Why is it ok to be violent and insulting to a woman who makes a mistake.

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A female calls a person 'lady' in error because she thought the person was female. The person identifies as non binary. The trans manager then verbally insults and finally physically assaults the woman and the man outside.

Is this really what we have come to. A simple word and the non binary is upset and so the trans person can kick a customer from the shop, purposefully insult and then assault.

So is misgendering (even by accident) so serious it merits verbal abuse and physical violence? I mean it isn't even obvious whether the person she called 'lady' behind the counter is non binary, looks female. The trans woman manager looks male and certainly acts it!

Why are so many trans women displaying what was formally seen as masculine traits (violence) now that they identify as female.

This whole thing is the epitome of that Greer quote:

Men are afraid women will laugh at them
Women are afraid men will
kill them.

Women are always on the look out for male
violence and certain types of men are on the look out for women who challenge their sense of entitlement and superiority.

@Boudicasbeard
To those I would add "Women have no idea how much men hate them."

She was spot on.

And another thing that the wonderful Professor Greer said, about 20 years ago:

Women are not just men without penises.

No indeed - according to idiots like Starmer, women can be men WITH penises.

Or men can be Women WITH penises…even…

For once the job loss hit them which makes a refreshing change.

No they can’t.

But how a person perceives themselves is largely something a customer cannot.disern from the retail transaction and tbh is irrelevant to the transaction.

Your right I wouldn't argue over coffee as I hate it but I might argue over tea.

My point is that none of us really knows how we will react.

I might have just walked away, probably the younger me would have.

But....

I can also easily see that if someone was calling me a bigot/ phobic whatever in public over a simple coffee order that it would press my buttons enough that I would argue back doesn't matter how frightened I was.

Also for some women especially ones like me that have a bit of life experience and seen the devastation that male violence can cause we are angry and I personally find it much harder to walk away from an aggressive male than I used to, I've had enough of them and I won't take anymore.

You need to read the post I was commenting on.
The post I was commenting on was quoting Starmer saying this. But the pp got the man and women the wrong way round
Read my previous comments, do u really think I agree with this!

Those are a lot expectations and none of them required by British law.

Why exactly is an apology expected?

I find it disconcerting that some posters can watch that video and think that a male standing over a female person by a foot or so, abusing her is not considered intimidating and an act of violence because of that intimidation.

And that this male person merely attempted to ‘physically remove the phone’ is again not considered a violent act (assault). And yet, some posters view saying ‘this lady’ in reference to a female staff member as ‘abuse’.

And that is just from the video alone. If the male staff member did indeed upend her handbag, and physically touch her to ‘remove’ her from the store and shove her, then I do expect that the police will be laying charges.

The lack of symmetry here is very clear and it lacks being based in reality. I wonder if the posters who believe that this male staff member was ‘non violent’ in the video under the prejudicial view they have and why they have that prejudicial view?

Also remember this woman had paid for her coffee/cake and was being told to leave without either her coffee/cake or a refund. They had stolen £10 from her.

Why are so many trans and non binary folk so entitled, abusive and misogynistic? Why them specifically, more so than regular men. Why do they seem to have a chip on their shoulder? Every time you see them on any platform, they are shouting hysterically, accusing others of stuff, using ridiculous analogies like misgendering people is like genocide. What mid actually going on here?

@Shelefttheweb yes no one seemed to be making any attempt to progress the order she’d paid for.

As if the verdict on her alleged transphobia was going to determine whether she should be granted the food and drink she’d just paid for.

Disturbing on so many levels

The manager thought he was untouchable and could behave like a petulant child. Glad he's fired.

I was thinking along those lines, but I was thinking of armbands: pink if you want to be treated as female, blue for male, and beige for the gender neutrals.

I'm also at a loss as to how someone can be transphobic towards someone they don't know is trans.

Sounds lovely and Orwellian

Transmen can be just as bad. A friend had a dreadful (and utterly ridiculous) saga with a transman colleague, which ended in friend getting a written warning.

The transman transitioned back to being female again a couple of months later, too.

@cushioncovers I’m glad he lost his job too. For actual abuse and violence.

Enough people have been cancelled or lost their jobs or been forced out for alleged ‘violence’ or hate crimes like misgendering or gc views - that as you say - the manager thought he was untouchable when he took this stance with the customer

Oh well he's now unemployed and likely unemployable since his violent and aggressive behaviour is all over the Internet.
Actions have consequences, enjoy your beans on toast on mate, you'll be eating them for a while, no Starbucks for you 😂.

😂😂😂

Cross sex [AKA not real] hormones affect your brain and add a sense of entitlement and it is a perfect storm.

Because they've been led to believe that they MUST be validated or the non validator is committing an act of literal violence.

So they have a special status.

Anyone who denies their identity is a bigot.

They are entitled to go into spaces which match their identity and any one who questions it is a bigot.

If they go to university they may have seen signs like this one - https://www.plymouthherald.co.uk/news/plymouth-news/university-plymouth-criticised-over-trans-6988584

If they have come though the UK school system they will have been told that they whole class has to comply with their pronouns and if they don't lie about their sex they will get in trouble.

They have seen universities cancel and deplatform middle age women for 'wrong think'.

Basically this ideology has become a licence for entitled young people to believe that their identity is more important than everyone else's reality and that any person (especially women) who doesn't go along with it is far right, aligned with Nazis, committing an act of literal violence, deserves to be cancelled etc etc.

With a hint of Aldous Huxley.