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To think the media over exaggerate trans women and refugees?

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SleepDreamThinkHuge · 21/04/2023 09:24

I have noticed in the media when trans women and refugees do crimes it is highlighted to such an extent compared to if say men commit rapes. When it is a trans women raping someone it leads to "women being unsafe" and the funny thing is a lot of people doing this faux outrage and pretending they care about women is from some men. It is strange when you hear things like "as a father or mother I worry for my child's safety they are not safe." Ok so what about when most sexual attacks are committed by cis men? You never heard them protest about that.

It is the same with refugees you only hear the bad stories "oh he is gaining the system" "oh a lot of these refugees are rapists." There is no middle ground in both of these issues. Rape/sexual assault gaining the system is done by a minority of all people (black, Asian, White etc..) But when it is refugees or trans men doing crime it is highlighted to such as extent to which other groups that do the same crime e.g. white Brits is less highlighted and outrage is not as much.

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StepAwayFromTheBiscuitJar · 24/04/2023 16:01

Helleofabore · 24/04/2023 14:24

damn

"There is plenty of evidence readily available to anyone who looks that shows that 'white', 'middle class', 'not focused on other feminist issues' are all false."

There is plenty of evidence readily available to anyone who looks that shows that 'white', 'middle class', 'not focused on other feminist issues' are all falsely used to detract from the wide range of women involved and the work they do.

And yet, it is very clear that a high % of the high profile UK cases that feminists have been involved in : Keira Bell, Allison Bailey, Sonia Appleby, Maya Forstater and Raquel Rosario Sanchez are not 'white' 'middle class' women. It really has become a lazy tactic.

But I asked for evidence of the thousands of sexual assaults. If it's not there then surely you have to concede that you're not focusing on the issue which is having the biggest material effect on women, which is of course something you're free to do.

lifeturnsonadime · 24/04/2023 16:08

We continually hear how men in women's spaces increases the possibility of sexual assault. You'd think that people so concerned about this issue would be alarmed about the thousands of sexual assaults that are currently happening/have happened (not might happen).

But we know assaults have happened. Katy Dolotowski assaulted girls in a Morrisons toilet. We also know that some transwomen have used public toilets to masturbate because they post videos online about it. We know that some males have gone into toilets to plant cameras and to effectively upskirt, so we KNOW all of these things but that's not enough to say NO? How many assaults and fetish videos are enough for us to have the right to say this is not acceptable and we deserve single sex spaces for both dignity and safety?

Also, as you are a feminist, you are no doubt aware of of the urinary leash that you are imposing on the women who are unable to use public toilets where men might be for religious or other reasons, one of those is my daughter who has mental health reasons. So what you are saying is that your feminism doesn't extend to those women, it puts the males who want to be in those spaces first.

This is about consent. Women were not asked if they were happy for males to be in our spaces, they just went ahead and did it anyway. No doubt exercising that male privilege that they were born with.

lifeturnsonadime · 24/04/2023 16:09

StepAwayFromTheBiscuitJar · 24/04/2023 16:01

But I asked for evidence of the thousands of sexual assaults. If it's not there then surely you have to concede that you're not focusing on the issue which is having the biggest material effect on women, which is of course something you're free to do.

How dare you say putting women on a urinary leash in this country in 2023 is not a big enough issue.

Fucking disgusting.

StepAwayFromTheBiscuitJar · 24/04/2023 16:12

lifeturnsonadime · 24/04/2023 16:09

How dare you say putting women on a urinary leash in this country in 2023 is not a big enough issue.

Fucking disgusting.

Um, please find where I said that. 🙄

Typical mumsnet feminist tactic of misquoting people to shut down discourse you don't like.

I've already that I see the problems with the trans thing. However, 1200 women being sexually assaulted in one night is a bigger problem than worrying about the miniscule chance of seeing a bloke in the toilets.

StepAwayFromTheBiscuitJar · 24/04/2023 16:13

How dare you ignore widespread sexual assault and try to silence women speaking out about it.

lifeturnsonadime · 24/04/2023 16:30

StepAwayFromTheBiscuitJar · 24/04/2023 16:13

How dare you ignore widespread sexual assault and try to silence women speaking out about it.

I am more than happy to engage in discourse on sexual assault on women, how the fuck do you know what campaigns my feminism focuses on. I'm a rape survivor.

I ALSO think that males have no place in women's toilets and the fact that women with religious beliefs and girls like my daughter are effectively unable to go out in public without organising to get in home in time to use the toilet because some males have decided to impose themselves is fucking disgusting and worth fighting for TOO.

Too bad your 'feminism' doesn't centre ALL females.

lifeturnsonadime · 24/04/2023 16:34

StepAwayFromTheBiscuitJar · 24/04/2023 16:12

Um, please find where I said that. 🙄

Typical mumsnet feminist tactic of misquoting people to shut down discourse you don't like.

I've already that I see the problems with the trans thing. However, 1200 women being sexually assaulted in one night is a bigger problem than worrying about the miniscule chance of seeing a bloke in the toilets.

You have implied it all over this thread.

The implication being that because there are other pressing issues women should STFU about the fact that males have made their way into women's only spaces without consent.

The other implication being that unless 'thousands' of women are assaulted in those spaces there is no issue right?

Tell that to those young girls who were sexually assaulted in the women's toilets in Morrisons by this trans woman who then was incarcerated in a woman's prison with further access to vulnerable women.

https://www.scottishdailyexpress.co.uk/news/scottish-news/trans-woman-battered-male-inmate-28511707

Trans woman battered male inmate in Scots jail... and is now in women's prison

Paedophile Katie Dolatowski was serving a sentence for assault alongside male prisoners in Polmont YOI despite identifying as a woman when she beat up a fellow inmate in the canteen

https://www.scottishdailyexpress.co.uk/news/scottish-news/trans-woman-battered-male-inmate-28511707

Helleofabore · 24/04/2023 16:40

StepAwayFromTheBiscuitJar · 24/04/2023 16:01

But I asked for evidence of the thousands of sexual assaults. If it's not there then surely you have to concede that you're not focusing on the issue which is having the biggest material effect on women, which is of course something you're free to do.

Did you provide UK stats of women’s and children’s sexual assaults and rapes being committed by the people you are talking about? No?

This is rather a hypocritical post then.

Also, not one of us is shaming you for having a different primary focus, yet you are attempting to shame others for not sharing your focus.

Plus, you are using an event that was absolutely horrific, and well discussed when it happened to make women with different priorities shamed because it is not still being discussed and focused on as an event. You have provided no ‘concrete evidence’ yourself, yet are demanding it of others to prove our focus is legitimate in your opinion.

It is YOUR opinion that the rape and sexual assault of women by immigrant men is “having the biggest material effect on women”.

You forget that the rape and sexual assault on women and children by ALL males is a primary focus of most feminists. Why do you believe that feminists are not covering this?

So again, where is your own campaign that we can give you some support on? Haven’t got one?

go start one and Come and tell us, we can support it too!

Or are you just here to shame women after all?

Helleofabore · 24/04/2023 17:46

Maybe this will move the conversation on. I am going to plop these down and people can analyse them to their hearts content. I am off to work and will check back tomorrow, or late tonight.

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6165364/

Prevalence of Sexual Violence in Migrants, Applicants for International Protection, and Refugees in Europe: A Critical Interpretive Synthesis of the Evidence

Published online 2018 Sep 11

Sexual violence experiences in MARs living in Europe is widespread, yet representative studies providing a solid data base are lacking. Future research should start with a clear definition of the population and acts of SV in order to generate high-quality and comparable data. Given the necessity of acknowledging the specific experiences related to different migratory stages and motivations, mixed-method research using interviewers trained in cultural and linguistic skills should be applied to fully grasp the complex manifestations of SV in MARs.

Ultimately, the goal of prevalence studies is to have a clear view on the magnitude of the problem of SV in MARs in order to inform policymakers in their decision-making process regarding actions to improve preventive measures and the allocation of sufficient resources to care programs for both victims of SV and assailants. Although MARs are considered a specific minority group, they still are a subgroup of the general population and should thus be entitled to any general strategy to eliminate the negative consequences of SV and the victimization experience itself. In order to identify specific vulnerabilities and consequences of SV related to legal status or migratory history, comparison with the general population is necessary.

Therefore, SV prevalence studies should be designed in such a way that they are applicable to representative samples from both the general population and specific subpopulations such as MARs, taking the research associated with hard-to-reach subgroups into consideration and allowing for comparisons of the findings between different populations.

Here is a FOI letter June 2014:

https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/government/uploads/system/uploads/attachment_data/file/324097/number-males-rape-muslim.doc

You requested the following information from the Ministry of Justice (MoJ):

For future discussions and potential programme-making we would like to investigate reports that 60% of males in prison convicted of rape are Muslims. Please can you give us the proper stats for these?

Your request has been handled under the Freedom of Information Act 2000 (FOIA) and I can confirm that the MoJ holds information that you have asked for and it is provided below.

Sexual offences are traumatising crimes which ruin lives. Tough new sentences are available for those who commit these dreadful crimes - and under this Government sex offenders are more likely to go to prison and for longer. We recently introduced a new mandatory life sentence for people convicted of a second very serious sexual or violent crime and introduced tough new Extended Determinate Sentence which will ensure dangerous offenders spend long periods in prison and are supervised for long periods after their release.

As at 31 March 2014, the latest point in time for which data is available for public use, the male prison population in England and Wales for all offenders serving immediate custodial sentence for rape was 5,682. Of this, there were 676 offenders who self-declared their religion as Muslim (12% of the total).

If anyone has an updated version, that would be great.

I read quickly something else that is really very concerning and could be discussed in view of 'rape' as it relates to sex trafficking in the UK. An estimate of between 4 - 10K people at any one time. But I haven't got time to go back and find that source to check it.

Step are you focused on this?

Because of course, many many feminists are focused on all rape and sexual assault. AND caring for sex trafficking victims and for prostitutes in general.

You see, I am not quite sure what you think the outcome of focusing on one group of males will achieve? perhaps you can explain more thoroughly why that one group should be 'the main focus' and not the huge numbers of other males. And the huge number of unreported rapes and the absolutely dismal prosecution numbers.

What is it that you hope to achieve with your focus?

Also, I have not located sex crimes by religion and by immigration status or resident status or country of birth stats for the UK .... So, StepAwayFromTheBiscuitJar after your demands for stats from women who have a different priority to you, do you have those stats that would show that this is “having the biggest material effect on women”.

To be clear, you are not talking about rape and sexual assault in general, but from a particular group of men. That we should be focused on.

Prevalence of Sexual Violence in Migrants, Applicants for International Protection, and Refugees in Europe: A Critical Interpretive Synthesis of the Evidence

(1) Background: Sexual violence (SV) is a major public health problem, with negative socio-economic, physical, mental, sexual, and reproductive health consequences. Migrants, applicants for international protection, and refugees (MARs) are vulnerable ....

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6165364/

literalviolence · 24/04/2023 22:02

StepAwayFromTheBiscuitJar · 24/04/2023 16:12

Um, please find where I said that. 🙄

Typical mumsnet feminist tactic of misquoting people to shut down discourse you don't like.

I've already that I see the problems with the trans thing. However, 1200 women being sexually assaulted in one night is a bigger problem than worrying about the miniscule chance of seeing a bloke in the toilets.

If that's what you think the trans issue is all about, you've not been listening enough. In this day and age surely you don't need people to outline what the actual concerns are? Surely?

StepAwayFromTheBiscuitJar · 24/04/2023 23:03

You see, I am not quite sure what you think the outcome of focusing on one group of males will achieve? perhaps you can explain more thoroughly why that one group should be 'the main focus' and not the huge numbers of other males.

Well, thread is about refugees and trans people. The immigration element has been an afterthought in the discussion, although the statistics indicate that in terms of actual sexual crimes it's been far more of an issue over the past decade and one which is likely to get worse. That's my point. I'm not saying the trans debate should be ignored but at the moment the immigration/sexual assault relationship hardly gets a mention.

Helleofabore · 24/04/2023 23:08

StepAwayFromTheBiscuitJar · 24/04/2023 23:03

You see, I am not quite sure what you think the outcome of focusing on one group of males will achieve? perhaps you can explain more thoroughly why that one group should be 'the main focus' and not the huge numbers of other males.

Well, thread is about refugees and trans people. The immigration element has been an afterthought in the discussion, although the statistics indicate that in terms of actual sexual crimes it's been far more of an issue over the past decade and one which is likely to get worse. That's my point. I'm not saying the trans debate should be ignored but at the moment the immigration/sexual assault relationship hardly gets a mention.

And where are your stats that say it is as great a threat in the UK as “having the biggest material effect on women”.

So much so that feminists should be making it the absolute priority in your mind. And where is your own campaign so that we can contribute?

StepAwayFromTheBiscuitJar · 25/04/2023 06:01

Helleofabore · 24/04/2023 23:08

And where are your stats that say it is as great a threat in the UK as “having the biggest material effect on women”.

So much so that feminists should be making it the absolute priority in your mind. And where is your own campaign so that we can contribute?

You really think our government/police are going to release these stats when they won't even act against widespread grooming gangs for fear of offending the ethnic minorities responsible?

I'm talking about Europe in general. The figures have risen in literally every country for which we have the available data. You'd have to be extremely naive to believe we are somehow the one exception.

Helleofabore · 25/04/2023 08:03

StepAwayFromTheBiscuitJar · 25/04/2023 06:01

You really think our government/police are going to release these stats when they won't even act against widespread grooming gangs for fear of offending the ethnic minorities responsible?

I'm talking about Europe in general. The figures have risen in literally every country for which we have the available data. You'd have to be extremely naive to believe we are somehow the one exception.

I am pointing out that you seem to be rather hypocritical here.

And I also note you have not suggested once what feminists should be doing that they are not doing. You have posted post after post about how this is the biggest issue. You said it was “having the biggest material effect on women”. Based on what? I am not denying it is a significant issue, but I do disagree with you that it is the biggest issue and most importantly, I disagree that feminists are not doing something about it.

Just like feminists are working to stop the exploitation of women’s bodies through international sex trafficking and surrogacy. You talk about mass rape events, yet do the sex trafficked women not need attention? when the numbers of those raped women could be up to 10k in the UK at any one time? That is thousands of women being raped every day in the sex trade. And they are coming in as refugees too.

If you remember, MN has had many discussions about the Albanian women being trafficked as refugees.

You have posted on the feminist board before, you must be fully aware how scarce the data YOU are demanding is, yet here you are demanding it. It seems only to be to shame others for not prioritising something that you also have not seemed to have done any campaigning about. Otherwise you would have answered the comments to that effect.

The work about gender is just part of the work that feminists are doing every day in the UK. You must know that. You post on the Sex and Gender board, a board hived off for that very issue, and then you complain that that is the focus. Nothing new there. Many posters do it because they disagree with the topic being allowed at all on this forum.

You posted how it was a white and middle class movement fighting gender, which is demonstrably wrong and it also doesn’t consider the harm done to women who are vocal about this topic. It is a propaganda tactic used by those who are heavily invested in changing laws and policies to suit themselves leaving women and children open to harm. Yet you used it here on this thread.

I think literal is right. For all the time you have posted on the feminist boards, you don’t seem to have a grasp of the issue and you don’t seem to have understood why some women have prioritised it above other issues.

As I mentioned, one reason is because it is their own children being harmed. It is something where something can be done by them directly with their schools, with the care that they seek for their children, with their children’s sporting teams and clubs, and with organisations providing single sex spaces. There are immediate gains to be made just by direct parental action in view of the lack of clear legislation. Just as there are immediate gains to be made by direct action by any woman for those instances.

It is also something where immediate gains can be made through tightening legal language. Hence feminists are very vocal
and talking about this because once people read their words, once people listen they understand and even people who are not feminists actively campaigning can have an effect.

And immediate action through preventing poor law being made.

As I said, it will take years to change a poorly made law back, how many additional women and children are acceptable collateral for not fighting those laws now?

The immediacy is not the same with the issue you wish to prioritise above others. It cannot be positively impacted immediately by law changes. Because the laws already exist. It could be said to improve general deterrents through dramatically improved prosecution. And there are whole feminist organisations set up and working towards reducing VAWAG, domestic abuse, rape and sexual assault. Have you mentioned those? At all? Or do you think no feminists, no posters on this forum are involved in those?

I asked you what what you think the outcome of focusing on one group of males will achieve. You didn’t really give an answer. You just repeated we should be focused on it, repeated the stats (you have now admitted you have relied on statistics from other countries and the author you mentioned acknowledges just how unreliable stats around this are) and didn’t mention what the outcome would look like.

Is it no refugees? Is that what you propose? Is it setting up support within communities with high proportions of the specific group you discuss to enact change within, as has been and is continuing to be done and sponsored by local governments?

What? What outcome is if you want? Will legalisative changes help? Or is it just more discussion? You think the answer to the issue you are talking about is more discussion?

Whereas more discussion about how the prioritisation of gender over sex does have an immediate impact because people vote, people start writing and asking organisations they deal with questions that make changes on a organisation by organisation basis. Because that is how this issue is resolved because it is not clear cut.

Because as a movement it doesn’t have universal support. It doesn’t have local government support.

Rape and sexual assault has clear rejection amongst the majority of the UK population. Whether it is by the group you target or any male, the fight against VAWAG has universal support organisations and its own discussions happening every single day. It has vigils in my area monthly for instance.

The discussion around women and children’s needs and trans people’s needs is not clear cut. It is not just about rape and sexual assault which you seem to have tried to limit it to. That is a common tactic too, limiting the discussion to toilets to trivialise it.

It impacts health care and support, education, prison, social groups, employment, sport, political groups, recreation, just off the top of my head.

And you wonder why the discussions are many. It reflects the wide ranging nature of the impacts on everyday life.

And it is just one issue feminists work on in real life.

AdamRyan · 25/04/2023 08:10

StepAwayFromTheBiscuitJar · 25/04/2023 06:01

You really think our government/police are going to release these stats when they won't even act against widespread grooming gangs for fear of offending the ethnic minorities responsible?

I'm talking about Europe in general. The figures have risen in literally every country for which we have the available data. You'd have to be extremely naive to believe we are somehow the one exception.

Hahaha
That's hilarious
If you don't have the evidence, then it's your opinion and not fact. You sound quite racist tbh.

I agree with hellabore, rape and sexual assault generally are the biggest threat to women, not migrant men.

If we had effective ways of dealing with rapists that would also deal with migrant rapists.

angiec89 · 25/04/2023 08:13

Completely agree!!!!

Baldieheid · 25/04/2023 08:26

I don't see ot as individual battles. Its all interlinked. We can't try to deal with one without having an impact on the others.

And vice versa. The attitudes and behaviours of some migrants DO put women at risk.

Which migrants?

Male ones.

We need action on ALL males who abuse women, be they a migrant or refugee from a war torn country, or be they a UK citizen who screams abuse and throws punches at women who refuse to call him "she", or a sexual attacker and child molester who thinks they can hide behind the skirts of "trans".

The link is males. And their female cheerleaders and handmaiden, those willing to throw others under the wheels.

Helleofabore · 25/04/2023 08:46

StepAwayFromTheBiscuitJar · 25/04/2023 06:01

You really think our government/police are going to release these stats when they won't even act against widespread grooming gangs for fear of offending the ethnic minorities responsible?

I'm talking about Europe in general. The figures have risen in literally every country for which we have the available data. You'd have to be extremely naive to believe we are somehow the one exception.

Did you see above that through an FOI request in 2014 it was shown that 12% were Muslim males?

Why don’t you do an FOI request and ask for an updated statistic?

In the meantime, feminists will continue to work on all VAWAG. Because with the growing use of porn, the lowered sexual boundaries due numerous issues, the lowered prosecution rate meaning rape has become almost consequence free, the huge sex trafficking issues, the easier access to victims, and even the thrill of accessing victims in support groups as an added extra layer, there is so much to get on with without focusing on on group of male people specifically as a feminist collective effort against violence against women and children. It requires both focus on the whole and on the specifics.

Is that ok with you?

StepAwayFromTheBiscuitJar · 25/04/2023 18:23

Helleofabore · 25/04/2023 08:03

I am pointing out that you seem to be rather hypocritical here.

And I also note you have not suggested once what feminists should be doing that they are not doing. You have posted post after post about how this is the biggest issue. You said it was “having the biggest material effect on women”. Based on what? I am not denying it is a significant issue, but I do disagree with you that it is the biggest issue and most importantly, I disagree that feminists are not doing something about it.

Just like feminists are working to stop the exploitation of women’s bodies through international sex trafficking and surrogacy. You talk about mass rape events, yet do the sex trafficked women not need attention? when the numbers of those raped women could be up to 10k in the UK at any one time? That is thousands of women being raped every day in the sex trade. And they are coming in as refugees too.

If you remember, MN has had many discussions about the Albanian women being trafficked as refugees.

You have posted on the feminist board before, you must be fully aware how scarce the data YOU are demanding is, yet here you are demanding it. It seems only to be to shame others for not prioritising something that you also have not seemed to have done any campaigning about. Otherwise you would have answered the comments to that effect.

The work about gender is just part of the work that feminists are doing every day in the UK. You must know that. You post on the Sex and Gender board, a board hived off for that very issue, and then you complain that that is the focus. Nothing new there. Many posters do it because they disagree with the topic being allowed at all on this forum.

You posted how it was a white and middle class movement fighting gender, which is demonstrably wrong and it also doesn’t consider the harm done to women who are vocal about this topic. It is a propaganda tactic used by those who are heavily invested in changing laws and policies to suit themselves leaving women and children open to harm. Yet you used it here on this thread.

I think literal is right. For all the time you have posted on the feminist boards, you don’t seem to have a grasp of the issue and you don’t seem to have understood why some women have prioritised it above other issues.

As I mentioned, one reason is because it is their own children being harmed. It is something where something can be done by them directly with their schools, with the care that they seek for their children, with their children’s sporting teams and clubs, and with organisations providing single sex spaces. There are immediate gains to be made just by direct parental action in view of the lack of clear legislation. Just as there are immediate gains to be made by direct action by any woman for those instances.

It is also something where immediate gains can be made through tightening legal language. Hence feminists are very vocal
and talking about this because once people read their words, once people listen they understand and even people who are not feminists actively campaigning can have an effect.

And immediate action through preventing poor law being made.

As I said, it will take years to change a poorly made law back, how many additional women and children are acceptable collateral for not fighting those laws now?

The immediacy is not the same with the issue you wish to prioritise above others. It cannot be positively impacted immediately by law changes. Because the laws already exist. It could be said to improve general deterrents through dramatically improved prosecution. And there are whole feminist organisations set up and working towards reducing VAWAG, domestic abuse, rape and sexual assault. Have you mentioned those? At all? Or do you think no feminists, no posters on this forum are involved in those?

I asked you what what you think the outcome of focusing on one group of males will achieve. You didn’t really give an answer. You just repeated we should be focused on it, repeated the stats (you have now admitted you have relied on statistics from other countries and the author you mentioned acknowledges just how unreliable stats around this are) and didn’t mention what the outcome would look like.

Is it no refugees? Is that what you propose? Is it setting up support within communities with high proportions of the specific group you discuss to enact change within, as has been and is continuing to be done and sponsored by local governments?

What? What outcome is if you want? Will legalisative changes help? Or is it just more discussion? You think the answer to the issue you are talking about is more discussion?

Whereas more discussion about how the prioritisation of gender over sex does have an immediate impact because people vote, people start writing and asking organisations they deal with questions that make changes on a organisation by organisation basis. Because that is how this issue is resolved because it is not clear cut.

Because as a movement it doesn’t have universal support. It doesn’t have local government support.

Rape and sexual assault has clear rejection amongst the majority of the UK population. Whether it is by the group you target or any male, the fight against VAWAG has universal support organisations and its own discussions happening every single day. It has vigils in my area monthly for instance.

The discussion around women and children’s needs and trans people’s needs is not clear cut. It is not just about rape and sexual assault which you seem to have tried to limit it to. That is a common tactic too, limiting the discussion to toilets to trivialise it.

It impacts health care and support, education, prison, social groups, employment, sport, political groups, recreation, just off the top of my head.

And you wonder why the discussions are many. It reflects the wide ranging nature of the impacts on everyday life.

And it is just one issue feminists work on in real life.

Lots of word salad but answer me a simple question. Do you think more European women have been sexually assaulted/raped by immigrants from patriarchal cultures or as a result of the whole trans/self ID situation?

StepAwayFromTheBiscuitJar · 25/04/2023 18:30

AdamRyan · 25/04/2023 08:10

Hahaha
That's hilarious
If you don't have the evidence, then it's your opinion and not fact. You sound quite racist tbh.

I agree with hellabore, rape and sexual assault generally are the biggest threat to women, not migrant men.

If we had effective ways of dealing with rapists that would also deal with migrant rapists.

I've provided plenty of evidence of large increases in sexual assault figures in Europe. Do you think that the same demographic will magically start behaving differently in the UK to how they do in every other European country?

Racist? Hahaha. I was actually having a BBQ on Sunday with my workmate to celebrate Eid. I don't care about race, just about patriarchal cultures that encourage abuse of women. And BTW Islam isn't an ethnicity in case you were confused.

If I'm racist then are you a transphobe for also discussing the impact on women's welfare caused my marginalised minorities.

Helleofabore · 25/04/2023 18:50

StepAwayFromTheBiscuitJar · 25/04/2023 18:30

I've provided plenty of evidence of large increases in sexual assault figures in Europe. Do you think that the same demographic will magically start behaving differently in the UK to how they do in every other European country?

Racist? Hahaha. I was actually having a BBQ on Sunday with my workmate to celebrate Eid. I don't care about race, just about patriarchal cultures that encourage abuse of women. And BTW Islam isn't an ethnicity in case you were confused.

If I'm racist then are you a transphobe for also discussing the impact on women's welfare caused my marginalised minorities.

Have you found the original sources of the information you have ‘provided’. I have not seen it linked up.

did I miss it?

AdamRyan · 25/04/2023 19:18

StepAwayFromTheBiscuitJar · 25/04/2023 18:30

I've provided plenty of evidence of large increases in sexual assault figures in Europe. Do you think that the same demographic will magically start behaving differently in the UK to how they do in every other European country?

Racist? Hahaha. I was actually having a BBQ on Sunday with my workmate to celebrate Eid. I don't care about race, just about patriarchal cultures that encourage abuse of women. And BTW Islam isn't an ethnicity in case you were confused.

If I'm racist then are you a transphobe for also discussing the impact on women's welfare caused my marginalised minorities.

I get called a transphobe all the time, am confident in my opinions, that they are mainstream and not transphobic so water off a ducks back.

There are 2 billion Muslims in the world, that's 1/4 of the global population. Its ridiculous to imply Muslims are any worse than any other religion for abuse of women.

If you are talking about men from particular countries when you say "patriarchal cultures" then yes, you are being racist.

Most sexual assaults and violence against women in this country are committed by white males. Male violence is the problem.

If we dealt effectively with rape and sexual violence, stopped victim blaming and started applying safeguarding rules better that would have a much bigger positive effect on women's safety than solely targeting one particular group.

AdamRyan · 25/04/2023 19:23

If I'm racist then are you a transphobe for also discussing the impact on women's welfare caused my marginalised minorities.
Also, as you are well aware the impact on women's welfare is from allowing "women" to incorporate some males. It's not equivalent in any way to implying brown males are more sexually violent.

Male violence includes violence committed by all shades of males and males identifying as women

Definition of woman, in my opinion, does not include males who identify as women. No matter if they are marginalised or of they are Caitlyn Jenner

AdamRyan · 25/04/2023 19:24

I'm actually finding your position quite incoherent so I'm going to back away from this

literalviolence · 25/04/2023 20:53

StepAwayFromTheBiscuitJar · 25/04/2023 18:23

Lots of word salad but answer me a simple question. Do you think more European women have been sexually assaulted/raped by immigrants from patriarchal cultures or as a result of the whole trans/self ID situation?

The trans self ID thing is the patriarchy.

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