tories have their way and follow the Florida Governor who some of them love, trans people will be forced to use the toilets of the sex that's on their birth certificate or face potential jail, teachers will be forced to use the pronoun of trans pupils that's on their birth certificate, teachers won't be allowed to teach about LGBT issues in school, books will be banned that mention LGBT...

This is what the American right have done. Trying to make life much much harder for the LGBT community.

Oh - and abortion rights? No abortion after 6 weeks in Florida now.

Florida’s rightwing governor Ron DeSantis backs Kemi Badenoch’s ‘war on woke’ | Ron DeSantis | The Guardian

Some of DeSantis’s views would be considered far outside mainstream UK politics – he recently signed a law to ban abortion in Florida after six weeks of pregnancy, for example.
So-called parental rights legislation passed under his governorship has also led to the removal of hundreds of books from school libraries in the state.
DeSantis insists only books that are “pornographic, violent or inappropriate” have been banned, but some school districts have responded to the new laws by removing books including The Handmaid’s Tale by Margaret Atwood and Judy Blume’s Forever from circulation.
DeSantis won a landslide re-election to the governorship last year and describes his state as “where woke goes to die”.

So - you think that the Conservatives are ok because of their trans views. Have you thought about how some of them view LGB people, women and their place in society?

Florida’s rightwing governor Ron DeSantis backs Kemi Badenoch’s ‘war on woke’

Republican expected to run for nomination supports UK business secretary’s attempt to stop the left ‘corrupting British society’

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2023/apr/30/ron-desantis-backs-kemi-badenochs-war-on-woke

TheHandmaiden · 16/05/2023 21:28

@MargotBamborough - I don't want any politician deciding what my children need to know.

Be it gender bullshit or baby making. But when I look at who did this and who is in charge, it's the Conservative Party.

They made this mess, they still aren't cleaning it up and now it's time to educate less?

Do you have kids? Or does anyone you care about?

ToWhitToWhoo · 16/05/2023 21:28

MargotBamborough · 16/05/2023 20:57

FFS this is weak even by your standards.

There are no hormones and no surgical procedures that can give a male born person a cervix and only a complete fucking idiot would say something like that at all, let alone on the radio.

And no one thinks there is.

This is not about born-men identifying as women. It's about born-women (who already have cervixes) identifying as men.

In any case, is it really more important than a policy of sending women back to the kitchen?

MargotBamborough · 16/05/2023 21:29

TheHandmaiden · 16/05/2023 21:28

@MargotBamborough - I don't want any politician deciding what my children need to know.

Be it gender bullshit or baby making. But when I look at who did this and who is in charge, it's the Conservative Party.

They made this mess, they still aren't cleaning it up and now it's time to educate less?

Do you have kids? Or does anyone you care about?

Lol, let's disband the DfE then...

I do have kids. I will not tolerate them being taught that they get to choose whether they are a boy or a girl.

cakeorwine · 16/05/2023 21:30

MargotBamborough · 16/05/2023 21:21

I don't want to vote Conservative.

I'm saying my minimum red line is that I want to vote for a party which doesn't hate women.

Which party can I vote for?

Reform party.

I mean they probably have views on women, feminism, tackling sexism, abortion rights, legal aid, domestic violence, childcare, but I bet they are against trans people.

MargotBamborough · 16/05/2023 21:30

ToWhitToWhoo · 16/05/2023 21:28

And no one thinks there is.

This is not about born-men identifying as women. It's about born-women (who already have cervixes) identifying as men.

In any case, is it really more important than a policy of sending women back to the kitchen?

Did you watch the clip?

David Lammy literally said the very thing you are saying no one believes, on live radio.

He's not talking about trans men, ffs.

SunnyEgg · 16/05/2023 21:30

ToWhitToWhoo · 16/05/2023 21:28

And no one thinks there is.

This is not about born-men identifying as women. It's about born-women (who already have cervixes) identifying as men.

In any case, is it really more important than a policy of sending women back to the kitchen?

No you have it the wrong way round

This is the quote

Lammy: "...it's probably the case that trans women [born male] don't have ovaries, but a cervix..is something that you can have following various procedures, hormones and all the rest of it..."

It’s about males

MargotBamborough · 16/05/2023 21:31

cakeorwine · 16/05/2023 21:30

Reform party.

I mean they probably have views on women, feminism, tackling sexism, abortion rights, legal aid, domestic violence, childcare, but I bet they are against trans people.

Are you conflating pro woman and anti trans deliberately or accidentally?

TheHandmaiden · 16/05/2023 21:31

@MargotBamborough - I educate my children privately. I do not want any gender bullshit or "girls get less".

It is possible to dislike both. Using my brain, I see all of this has come under the Conservatives.

They aren't changing it. They are using it. They are disgraceful.

cakeorwine · 16/05/2023 21:31

MargotBamborough · 16/05/2023 21:29

Lol, let's disband the DfE then...

I do have kids. I will not tolerate them being taught that they get to choose whether they are a boy or a girl.

Trans people don't generally choose how they present to the world.

Do you think they choose?
Or do you think it's much more complicated than that?

Thelnebriati · 16/05/2023 21:32

@jgw1 Here's the link to David Lammy claiming that you can get a cervix after various procedures;
''a cervix I understand is something that you can have following various procedures, hormone treatment, all the rest of it''.
https://www.pressreader.com/uk/the-herald-

https://twitter.com/joemac5367/status/1583105883856285697

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cakeorwine · 16/05/2023 21:32

MargotBamborough · 16/05/2023 21:31

Are you conflating pro woman and anti trans deliberately or accidentally?

Based on what's happening in Florida - there is a lot of anti trans stuff happening there.

SunnyEgg · 16/05/2023 21:34

TheHandmaiden · 16/05/2023 21:31

@MargotBamborough - I educate my children privately. I do not want any gender bullshit or "girls get less".

It is possible to dislike both. Using my brain, I see all of this has come under the Conservatives.

They aren't changing it. They are using it. They are disgraceful.

Do you think Labour will be better for GC policies?

Given Lammy, Starmer, Drakeford recently why do you think they will be?

jgw1 · 16/05/2023 21:36

MargotBamborough · 16/05/2023 21:22

Well how else do you interpret what he said?

Which verb would be more acceptable to you?

Develop? Acquire?

Why do I need to intepret what he said?

I am sure one of the several posters who said that Lammy has said that men can grow a cervix will be along very soon with the quote.

in the meantime, shall we talk about why the Tories slashed the Ministry of Justice budget, seem surprised that for rape convictions for instance have plummetted but some of their number simaltaneously want to ban abortion?

Middlelanehogger · 16/05/2023 21:36

@MargotBamborough I've seen you in a few threads and I like the cut of your jib.

I think I would have liked to have gone to NatCon. Lots of very interesting people

dontlookbackyourenotgoingthatway · 16/05/2023 21:38

Why does every politics thread come back to the same bloody issue?

Makes me wonder how much of society "GC"s are willing to throw under a bus for their point of view?

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TheHandmaiden · 16/05/2023 21:38

I would respect the Conservatives on this if a) they had not enabled this mess and b) they had addressed it.

I am a higher rate taxpayer who educates her children at a private school in part because of DfE policy. In the private sector, I don't have to deal with gender bullshit.

I am not happy about this but it's certainly better than having to rely on the State which is a mess and that mess belongs to the Conservatives

sonearly · 16/05/2023 21:38

ToWhitToWhoo · 16/05/2023 21:28

And no one thinks there is.

This is not about born-men identifying as women. It's about born-women (who already have cervixes) identifying as men.

In any case, is it really more important than a policy of sending women back to the kitchen?

I see you.

IClaudine · 16/05/2023 21:39

SunnyEgg · 16/05/2023 21:11

But why would she win?

If you’re convinced Tories are out why would someone more extreme get in five years later?

I don’t get why you’re terrified if so convinced there’s little chance of it happening.

Because we have general elections every five years and no one can predict how things will be at the GE after the imminent one, or what will be the mood of the UK electorate.

I didn't think the Tories would be dumb enough to make Johnson their leader or that the electorate would be stupid enough to vote for Brexit or that the US would be crazy enough to vote in Trump. So I don't rule anything out.

MargotBamborough · 16/05/2023 21:39

TheHandmaiden · 16/05/2023 21:31

@MargotBamborough - I educate my children privately. I do not want any gender bullshit or "girls get less".

It is possible to dislike both. Using my brain, I see all of this has come under the Conservatives.

They aren't changing it. They are using it. They are disgraceful.

How lucky for you and your children that private education is an option for you.

I also dislike both, in case that wasn't clear.

But I don't expect to like the Tories.

I was looking forward to being able to vote Labour under Keir Starmer but now I feel unable to vote for anyone. Women's rights and child safeguarding are absolute red lines for me.

I've been wanting to get the Tories out for 13 years. But it's not my job to get the Tories out by voting Labour. (Not that it would make any difference in my constituency anyway.) It's Labour's job to get the Tories out by coming up with popular, achievable policies that a majority of voters support. I'm utterly appalled that they seem to care more about a tiny minority of rainbow flag shagging ideologues (including some actual convicted rapists) than they do about ordinary women and children.

They have forgotten who, and what, the Labour Party is for. That is why they are not in power.

They will win the next election by default because everyone is so sick of the Tories, and they will use that advantage to bring in policies which put women and children at risk, despite the fact that they must know a majority of people do not support these policies.

That is unforgiveable.

And I am certainly not going to vote Labour and then be told that I voted for all this stuff, just like all those remainers who voted Labour in the hopes of getting a soft Brexit or a second referendum only to be told that they were part of the 80% who voted to get Brexit done.

I'm sure they'll win, but they can do so without my help.

jgw1 · 16/05/2023 21:40

Thelnebriati · 16/05/2023 21:32

@jgw1 Here's the link to David Lammy claiming that you can get a cervix after various procedures;
''a cervix I understand is something that you can have following various procedures, hormone treatment, all the rest of it''.
https://www.pressreader.com/uk/the-herald-

https://twitter.com/joemac5367/status/1583105883856285697

That's not the one where he says men grow cervixs though is it. We are still waiting for that particular one.

TheHandmaiden · 16/05/2023 21:40

@SunnyEgg - I'm not going to vote Labour unless it means get rid of the Conservatives. My vote is up for grabs.

If someone makes a mess, they have an obligation to clear it up and get on with it, not game it.

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