WWYD - influencer suddenly stopped posting

[Dotty1111]

Not really an AIBU but concerned an influencer with 50k followers on insta, an ebook etc hasn't posted since January. Aware there could be lots of reasons but clearly this was a business for them and its just stopped abruptly.

I've sent a message that hasn't been responded to. They do have an email address which looks like a personal address listed but don't want to hound them. Regularly think about them and wonder if they are OK!!!

WWYD?

I sincerely hope you're under 16 because if not this is the most tragic post I've ever seen, fucking influencer 🙄

No one has asked you to name her….quite the opposite

Well Your initial post reads as though you're very invested. She's a real person with a mum, best friend etc. if anything is wrong the people in her actual life will know about it.

It’s not due to you noticing that this influencer has stopped posting that people are saying what they are. It’s because you think you need to do something about it as if you’re somehow part of their life, like a friend or family member. It is quite odd and your thinking does seem a bit unhealthy.

Ignore all the snide comments @Dotty1111 .

I think it's normal to be a bit curious when someone you've engaged with everyday for ages suddenly vanishes. It's really not weird or creepy or sad to wonder whether they're okay.

You sound fixated on this one person to style your wardrobe.

Maybe find others.

Or maybe style it yourself with what you like and not on what someone else tells you to.

I had this recently with someone I follow, turned out she'd been hacked so had to go about suspending her account. She was off line for a bout 6 months all in.

Agree

This made me chuckle

@Dotty1111 there was a poster on here last week who wants to be Katie Price's friend.

I think the two of you would get on.