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Someone's taken credit for anonymous treat!

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Monstersinked · 22/04/2023 10:56

Quick silly one but not sure what to do.

Friend has had a hard time so I've sent them a cream tea type surprise treat. Left the card anonymous but she finds it difficult to receive without reciprocating and I wanted her to have something just for her with no strings, to cheer her up.

She posts it on social media, another Friend (I don't know) comments, saying enjoy, glad you like, you deserve it type thing

My friend says ahhhh was it you, youre amazing

Other friend says wink wink it's anonymous so I guess you'll never know

Now, to me there alluding it was then. Taking all the bloody credit. I know I didn't send it for credit or even thanks but I'm a little pissed off!

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WingsofRain · 08/12/2024 10:01

I don’t even like scones and I’m definitely enthusiastic about an update!

Monstersinked · 08/12/2024 10:06

So hello again!
So a quick recap. Well what I can remember (forgive me if I miss anything but really can’t reread the whole thing)
⁃ I sent my friend a cream tea anonymously
⁃ She put it on the book of faces and thanked the sender
⁃ Her work friend (cheeky fucker or cf) STRONGLY alluded to her being the sender
⁃ cf got lots of praise and even got tagged in the original post and the cafe post
⁃ I told friend it was me who sent it
⁃ Cf backtracked and told friend it wasn’t her but never confirmed this on Facebook
⁃ This thread then went on to be a love letter to cream teas and related puddings and it thoroughly made my day.

One and a half year on
⁃ my friend never addressed cream tea gate with CF
⁃ Cf has since sent cream teas from said cafe to 3 work colleagues when they’ve had an operation/bereavement.
⁃ Friend shared the cream tea post as a memory and I did eventually get the limelight I thought I wasn’t seeking
⁃ my friend and I now have cream teas dates every 3 months during which she updates me on CF behaviour at work which I must say is CRAZY. We call our cream tea dates CF cream tea tea.. As in gossip about CFs exploits.

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FuckoffeeBeforeCoffee · 08/12/2024 10:12

We're going to need more examples of her behaviour...

Monstersinked · 08/12/2024 10:14

FuckoffeeBeforeCoffee · 08/12/2024 10:12

We're going to need more examples of her behaviour...

I thought as much. I've just asked my friend what I can share without it being too outing. I'm still convinced cf is a mumsnetter!

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MrsBeesBakedBeans · 08/12/2024 10:16

Monstersinked · 08/12/2024 10:14

I thought as much. I've just asked my friend what I can share without it being too outing. I'm still convinced cf is a mumsnetter!

Wondering how many CF cream tea claimers there are out there....

hazelnutvanillalatte · 08/12/2024 10:18

How did your friend give you your credit on the memory post?? Was there a reaction?

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 08/12/2024 10:21

Twinedpeaks · 22/04/2023 11:15

But the other friend hasn't said they've sent one?

No, she just let it be inferred.

Monstersinked · 08/12/2024 10:29

hazelnutvanillalatte · 08/12/2024 10:18

How did your friend give you your credit on the memory post?? Was there a reaction?

She tagged me and said "the start of our cream tea dates" or something along those lines. CF hearted that too 🤣

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Oramorph · 08/12/2024 10:29

So far, so invested!

Didsomeonesaydogs · 08/12/2024 10:40

@Monstersinked We need more info before this thread runs out of space!

IHateLegDay · 08/12/2024 10:42

I'm so glad you're back with updates 😂💖

Monstersinked · 08/12/2024 10:55

So I've agreed with my friend that I won't share anything that relates to her actual work. That feels a bit wrong.

But here's a couple of the weird colleague related things she's been known to do- seems to fit in more with this thread!

  • Their admin lady has a special OH chair. Set a certain way. CF will sit in it and lower it by 1 bar, to see if admin lady notices.
  • they all take it in turns to buy refreshments. CF buys decaf coffee as it's cheaper but doesn't tell anyone. My friend only drinks tea so CF felt safe to disclose this to her.
  • Will never contribute to collections but will instead send her own gifts to the recipient. Hence the 3 cream tea gifts
  • leaves notes for the (contracted) cleaners telling them areas to concentrate on (not her job role).
Apparently they are like a page long.
  • Every time they have an office fuddle she will bring in her leftovers. As in dinner left overs, rearranged in a sort of bubble and squeak type way.
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Monstersinked · 08/12/2024 11:06

Also. Back tracking to the cream tea. Can I alert you all to this:

Someone's taken credit for anonymous treat!
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Catmummyof2 · 08/12/2024 12:11

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Oramorph · 09/12/2024 17:29

Yep your CF sounds…. Tight!

Custard things look great.

Worriedmotheroftwo · 09/12/2024 17:57

I love that she's been sending cream teas to people... for real this time 😅

DrFoxtrot · 14/02/2025 13:33

I'm resurrecting this as one of my favourite threads ever and I've just read it again 😂😂

Brilliant comments

'Wagatha Creamtea'
'Enormous hide'
'Butter, then jam, then cream. Fight me' 😂
'Devon is wrong'

Absolutely hilarious. This should be in Classics.

Ang69 · 14/02/2025 13:39

DrFoxtrot · 14/02/2025 13:33

I'm resurrecting this as one of my favourite threads ever and I've just read it again 😂😂

Brilliant comments

'Wagatha Creamtea'
'Enormous hide'
'Butter, then jam, then cream. Fight me' 😂
'Devon is wrong'

Absolutely hilarious. This should be in Classics.

Another vote for Classics!! I love rereading brilliant threads like this one.

Sorry though, jam sits on top of cream, I'm right, you are wrong 😂

Ang69 · 14/02/2025 13:41

Would still eat it your way if offered though Dr Fox, I try to be open to these things!!

LadyOfTheCanyon · 15/02/2025 07:35

Devon till I die.

If you were to take cream out of the equation, you'd put jam on top of butter. Cream is the butter of a cream tea, therefore jam goes on top.

I didn't realise till I wrote this that it's the hill I'm prepared to die on.

Blondeshavemorefun · 15/02/2025 07:43

LadyOfTheCanyon · 15/02/2025 07:35

Devon till I die.

If you were to take cream out of the equation, you'd put jam on top of butter. Cream is the butter of a cream tea, therefore jam goes on top.

I didn't realise till I wrote this that it's the hill I'm prepared to die on.

I think I wrote the same @LadyOfTheCanyon

butter is cream. So it’s cream then jam

CostelloJones · 15/02/2025 07:51

@DrFoxtrot thank you for resurrecting this because I just had a lovely 30 mins reading the whole thing 😂 needs to be a classic.

Sherlock Scones!

TheDork · 15/02/2025 07:52

OneFrenchEgg · 22/04/2023 12:00

Don't send anonymous stuff if you want credit for it.

At last. A sensible response.

LadyOfTheCanyon · 15/02/2025 07:58

@Blondeshavemorefun

Solidarity!

Noshowlomo · 15/02/2025 09:35

God I want a cream tea