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to be alarmed that more and more places are allowing dogs?

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wheelings · 26/04/2023 12:12

Just went to Wilko recently who had a sign up saying all dogs welcome. Went to a bistro and they allowed dogs too. Had lunch listening to small yappy dogs.

Since when did it become acceptable to allow dogs into shops and food places?

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CrescentstarMoon · 26/04/2023 12:56

Elphame · 26/04/2023 12:52

There is so little "chocolate" in a modern chocolate bar that unless he was tiny or your daughter was eating one of the dark luxury bars he'll almost certainly be fine.

My older one has had a few kitkats in the past with no ill effects.

Cake is far more of a danger in a cafe. Mine once got hold of two large slices of homemade carrot cake (with sultanas) and gobbled the lot. That was an expensive vet bill.

I think he was a labrador? So not really small although I think still a puppy? and it was just half of one of those kids thin small dairy milk bars

SliceOfCakeCupOfTea · 26/04/2023 12:56

Chasingadvice · 26/04/2023 12:40

Or don't allow dogs in places they have no business being in. Like places that serve food and drinks. You may be happy with dirty dogs running around you when you eat but other people are not. And yes- all dogs are dirty. Your 'perfectly clean' animal still licks other animals arses.

Well exactly. Some people don't mind, so why shouldn't business owners be allowed to decide if they're going to allow dogs or not? Why automatically ban it to appeal to the non-dog lovers?

Business owners are the ones who will suffer if they find their profits are dropping by allowing dogs. The risk is theirs. It is up to people to check if dogs are allowed or not and make their decision based on this.

ComtesseDeSpair · 26/04/2023 12:57

I always wonder why owners bring them tbh. Some dogs seem to cope with it okay but a lot I’ve seen just seem really stressed. I wouldn’t want to be on the floor in an unfamiliar and noisy environment with strangers’ feet thumping around me and almost (or actually) treading on me, and I can’t imagine dogs like it either. I’ve seen so many dogs trodden on or kicked or hit with chair legs because people haven’t seen them.

SquashPenguin · 26/04/2023 12:58

I love taking my dog to wilkos. I always go armed with wipes and tissues should he have an accident, but he’s also a pug and doesn’t go knocking anything over. The staff all come over to say hello to him. He usually finds a wayward Millions sweet or five to enjoy somewhere too.

I don’t know how people on here who hate dogs this much even leave their houses.

SliceOfCakeCupOfTea · 26/04/2023 12:59

kitsuneghost · 26/04/2023 12:53

Where would that be?

Try Google. Check websites and business Facebook pages. I'm sure you can find somewhere.

Thesharkradar · 26/04/2023 12:59

If your favourite establishment starts allowing dogs just write to them saying you will no longer be going there and explain why ☝🏻🤠

LaLoba · 26/04/2023 12:59

7Worfs · 26/04/2023 12:16

It’s ill-thought because once it’s allowed it can get out of hand very easily.

No one would mind one small dog sleeping under a table, but what about 5-10 dogs milling about/yapping/tripping up a waiter/getting sick on the floor?

I live in a region known for it’s scenery, which means that all the pubs I can think of locally are dog friendly. Our regular place for a weekend pub meal is right near a caravan park, so it’s usual for there to be multiple dogs under the tables.
I have never once seen any of the above happening, no soiling, no milling, and definitely no getting sick!

Wiennetta · 26/04/2023 13:00

Up to the business. Lots of cafes let in dogs, looking around on an average weekday most customers are students, parents and people popping in for a coffee on the dog walk. If you don’t like going to a cafe where they have dogs you could….go somewhere else?

Elphame · 26/04/2023 13:00

CrescentstarMoon · 26/04/2023 12:56

I think he was a labrador? So not really small although I think still a puppy? and it was just half of one of those kids thin small dairy milk bars

Oh he'll be fine then. A lab pup is bigger than my fully grown adult. I bet he was pleased with himself.

Owner was being ridiculous although to be fair the internet does overhype the dangers of certain foods.

NeverTrustAPoliceman · 26/04/2023 13:00

I saw a large dog pee on some maxi dresses in M&S not long ago. The owner didn't notice, but I pointed it out to the staff. Disgusting.

Wiennetta · 26/04/2023 13:00

LaLoba · 26/04/2023 12:59

I live in a region known for it’s scenery, which means that all the pubs I can think of locally are dog friendly. Our regular place for a weekend pub meal is right near a caravan park, so it’s usual for there to be multiple dogs under the tables.
I have never once seen any of the above happening, no soiling, no milling, and definitely no getting sick!

Also this. I’ve never seen dogs going to the loo in a cafe or tripping up a waiter.

Oblomov23 · 26/04/2023 13:01

I don't like it. And I love dogs. I just don't think it's appropriate.

Brefugee · 26/04/2023 13:02

Bluevelvetsofa · 26/04/2023 12:25

Yes, we know the topic has been aired frequently, but it’s clearly bothering plenty of people and I agree that there’s been a huge increase in the number of places that welcome dogs.

I’m not a dog lover and I prefer venues where they aren’t allowed. That’s difficult to find these days and I’m sure there are plenty of people who welcome being able to take their dogs wherever they go. I was looking at the restrictions for dogs on the local beach yesterday. From the beginning of the month they aren’t allowed on the beach and must be on leads on the prom. I’d be very surprised if either of those rules have any effect.

i am going to assume that these businesses have had dog-owners asking if they can bring their dogs in. As business owners they have then made a calculated decision to welcome them.

So the thing you need to do is ask if they are a dog free zone, and on hearing a negative, tell them that's a shame as you will now go elsewhere. If enough people do that, the business will recalculate who they will make most money from.

But you have to speak up instead of doing that British thing of saying nothing but complaining about it.

Thesharkradar · 26/04/2023 13:02

NeverTrustAPoliceman · 26/04/2023 13:00

I saw a large dog pee on some maxi dresses in M&S not long ago. The owner didn't notice, but I pointed it out to the staff. Disgusting.

How could they not notice? surely they were pretending not to notice?

Spidey66 · 26/04/2023 13:02

Neededanewuserhandle · 26/04/2023 12:43

MNHQ - time for a separate section for the rabid dog haters please.

I'll second that! There's at least 3 threads a week!

Yes, I have a dog, who I take to the pub, on public transport or into those shops I think are appropriate, so pet shops or animal charity shops. I don't take her into cafes, restaurants, food shops etc. I know Wilkos is dog friendly but our local one is in a shopping centre that you're not allowed dogs in, so I've never taken her in there even if I wanted . She's a very well behaved dog, and in fact other customers/passengers etc have only become aware of her as we're leaving.

On the rare occasion I take her to the shops (mainly on holiday) it's me and my husband together so one of us stays outside with her.

She got the Dog of the Month Award on Instagram in one pub we took her too :prouddogmum:

Wiennetta · 26/04/2023 13:03

SliceOfCakeCupOfTea · 26/04/2023 12:56

Well exactly. Some people don't mind, so why shouldn't business owners be allowed to decide if they're going to allow dogs or not? Why automatically ban it to appeal to the non-dog lovers?

Business owners are the ones who will suffer if they find their profits are dropping by allowing dogs. The risk is theirs. It is up to people to check if dogs are allowed or not and make their decision based on this.

Exactly what hygiene concerns do you have? Dogs run around on the floor, but I don’t tend to lick the floor or eat off it. Also do you really think dog paws are less clean than people’s shoes?

Roughashouses · 26/04/2023 13:03

Is there a crew of mumsnetters on rotation for starting threads on dogs?

TomatoSandwiches · 26/04/2023 13:03

I love dogs and don't mind well behaved ones in most places however I find a lot of them don't have responsible owners that have trained them well enough to behave in public let alone a cafe or shopping centre.

LaLoba · 26/04/2023 13:04

CrescentstarMoon · 26/04/2023 12:28

Dd was just walking past holding it and the last but fell from the wrapper it wasn’t even on purpose and the dog was so quick !!!

I wonder how many people (including the cafe owners) were irritated by your child wandering around dropping food? Personally I see it as my responsibility to train my dog to drop on command, and wouldn’t take him to a cafe, but I wouldn’t appreciate a toddler bimbling around dropping food on the floor, and would consider her a trip hazard. Perhaps controlling your child will lead to less confrontation?

Thesharkradar · 26/04/2023 13:05

So the thing you need to do is ask if they are a dog free zone, and on hearing a negative, tell them that's a shame as you will now go elsewhere. If enough people do that, the business will recalculate who they will make most money from
^
This!
people who want to be dog-free need to start being as entitled as the dog-idiotics☝🏻

SliceOfCakeCupOfTea · 26/04/2023 13:05

Wiennetta · 26/04/2023 13:03

Exactly what hygiene concerns do you have? Dogs run around on the floor, but I don’t tend to lick the floor or eat off it. Also do you really think dog paws are less clean than people’s shoes?

I never said I had any hygiene concerns Confused

I was saying that yes there are two camps of people here but that the non-dog lovers shouldn't automatically trump the dog-lovers and ultimately, it's down to the business.

Anamechangeisnotjustforchristmas · 26/04/2023 13:05

CrescentstarMoon · 26/04/2023 12:20

I had someone have a massive go at me last week when I was out with my toddler . She dropped the last of her chocolate bar on the floor in the cafe and a dog hoovered it up - the owner went mad saying I should have been more aware of dd dropping it and how her dog will have to go to the vets and asking for my details !!!! It was about half a small bar I told her it’s the risk she takes going to an establishment serving food

What an absolute idiot. She should teach her dog the leave command.

hattie43 · 26/04/2023 13:06

The more places they are allowed the better but owners have to be responsible. No one wants a Great Dane at the table but in shops fine and pubs , coffee shops small dogs under tables. More and more people have dogs and if businesses want our customer they have to allow dogs .

aliloandabanana · 26/04/2023 13:07

What puzzles me is that shops and cafes must have had a reason for not letting in dogs previously, so what has changed? Surely it was for hygiene and food safety reasons that they weren't allowed in places where people were eating. I don't mind dogs but I don't understand why they need to be in shops and restaurants.

Timeforachangeisitnot · 26/04/2023 13:07

I love dogs, I have 2 labs.
They don’t come to cafes or restaurants with me ( other than outside areas and rarely that) , they would get bored coming clothes shopping with me.

They want to run around in the woods, on the (appropriate ) beach, up a hill, in a river. They are loved members of my family, and they are treated according to their needs - as dogs.