As usual, MN posters (or a lot of them) are seeing this through a ‘champagne socialist’ lens where they insist the tab should be picked up by the Tories, the magic money tree and the big corporations which will apparently hang around in the U.K. if we tax them more even though they’re already leaving.
Nobody has been able to explain to me why, having crossed through several safe and wealthy countries, these people are then willing to risk their lives and their children’s to cross to the U.K. Something about having friends here or a cousin? Really, you would risk your kid’s life for that? It’s bloody stupid, and I don’t think the U.K. should be taking on moral responsibility for these foolhardy and mad decisions.
Secondly, 90% of them are men. 90%! I don’t want to be offering asylum to overwhelmingly men. To me, women and children are the most vulnerable in conflict, I would much rather take them first as per Ukraine. If their home country is so incredibly dangerous they’re forced to leave and seek asylum, why are their wives and kids okay to stay there unaccompanied for another year+ while the bloke makes a run for it? Sorry, it speaks volumes about how they see the value of their women’s and children’s lives.
It’s fashionable to try to excuse away the above but if the U.K. was to descend into conflict tomorrow, there is absolutely no way DH would make a run for it without our daughter (and me!). No way. We would rather live in a safe and wealthy ‘second choice’ country together than two of us be left behind to face it while DH bunks off to somewhere which allegedly has more generous benefits.
Finally, while I don’t live in an area of high refugees, I really feel for those who do. It’s all very well the champagne/Prosecco socialists on here instructing everyone else to take these men, but if it was announced the houses across their nice street were to be made refugee HMOs they would hate it. There is a reason those who are living next to this chaos are the ones objecting, and I have every sympathy with them.
I was very happy to take Ukrainian refugees, I would be very happy to take virtually any number of Syrian/Afghan child refugees although I would want a safe route set up to get them here. But grown men who have run off and left them to face whatever enemy is so bad that they cannot stay themselves? Nope. Flame me 🤷🏼♀️