Friend

[Flute56]

There was another thread on this but it was a while ago so I thought I would make a new one. I have this friend who does not really bother with me very much. I do all the phoning and when it was her birthday I went to her house and gave her a present. She kept me at the front door and did not even invite me in. I thought that was pretty rude. I thought at least she would invite me in for a cup of tea considering I travelled quite a way to her house. I dont live that far from her but on that occasion I came from somewehre else. She always gives me a birthday card but I find her a bit secretive. She was not very well a while back but refused to say what the matter was and soemtimes she just says she is out and does not say wehre she has been. I sent her a video to watch as she showed an interest in it and even linked it to her wassap so she could just click on the link and that was 3 weeks ago and she still has not watched it. It makes me think I wasted my time. For my last birthday a year ago she took me out for a meal and paid for it. Big Deal. That was a one off.

Not at all feel fab 😍a good sign if you feel bad that does not make much sense ? Are you ok ?

You feel great so you find someone who needs help and pick on them? Doubtful!

Same could apply to you ? You are doing that you must be very miserable . I didn’t realize was an old thread as I don’t invest in mumsnet all day but responded with quite fair comments and advice . Goodnight I think you are looking for an argument , good luck

Life is v busy! If someone arrives uninvited, of course it's lovely to see them, but unlikely I'd invite them in as often I'm busy with stuff to do! I expect your friend is the same :)

This friends actions all sound fine to me :) I think you should maybe back off a bit OP, in the nicest way 💐

That’s for the best. Have a good evening.

Thanks for this, but clarification is totally meaningless 5 weeks later.

Wow! My profuse apologies! I didn’t notice the date….