Honestly, I do think Remain had plenty of spin of its own via the Chattering Classes.
You can still see it on this thread as 7 years down the line Remainers still can't quite believe the "thickos" won it.
Yes, we'll vote to suit ourselves and yes, we exist in echo chambers where we don't include people who do not share our values in our social circles therefore never have our values and opinions challenged.
The question asked was when is it going to get better, and for a lot of people (presumably the "thickos" who voted Leave) it has.
Unskilled employment (approx 75% of the UK workforce) rises month by month and the National Minimum Wage has risen along with a 10% Universal Credit and Tax Credit up rate. To counter the whataboutery, yes, we're all facing inflation rises and the cost of living impacted by the Ukrainian war, but those still unemployed and those in the squeezed middle are feeling the pinch the most (I am in the latter).
The removal of the obviously disliked Freedom of Movement means that those on the lowest rung can now get a foot on the ladder whereas they had highly skilled competition prior to Brexit.
There were always a few myths that I questioned (in my head, I wouldn't dare say these to my Remainer friends for fear of wrong-think humiliation). Why is voting to remove the Freedom of Movement of a predominantly white workforce racist? Especially when this opens up vacancies that can be filled from non white countries via targeted recruitment. However, as I say, the Remainer slur that this was about Racism was persuasive, and so I too voted for the UK to keep its position of privilege in the EU's predominantly white members club like my value-sharing cohorts. It wasn't hard to convince myself to do this because as someone who is neither wealthy nor poor or competing for Minimum Wage work, I was much better off financially by remaining.
At the time I didn't consider those who might vote Leave, or the real reasons why. I didn't have anyone in my social circles who actually would benefit from leaving and took the mistaken belief that everyone thought as I did, even though Leave voters circumstances were very different to mine.