My parents own two houses (one they live in and the other they rent out). The mortgage on the house they rent out is coming to an end and my parents have been deciding if they want to keep their current tenants or sell up. That was until today when my dad mentioned 'gifting' the house to my sister (aged 20) as another option. Obviously I know that the house belongs to my parents and they are free to do whatever they want with it, but I couldn't help feeling upset about this.
I'm 27 and bought my property aged 25 through hard work and years of saving, so I feel that it is unfair that I had to work so hard to buy my house and my sister just gets gifted with one. My sister could sense I was a bit annoyed over the situation and said something along the lines of 'I don't know what your problem is, you already have your own house'
So, AIBU unreasonable for feeling a bit pissed off that my sister may be given a house basically for free when I had to work so hard for mine?
AIBU?
To be upset about my sister being given a house by my parents
mammamia77 · 13/05/2023 20:44
Ccvyvyan · 13/05/2023 21:05
Slaving away for years/bought a house at 25. 🥴
RudsyFarmer · 13/05/2023 21:15
When you say ‘buy my house’. Do you mean you have a mortgaged property or that you have bought the house outright as a cash buyer. When you say ‘gifted your sister a house’ do you mean allowed your sister to live in it rent free or signed the deeds of the house over to her and she owns it outright?
mammamia77 · 13/05/2023 21:17
My house is mortgaged and yes the deeds would be signed over to her
RudsyFarmer · 13/05/2023 21:15
When you say ‘buy my house’. Do you mean you have a mortgaged property or that you have bought the house outright as a cash buyer. When you say ‘gifted your sister a house’ do you mean allowed your sister to live in it rent free or signed the deeds of the house over to her and she owns it outright?
mammamia77 · 13/05/2023 21:07
I qualified as a teacher aged 21 and saved for four years to buy my house aged 25.
Ccvyvyan · 13/05/2023 21:05
Slaving away for years/bought a house at 25. 🥴
strawberryjeans · 13/05/2023 21:23
It’s possible they will give you similar help in another way. I do think it’s unfair, but is there a back story? Have they given you ££££ towards your deposit? It’s harder by the year to buy a house by the way.
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