To tell them to fuck off?

[gallina]

Over the past year my partners family have been awful to me and said some vile things behind my back,

I had a miscarriage just before Christmas and they said I was lying about it because I didn't have a scan picture, as one example.

They are from abroad and want to visit within the next month. Partner has asked me to collect them from the train station as a taxi will be too expensive.

I've not been included in any plans, don't know exactly when they're coming and when he mentioned they were going to visit i told him I want nothing to do with it. He didn't even say please can I pick them up just can I.

Aibu to just tell the lot of them to fuck off? I don't want to see them at all.

So, you have 2 children under 2 and were pregnant with a 3rd.
With a 'partner' who doesn't care about you and whom you do not seem to like very much.
Why - just why?
What's your plan for your and your children's future?

@TessoftheDubonnet was very much in love with him until the miscarriage and this all happened, then everything went to shit.

@Pixiedust1234 yes that's right he doesn't even have the time off work! I am absolutely not entertaining them

Wow. Is there anywhere you can go? They will make your life hell. He'll be at work all day, you're on mat leave, they will be on your case ALL DAY EVERY DAY and if you don't please them, they will see it as proof that you're awful. GET AWAY!!!

Tell your DH to tell them nobody will be at home on (whatever date they intend visiting). He has to work and you have arranged to stay with your DF for a few days, because she’s not feeling well, haven’t you?

And repeat until DH is available to stay home and entertain them