Please help me settle an argument (lighthearted)

[Macaroni46]

Bananas and custard!

DP and I fancied some for tea tonight. (Relatively new relationship so our first time of making this delicacy.)
I put the cut up banana in the saucepan along with the custard so that the banana can cook.
DP looks horrified. He's only ever poured the hot custard over the cold cut up banana in the bowl.
So who is being unreasonable?
(Can't activate voting as on phone app).

Team DP. It's the temperature juxtaposition that's so lovely.

Your partner is the sane one in the relationship 🤷‍♀️. You are just odd 🤣

LTB. But for his sake not yours you grotty banana poacher 🤣

@Alphabet1spaghetti2 I hate you so much right now 😂

WARM bananas?! What kind of madness is that...!

Omg cold bananas AND cold custard surely?!

Cold bananas hot custard.

Cold banana

Bah ha ha, you seem so offended by a banana 😂

m.youtube.com/watch?v=5yqAaejuRn8

@Shodan 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you know you love me really.
could be worse - minions and BANNANA!!!!!!

Cold banana

m.youtube.com/watch?v=eUSP5Owz_tQ
@Shodan

Like a little narna trifle

Cold Banana all the live day long with custard - barbecue banana - entirely a different thing. When I was very little Granny used to make cold banana with hot custard if she made it or cold out of a tin - liked both but this is 50 years ago. Haven't had it since then

But maybe this sensible discussion you and DP had about the merits of each is a good portent for your future together . Communication is a good thing in a relationship @Macaroni46 😁

COLD banana and COLD custard. Anything else is rank.

Cold bananas. And preferably ones that are only just ripe. Anything remotely mushy or brown has to end up as banana bread. Which is also nice with custard.

@Bimblybomeyelash I agree with no brown bits. I had a relative who used to try and tell me cowboys eat the brown bits and so should you. Not convinced then , not convinced now . Pure white / pale yellow all the way for me.

East Midlands here. I have never in my life seen or even heard of anyone 'cooking' the bananas. They're hardly cold anyway, they're room temperature. No I've only ever added them afterwards. This also allows for a bit of individuality. I like a high banana to custard ratio but I add a dash of milk to 'my' bit of custard left at the end because I like it runny/thin

This is exactly right.

@BellaJuno
Yes,but we are talking bananas and custard here not fritters.