Hi Op@reddwarfgeek
You do realise you as a person are worth a lot more than the way he mistreats you by calling you moaning Cunt,
I dont know if you work or not?,
But even if you work on lower income or not working unemployed,you can still be entitled to universal social security benefit money too,
As a single parent,
Also can I strongly suggest you make sure you have separate bank/ building society credit union accounts from your joke of a so called Partner or husband ,
Squirrel away as much money you are able to afford to do so,
I know we living in financially difficult times,
So you have enough money behind you , when you decide ready to leave him for good,
Also vist citizens Advice bureau or anybody or any charitable organisation reputable ones who can give you budgeting sound advice .
Draw strength @reddwarfgeek from the fact lots of women on here and in real life have walked well worn path and got shot of of a Losers selfish abusive Pricks of a sick joke of a partner as this,
Also look into address what on earth has happened in your past in your life has drawn you to be acctracted or and be acctractive to a abusive twat of a man child guy like this Op?
it could be your childhood go back as far as this in some way,
Seek effective good therapy that will help support you so you will heal from whatever Crap experinces you have unfortunately in your life,
Also there are other charties such as women Aid ect,
You can find out names of others charties on the Internet,
that can support you to get away from this abusive Prick of sick joke partner
Please do so
Rember he knows that calling you abusive names ect as this is totally undermine you as he knows that if you develop or he sees signs you are becoming more cofindent he needs to knock your cofindence to the kerb as he knows that if you were cofindent enough you can do a lot better in life without him,
He is very insecure man in reality he needs you to prop up his fragile sense of ego himself to feel better about himself,
Rember we only get one life Op@
How old is your daughter Op?
I was a single parent left abusive partner relationship,
Social services gave me temporary support of women's charity specifically supports women to back on their feet too,
I also for while had a childminder registered with social services to have a much needed break, it was free whilst I had temporary support from social services too
Could you try this or even pay for a child minder out of social security benefit or and money that when you separate he will have to pay child maintenance as he father of your child,
Also you British Gov are going to address child care financial money wise issue make it affordable more so so more worthwhile compatible for women to go back to work if wish to or need to,
Also you can go back to college/day times Adult education or night school/or do online accredited courses if more convenient ect such as certain colleges have creche childcare facilities or have affordable childcare support
,find out about this with whatever learning facility it is,
Best of Luck Op
You are 100 per cent believe you deserve better
You are worth so much more than dead loss prick man child sick joke so called partner