This is such a load of old rubbish. You've really swallowed the whole incel guidebook, haven't you. You really need to read and re-read ConfusedNT's post.
What are the politics of the HR department? It's not even a thing. HR departments aren't some mass movement, 🙄. They reflect society's beliefs not the other way around.
If anything, there's been a combination of women wanting to take an active part in public life, and men no longer wanting to carry all the load and to have equal, fulfilling relationships. There may be some inadequates who can't take the idea of equality and need to be king of the household to prop up their flagging identities. But it does not mean that we design the whole of society around them.
I largely brought up both of my male children. They are perfectly in touch with their masculinity and find no problem finding lovely girlfriends. Largely because they are neither raging egotists nor inadequate bedroom dwellers.
Maybe because men no longer have to hunt mammoths, they no longer need to have such high levels of testosterone? IDK. But I know plenty of happy men with successful, interesting wives. So maybe high levels of testosterone aren't needed for a man to be happy and fulfilled.
What you see as browbeaten, many men see as choice, balance and a sense of relief. Many men don't want to be unreconstructed cavemen types. It's those that do that struggle with the real world. But women and the majority of decent men don't want to have their lives built around some raging desperates.