Thats solvable.
Open conversation.
What we plan to do, and why we think it's a good thing.
Answers to common questions, with straight answers. Open to rowing back if it turns out that other people's rights are being infringed. Not accusing ordinary people who notice as being far right, bigots and the rest. Don't write letters calling on politicians and media not to listen to ordinary people with reasonable concerns.
Not present the Irish public with a series of fait accompli, The GRA itself, males in women's prison, schools being built with unisex toilets, males in women's sports, women being erased in their own health literature. It seems like activist orgs were hard at work in the Library service too, or there'd be a range of views represented in the Health section.