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It's BOUGHT not BROUGHT

214 replies

emma1103 · 10/04/2023 11:51

Am I being unreasonable to expect people to know the difference?

So often I'm reading about how people brought this bargain, etc. It just really winds me up for some reason.

OP posts:
BCBird · 10/04/2023 13:46

I teach. Repeatedly remind pupils about this. I have a strong ocal regional accent but many of them don't.

80sMum · 10/04/2023 13:46

Crunchyb · 10/04/2023 12:33

When clearly well educated BBC presenters and even some upper middle class people featured on news programmes come out with, ‘I was sat’ rather than, ‘I was sitting’, you know it’s time to give up the fight. I know language evolves but evolution due to widespread poor education is really difficult to swallow.

I agree! I used to work in a school, in an administrative role, and often used to roll my eyes at the appallingly poor level of written and spoken English of most of the teachers.

In staff meetings, teachers used regularly to use phrases such as "please speak to myself or X..." and "me and my GCSE group will be .."

The use of commas instead of full stops and the erroneous use of apostrophes were very commonly occurring mistakes in written communications, such as letters sent to parents. Unfortunately, the writer was usually unaware that they had made a mistake. I can only conclude that they were never corrected at school. I used to wonder what my secondary school English teacher would have said, had I submitted something of the same calibre as these teachers' efforts for a homework assignment. It would, I am fairly sure, have been returned to me with corrections and criticisms written all over it in red ink and I probably would have been asked to rewrite it.

Hotcrossed · 10/04/2023 13:46

the misspelling of
accommodation
diarrhoea
weird
camhs

ApplePippa · 10/04/2023 13:47

ThreeblackCats · 10/04/2023 13:38

Ect rather than etc really grinds my gears. It’s three letters! People are ignorant and low key illiterate. I’ve learned to accept their lack of grammar.

Comments like these can be really upsetting to the dyslexic people in my life. Just think before you post this kind of rubbish.

Hotcrossed · 10/04/2023 13:48

stationery pen
stationary car

AllTheChaos · 10/04/2023 13:49

My DD’s teacher does this, and in fact has a generally poor standard of written English as well as spoken English (despite it being her mother tongue). I find it genuinely shocking in a teacher!

PizzaPastaWine · 10/04/2023 13:49

worraliberty · 10/04/2023 13:10

What they don't realise (or probably do but their need for superiority is more important to them), is that every time these threads are posted, they'll be putting people off turning to Mumsnet when they have a real problem.

MN is supposed to help parents, not make them feel as though they're not good enough to post here.

This in spades.

We all have our strengths and weaknesses and some are more obvious at times than others. Ignorance towards things like dyslexia (because in a lot of cases this is what it will be) robs people of their self esteem when the irony is that people that criticise are trying to massage their own lacking self-importance.

BellePeppa · 10/04/2023 13:50

One that really has me 🥴 is using went instead of gone. ‘I have went ’ that can’t possibly sound right to someone whose mother tongue is English! I think it’s more an American thing but surely people know when to use gone and not went. I’ve heard it so many times (mostly by Americans) that I ended up googling it and it’s definitely a thing there.

RichardHeed · 10/04/2023 13:50

ThreeblackCats · 10/04/2023 13:38

Ect rather than etc really grinds my gears. It’s three letters! People are ignorant and low key illiterate. I’ve learned to accept their lack of grammar.

*low-key.

BellePeppa · 10/04/2023 13:51

Hotcrossed · 10/04/2023 13:48

stationery pen
stationary car

I always think of e for envelope as a way of remembering.

BlueJellycat · 10/04/2023 13:53

I'm dyslexic. Reminds me really that 99% of people view me as a thicko

Turnipworkharder · 10/04/2023 13:53

bellac11 · 10/04/2023 11:53

Wander and wonder being used the wrong way round as well.

My brain has a mental block with these two words......I have to check anytime I use one of them 😁

toptail22 · 10/04/2023 13:55

Oh god this annoys me. BROUGHT 😡

whirlyhead · 10/04/2023 13:57

Minor annoyances: Mixing up few and less. Which loads of people do.

Plus saying “you’ve done good”, “you’re all doing good”. It just sounds horrid.

Saying “can I get a drink” to a waiter (American). My partner always says “yes you can, off you go!” To the other person’s bemusement normally.

Lifeinlists · 10/04/2023 13:57

worraliberty · 10/04/2023 13:39

The thing is, those who get so 'outraged' by it that they apparently can't seem to stop their fingers typing to tell the person off, should stop using internet forums.

Imagine being so angry about it that you feel you have to tell that person they're doing it wrong?

Just stop logging on if it's turning you into that person and leave everyone else to their own business.

I havent noticed any 'outrage' although you do seem a bit exercised by the thread. It's a discussion about the often irritating and common misuse of the English language. It's a valid subject.

Also it's AIBU which isn't noted for its delicacy where opinions are concerned.

BellePeppa · 10/04/2023 13:58

If we’re going to be pedantic on here then I’d say not knowing when to use bare or bear as in ‘bear with me’ (not ‘bare with me). Think of unbearable. I don’t think anyone would spell it unbareable (at least I’ve never seen it).

PriamFarrl · 10/04/2023 13:59

BeyondMyWits · 10/04/2023 13:04

Those who are pointing out errors in other people's postings should look at their own motives. Do you do it to actually help others, or because it makes you feel superior.

I used to be pedantic, but had a think about it. Now stuff just goes right on by.

The issue is that words have meanings. You can’t just use the wrong word, it means a different thing.

Lifeinlists · 10/04/2023 13:59

haven't 😉

Cam22 · 10/04/2023 14:01

NowZeusHasLainWithLeda · 10/04/2023 12:59

It's the people who say, "brought is the past tense of bring .." etc that make me laugh. It's as if they think they're somehow showing off some superior linguistic knowledge by typing out a basic grammar fact.

Maybe they’re trying to get through to those who missed the lessons in primary school?
It is “superior linguistic knowledge” to them however much certain people might sneer.

PizzaPastaWine · 10/04/2023 14:01

BlueJellycat · 10/04/2023 13:53

I'm dyslexic. Reminds me really that 99% of people view me as a thicko

The percentage of people that think you are have clearly not got a grasp of dyslexia and how it impacts on almost everything.

I have dyslexic DC, family full of them and colleagues. I'm in complete admiration of their creativity and ability to view things in a way that others can't...most of all their empathy towards others - that's lacking with someone this thread.

I'm sure I'm not just 1% on the population @BlueJellycat. It's really awful that this is how some people can make you feel.

FloMoJo · 10/04/2023 14:01

FB marktplace where everyone now says ‘need gone today’ as if it is a complete sentence. It’s not.

NowZeusHasLainWithLeda · 10/04/2023 14:02

whirlyhead · 10/04/2023 13:57

Minor annoyances: Mixing up few and less. Which loads of people do.

Plus saying “you’ve done good”, “you’re all doing good”. It just sounds horrid.

Saying “can I get a drink” to a waiter (American). My partner always says “yes you can, off you go!” To the other person’s bemusement normally.

*fewer.

Very interesting thread in Pedants' from some years ago now pointing out that the less/fewer "rule" isn't nearly as basic as those wishing to assert that less=uncountable, fewer= countable think. David Crystal agrees.

NowZeusHasLainWithLeda · 10/04/2023 14:02

FloMoJo · 10/04/2023 14:01

FB marktplace where everyone now says ‘need gone today’ as if it is a complete sentence. It’s not.

FB what?

BellePeppa · 10/04/2023 14:03

I do think it’s bad form to correct adults (although I will always correct my adult kids). I’ll never correct a friend or someone over their errors but that doesn’t mean I don’t really really secretly want to 😁

NowZeusHasLainWithLeda · 10/04/2023 14:04

Cam22 · 10/04/2023 14:01

Maybe they’re trying to get through to those who missed the lessons in primary school?
It is “superior linguistic knowledge” to them however much certain people might sneer.

Do you think?

I'd say they're protesting too much.

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